theAsianparent Site Map - Articles for January 2022
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- 2022-02-075 weeks pregnant now. Is this normal?
- 2022-02-07I m looking for chinese class for my p2 kid.
- 2022-02-07Hi mummies! Any clinic recommendation that can use cda?
- 2022-02-07Looking for a support group with mummies in first tri! ❤ TIA!
#pleasehelp #advicepls #firstbaby #pregnancy #1stimemom
- 2022-02-07My 5month have these marks spreading on his legs.Does anyone what it is and how to treat it?
- 2022-02-07Im 4 weeks pregnant. Anyone progesterone level dropped and had to go for a progesterone shot? Took blood test on Sat and level was 53 nmol/L. Did another blood test and level was 48 nmol/L. Also took progesterone shot. Due to come again for another shot this Thurs. Anyone had similar experience before and can you share how your pregnancy journey was. Kind of worried as I had a miscarriage before.
- 2022-02-07Hi! I just got my GBS Swab done today. May I know when and how will the doctor advice if the result is positive?
My next appointment is in 3 weeks time and it’s long from now.
I’m a sub patient from KKH.
- 2022-02-07Does mummy out there who send their daughter or son to infant care so long already never cry since first day achool and suddenly cry whenever send to school? I feel so heart pain to see my twins cry whenever me send them to infant class. Its not like thwir first day of school.. been sending them since last year Feb.. #advicepls
- 2022-02-07Anyone with experience having to deliver while diagnosed with Covid? My gynae at a private hospital says you have to deliver at KKH if youre tested positive beyond 34 weeks and/or in labour.
- 2022-02-07Anyone know the cost without the package? Thanks 🙏🙏
- 2022-02-07Hi mummies.. just a question.. im so worried tat i can’t see my bum.. isit too early. I can’t tell 😭😭.. but at the same time i tell myself my pregnancy test is positive
Worried me 😭😭
- 2022-02-07my baby is 5 months old. Switched from NAN optipro to enfamil A+. I followed enfamil tube's instruction about 5 months old use 150ml and 5 scoops. but the enfamil website says 3-6 months old use 180ml. Which ml should i use for my 5 months old baby?
- 2022-02-07Hi mommies, is it okay that my hips is painful? I am currently on my first trimester (10 weeks). I’ve been having abdominal pain and backaches.. ☹️ #pleasehelp #firstbaby
- 2022-02-07Need to get some info. Mummy who have taken booster vaccine. Any symptoms and taken in how many weeks. Also which brand. Thanks
- 2022-02-07hi mummies,
my LO is 28 days today and for the past few nights she’s been sleeping on top of me, I’ve tried to put her down in her cot but each time I do she gets fussy or get shocked multiple times. I’m just afraid I’m cultivating a bad habit by letting her sleep on top of me but it seems like it makes her calm. Is it ok? how do I get her to sleep on her own in the cot?
#advicepls #breastfeed #pleasehelp #pregnancy
- 2022-02-07We are trying to stop swaddling our baby gradually. He is four months old now. He keeps crying when we unswaddle one arm, now he has been crying for half an hour and we know that he is tired because he keeps rubbing his eyes. Any advices how we can help our baby to transit better? Do we just continue to let him cry?
- 2022-02-07still cant feel baby movement. or isit just suppose to be a sudden hit in the stomach kind of feeling, this is my 2nd baby.
- 2022-02-07currently 28 weeks pregnant and just got diagnosed covid-19 positive. have not yet went for any scans, supposingly in the next few days but i’m in quarantine now. just want to check, anyone has the same experience? and will baby be fine?
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- 2022-02-07Hi mummies ! What if i decide to take the booster shot after giving birth, is it okay? gynae said its okay(safe) to proceed. But i heard stories.. so im really nt sure if i can do it after giving birth as we are given a time frame to do the booster shot now.. :/#advicepls #pleasehelp
- 2022-02-07Noticed very little brown discharge today, shud i be concern? I just found out im pregnant a few days ago. Tmr is my first appt at polyclinic. Do i need to mention abt the discharge to the doc? This is my first pregnancy. Am so nervous.
- 2022-02-07How did your first baby movements feel like? I don’t what if what I’m experiencing are baby movements or just bowels… I’m 20 weeks now
- 2022-02-07I just tripped and fall in the bus due to the slippery floor. Luckily i managed to hold on to the pole, so i endes up falling to my knee and not down flat on stomach. But im currently 30 weeks pregnant. Should i go to the doctor still to get a check? Im not worried about myself, but the baby im carrying. I do feel some movement in the stomach, but still it's quite worrying. Any advice?
- 2022-02-07Hi all, I am looking for daytime nanny who can babysit my baby after my confinement at my house. Do let me know if any recommendations as I am very worried leaving the baby home alone with a stranger when I hv to go back to work #1stimemom #firstbaby
- 2022-02-07I am currently pregnant and xlcovid positive. Planning to get my booster once i'm done with isolation and covid negative. Question, ive gotten moderna for my 2 jabs and is it okay to get phizer for my booster? Heard alot that it's symptoms is less (not exactly sure or not) than taking moderna.#advicepls
- 2022-02-08Hi mummies! I am so confused! Does the first trimester consist of 12 or 13 weeks? 😵
The app seems to indicate 13 weeks as first trimester but I was told it's 12 weeks 😵
- 2022-02-08Theres a faint line, but im not sure. Am i pregnant?
- 2022-02-085 wks pregnant, can I drink ribena jelly? Thank you.
- 2022-02-08Hello. Is anyone company hiring admin assistant for 5 days work week? I have been finding jobs for months but there's no job opening available? #pleasehelp
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What’s the number of sleep hours for toddler below 2 year pls?
- 2022-02-08Prenatal expenses of $900 is reimbursement by cash?
- 2022-02-08For KKH subsidized patient, can we request for HL prior to birth? At least 2 weeks before birth. My nature of work can be really straining at times i just have to push myself each day. Im 34 weeks now.
- 2022-02-08Based on gestation calculation supposed to be 7wks, but encountered slight spotting and bleeding. Went for a scan but was dated 5wks++, can only see 3mm fetus no heartbeat. HCG on 2 days had slight increase but didn’t double. Also after the vaginal scan, bleeding becomes more, but still manageable using panty liner. But saw bloody jelly like substance this morning. Very worried, anybody had this issue?
- 2022-02-08Hi mommies. I had my first appt at KKH yesterday (sub patient) however I find it far especially that I live in the west and NUH is nearer to my place. Do you think I can switch? What’s worst now I have been going to and fro A&E due to the pains I’m having now.
- 2022-02-08Hi Mummies,
I’m a ftm here and recently got diagnosed with GDM after i failed my OGTT. May i know what kind of food do you take? I’m meeting a dietitian only next week and would like to change my eating lifestyle as soon as i can before a proper session with the dietitian.
- 2022-02-08Hi mummies, what time does your toddler sleeps at night? And how many hours is sufficient?
My boy is in full day playgroup so he took dinner at 6.30-7pm and 9.30 has his milk before sleeping. He wakes up at 7.30am for his sch. Not sure if the night time too late ?
- 2022-02-08FTM here #firstbaby Wondering if it's just me, am I weird or is it normal to be drooling so much uncontrollably 😅
- 2022-02-08Hello. Do you keep yourself awake at work? I took 30mins nap, dranks lot of fluids. But i find myself sleepy at 3pm. I do not eat a lot and I'm hungry every 3 hrs. What are some snacks I can take during work?
#advicepls #pregnancy
- 2022-02-08Hi mummy , have any of you have issue with baby thick neck and on high risk. ?
- 2022-02-08Anyone experienced any changes to their milk supply after Vac/booster? Am worried supply may drop. Thank you
- 2022-02-08Been puking out everything I eat but at least there is something to puke rather than puking acid. But after puking, there comes the gastric discomfort and being weak. Anyone experiencing the same? Am 9 wks+
- 2022-02-08Hi, anyone can advise which particular sunscreen and face moisturiser is pregnancy friendly? Or any brands that are safe for pregnancy use? Thanks alot!! #advicepls #pleasehelp
- 2022-02-08Hi, I'm on my 31st week. This pregnancy will be my first time packing for my labour day. I want to be prepared when the time comes because my doctor told me to get induce at 38 week as baby is bigger than range. Can anyone let me know what items are to bring or check-list for me to use to pack my maternity bag?
- 2022-02-08I have gastric before pregnancy and usually need to eat but since pregnant i got no appetite and nausea but feel abit hungry. If i eat a bit depends what i eat(biscuit,bread)..i will tend to vomit. Sometimes is just vomit water with bit of blood. i lose weight more than 5kg since i got pregnant. Is this normal? I m so stress😣#advicepls #1stimemom #firstbaby
- 2022-02-08I’ve read that some mummies had frequent BH contractions & it turns out that it was real contractions for labour. How do we differentiate? & are there really real contractions that are bearable that we can’t know the difference?
- 2022-02-08Hi, im at 16wks and gynae said that i have mild vaginal infection. I was prescribed flagystatin Pessary to insert in my vagina. Im concerned it will harm the baby. Anyone has done this before? How was your experience?
- 2022-02-08Hi Mummies,
Im trying to introduce formula to my 16 weeks LO as going to infant care soon. Fed her 30ml of NAN yesterday and today she did not poop at all. previously she used to poop at least twice a day on full EBM. Is this normal or is she having constipation due to the formula? Should we try other formula?
Thanks for advise!
#1stimemom #pleasehelp
- 2022-02-08Hi mummies! Is it normal for you to feel pain on your lower left pelvic area, especially when walking, wearing a pants and moving around?? #pleasehelp
- 2022-02-08Anyone experiencing the same thing? So far I’m in 10th weeks of pregnancy journey, no symptoms so far except from fatigue. Anyone else feeling such? I’ve been reading some of you having nausea and all 😅 kinda worried I’m not feeling anything at all….. I even went for a hike today. Just curious if this is normal?
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- 2022-02-08Hi everyone, may I ask your help to advice of letting baby sleep in electronic baby cradle (Yao lan) at 2 months old? My baby is born premature and keeps wanting to be carried day and night and we are all tired.. is it ok to let baby sleep in that cradle all day?
- 2022-02-08After our 1st born, our lives have greatly changed and our emotions as well. There are alot of ups and downs. Now my 1st born is 2 years old. My sex appetite seems to reduce greatly and often can't reach orgasm, just doing for the sake. We have been taking care of baby ourselves, my husband is a very hands on dad however our finance dipped greatly and I am the one paying for the house with cpf money that are from when I used to work. We both stopped paying insurance too. Husband pays for meals, utilities and his car. Groceries half half. I am living on money from my own savings but have since wiped out after I left my job to care for my boy 1 year ago..currently living on money from my parents. I am looking for a full time job again after disconnecting from the working society 1 year but honestly I am quite sian to go back to work as most of the companies and ppl i met are hypocrites and bad bosses. Few and far between will I meet good colleagues and boss. I am thinking of doing my own business but not sure where to start. Husband only do part time work now. He vented on me before by shouting say finance is the greatest problem however I already helped him by letting him use my cpf.. As a mom now I find the need to have to take care of a young toddler and hard to go back to full time job. My boy just started school 1 month ago and still resist school. Also my boy is sick and of course we did not let him go school for 1 week already. If I am working full time how do I take 1 week leave in this instance? Husband has always been a free lancer doing reno projects. However he does not have projects for 2 years already. Told him to do something else he only does part time work. Tired of talking already. I even keep dreaming of a new partner. I still love my husband, I want a 2nd kid too but I feel now when both of us are alone when kid is in school, we have nothing much to talk. We don't have dates anymore too after my 1st born. Also due to covid lockdown and restrictions, previously can't dine out much and also since covid can't travel. Wanted to do a family staycation but didn't happen in the end(as staycations also not cheap for our tight finance). We also can't leave our boy with our parents as he just only want to be with us. Recently I always can't reach orgasm when he foreplay and my clit hurts which makes me feel like crying inside as I can't reach orgasm. I always ended up says I don't want to have orgasm but actually I want just no mood and don't feel comfortable etc. What should I do?
- 2022-02-08Does anyone experience numbness on their fingertips during postpartum? I am currently feeling numbness mostly my right hand middle/ring finger to palm for almost 2 week and ongoing...
Not sure if its CTS. #pleasehelp #1stimemom #advicepls
- 2022-02-08Im at 37 weeks and baby weight is 2.6kg.
Is the weight normal?
- 2022-02-08My baby is 4 months plus but he doesnt want to drink milk. even after 5 hours also he doesnt want to drink milk.. #pleasehelp #1stimemom #firstbaby
- 2022-02-09Hi, am currently at second trimester. Will need to dye my hair.
Is there any recommended salon to go to for organic hair dye? Appreciate advice thank you!
- 2022-02-09Just curious….
My period has been very irregular. Could come 1 month after the last one or 2-4 months after. The longest was 4 months. I have never experienced menses cramps before so I’m not sure how it feels like. Are there anyone that is like me or am I just weird? Hahaha 😅
Am 38 weeks preggy now. I’ve read a lot of mummies saying that labour contractions could start out like menses cramps. But I’ve never experienced it before so I’m just clueless & waiting for any signs of labour to come. So far not yet……….
- 2022-02-09My baby didn’t poop yesterday today morning poop twice..
2nd time poop with little blood in it..
Is it common or do I need to visit pediatrician immediately ?
I’m really worried pls suggest
Can I share pic here??
- 2022-02-09After Tested positive for pregnancy, do i go to the GP for confirmation before finding a gynaecologist in the hospital ?
- 2022-02-09this is my 2nd pregnancy & its SO MUCH HARDER. my first born was a breeze & it makes me feel like a first time mum on my current pregnancy. but anyways, im at week 27 & it has been a drag with the aches, nausea & reflux. my job enables me to actually work from home but it seems so hard to explain to my boss ( male ) that its a drag to commute to the office & back. do hospitals write memos for this?
- 2022-02-09Went to confirm my pregnancy 2-3 weeks ago at a polyclinic and referred to my choice of hospital. However the earliest appt date is on 30th March, isn’t that too late? I’m 7 weeks now. #advicepls #firstbaby
- 2022-02-09Hi mommies , what happen if we miss our appointments at third trimester especially 35weeks onwards?
- 2022-02-09Hi, I’m now 9 weeks pregnant. Scan on 7 weeks was ok. The next gyane appt will be in 4 weeks times. Around 12-13weeks pregnant. What do you do in between this period to ease of anxiety and worry? And also boobs no longer feel sore and tummy not as bloated. #advicepls
- 2022-02-09Hi does anyone have reviews for blk 287 CCK Ave 2 PCF childcare or CCKgreenfield montessori ? tks!
- 2022-02-09The shop mentioned there should be no alcohol as its exposed to oxygen.the same as kimchi..
- 2022-02-09During the first 5 weeks have brown discharge, then take some medicine it stops. Gyne ask me to finish the medicine then no need to take anymore. However the brown discharge occur again on today 😢. Is that normal? Anyone face have the same experience?
- 2022-02-09Hi mummies,
What kind of breakfast do u prepare for your kids?
Thanks
- 2022-02-09Hi everyone, im currently 23weeks 6 days today. Last night im feeling this pain in my lower abdomen and the left lower abdomen feels like have that pulling feeling until my vagina. I also have pain in my lower back pain. Is this still round ligament pain?
The pulling feeling is okay okay when still early, but around 12mn the pulling feeling is with the lower back and lower abdomen pain already.
- 2022-02-09I am currently in my 8 weeks ++ and been going to KKH for check up and I was thinking of changing to Private Gynae when I reach Third trimester. Will it be too late ? Anyone got female gynae to recommend ? I am okay with Mount A , Thomson and Parkway East.
Thank you in advance !
- 2022-02-09Is it normal for not feeling anything in 15 weeks and 6 days inside the stomach ? #advicepls
- 2022-02-09I'm 8th week and i just realized that retinol is not recommended to use during pregnancy.
My facewash contains retinyl palmitate. Does this mean that i need to switch to a different facial wash? I have combo skin and i tend to break out alot if i don't use my current face wash. Any advise on this pls?
- 2022-02-09Hi mommies I'm pregnant with baby number 2... Now 8weeks..later in evening I feel like breathing very deeply or need more air to breath.. is this normal ? Anyone experienced like this..pls help me out
- 2022-02-09as my toddler has been eating solid much more often his milk intake got lesser so I was thinking of switching to a cheaper brand instead of Similac (the one he is drinking now) any brand to recommend that can help continue the growth of my toddler? is pediasure a good brand to change to?
- he went into playgroup and got asked to only prepare 1 time milk for him that's why I am thinking of changing since he also ate dinner after school and drank only before bed or maybe not drink at all when he is full...#pleasehelp #advicepls
- 2022-02-09I've been thinking if I should ask my boss if there's any possibility of letting me WFH 100% at least during my 1st trimester. However, my concern is that if I was allowed to WFH 100%, other colleagues will start asking. But I don't intend to let them know about my pregnancy until the 2nd trimester. Also, colleagues might find it unfair if I get to WFH 100% but they don't. Am I thinking too much when I should be thinking for myself too? Do we have the right to make such request?
- 2022-02-09Any mummies who went on did anomaly scan? I was given the option and will be having an ultrasound for my next visit (at 20 wks). Any advice to do anomaly scan? #advicepls
- 2022-02-09just wanna ask if it's normal for stomach to be twitching continuously before 12 weeks? like what does it means? #2ndtimemommy
- 2022-02-09Hi.
Im 34 weeks pregnant and dying to eat Sashimi frm the 1st time i gotta know that i was pregnant.
Anyone knows if its safe fr me just satisfy my tastebud with some raw salmon?😭
- 2022-02-09This is my 1st baby. And i can felts some movements in my belly. Is it possible the baby move? Im so excited!!
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- 2022-02-09I'm in my 1st trimester and recently, I've been feeling tired whenever I walk, even when I walk short distances. Hence, my walking speed has slowed down. I also tend to hunch my back when I walk. Climbing up just a few steps of stairs is also tiring for me. Not sure if it is partly due to the mask. Does anyone else feel the same? #1stimemom
- 2022-02-10I’m 7 weeks Pregnant now and I have no appetite. My weight drops everyday. All the food that I like doesn’t interests me anymore. Anyone have same experience? Is it normal? Any tips to boost appetite? #firstbaby #advicepls
- 2022-02-10Hi all...is there chances pregnant even were protected having sex all d way..frds family keep saying I look like pregnant cause my kids very super clingy not theirs usual self...
- 2022-02-10I'm at 31 weeks and so paranoid that any of my movements will affect baby. Like when I toss and turn in my sleep. And when I'm putting on pants or bottoms, my stomach will fold on itself and I'm scared this will hurt him.
- 2022-02-10My baby not wantingbto eat all this solid food… i have tried so many flavours of porridges and texture. Is this normal?
- 2022-02-10I have a 2yr old attending cc and a 4months old girl which will enter ifc in august.
I have to send my helper back by aug as i cant afford to pay her a higher salary. Hiring a new helper doesnt helps the situation as all are asking for high salary. However, my husb and my working hrs can't accomodate to send and pick them up from sch. What should i do? Can someone share how do u cope?
- 2022-02-10My wife is pregnant and she has done her 2nd dose of vaccine while not pregnant at that time. Her workplace is forcing her to go for booster shot. Anybody knows of any positive or negative effects of booster shot?
- 2022-02-10hi, can't really find much info on this, but i would like to ask the moms-to-be out there if you changed your skincare/ makeup brands and switch to safe for pregnancy ones?
i checked my products but they didn't really state if it safe or not for pregnant women. is it okay to continue using current brands, such as fresh, drunk elephant, and some korean brands? helps!
- 2022-02-10Hi all, sorry for random question,
Anyone know if this snack halal or not?
Thanks in advance
- 2022-02-10Did anyone take their booster near their EDD? How was it? I'm week 38 now and baby is quite low already, my first 2 were Pfizer. My gynae suggested I take Pfizer so baby can get some antibodies over the remaining week(s), and said that transfer of antibodies is lower through breastmilk. Wondering if I should take it coz my baby is quite low already and it seems like I'm losing my mucus plug. Thanks!!
- 2022-02-10How’s the pay at Mums @ work like?
- 2022-02-10just had a nightmare which seemed like a long morbid one .. was about dead babies and i was holding one in my hands .. this made me anxious and super worried about my baby .. worst nightmare to havw especially when im pregnant .. plus, i have covid .. my husband told me its gonna be okay, just a nightmare don't think about it .. but how can i, it was horrible. #pregnancy
- 2022-02-10I hv been experiencing nightly leg cramps since 2 weeks ago and is affecting sleep. Tried stretching calf muscles before bed, putting pillow to raise legs, eating more calcium and magnesium rich food but no use. Any other solution/suggestion to try?
- 2022-02-10Hi I’m having soft stool and then diarrhea yesterday and today. The soft stool are yellowish in colour , is it a sign of concern? I saw that some mentioned it’s an early sign if labour but I’m only week 30, please kindly advise, thank you!
- 2022-02-10Hi Mummies,
My 3.5 month old has only consumed 240ml of milk since 12am today. She on fully on EBM and today she keeps sucking abit then use her tongue to reject the bottle. Not sure whats going on, or is it the legendary milk strike? Worried😔
How to get her to drink more?
- 2022-02-10Hi mummies!
My 3 weeks old son will only sleep for atleast 10mins not even 30mins or an hour during the day and will cry alot at night. Help need advice!
TIA.
- 2022-02-10I am week 16 now and the nausea and vomiting did not stop since week 3. It is hard to go to work onsite and I have been taking MC/HL/AL regularly. Any mum faces discrimination or difficulty at work due to inability to commit? I find it so stressful and thinking it’s almost impossible to return to work even after 4 months… How did you girls manage it???
- 2022-02-10Hi there - Do you mummies have any advise on how tidealnwith a 5 month old throwing up milk everyday? Is here any meds or good specialist you would recco? My LO is not feeding well = sleeping well. Thank you!
- 2022-02-10Hi i’m currently 7 weeks pregnant. Went for my first scan and they spotted the sac inside uterus as well as yolk in the sac. Doctor said baby still small cannot be seen. Going for follow-up scan in 10 days time. I’m kind of worried hoping that baby doing well.
Anyone of you experience this before?
- 2022-02-10I am tired with my family, spouse and his family.They bought all the things they want for the baby and decide things without me. Even when I say the stroller is too heavy for me, they went ahead and bought it. And when I ask if anyone is throwing a baby shower they just push it around and no one cares about the mummy. I feel so alone and uncared for.
- 2022-02-10I got really angry and yelled for like a good few minutes and shortly after felt some random pinches around my tummy. Is it anything to worry about?? In 2nd tri! #1stimemom #advicepls
- 2022-02-10Since yesterday and today i had a brown discharge ,at first it's look like a coffee drink then now it's getting darker ,izzit normal to have this ? #pregnancy #advicepls
- 2022-02-10Any mummy took booster less than 3mths? Gynae said is fine to take anytime. Is it safe? Need advise
- 2022-02-10Hi mommies, my LO is coming 12 weeks old, today i noticed that her bcg injection spot is more swollen than usual, and there is a pus as well. Is this normal? Is there any treatment for this? Thank you.
- 2022-02-10Hello! Any mummies who had the 2 full vaccine jabs and contracted covid and had taken the 3rd booster shot? Not sure if should take now as MOH is encouraging that now. Week 26 now. Thanks!
- 2022-02-10Do you guys watch what you eat during the first trim or do you eat whatever you want? Had a miscarriage previously and I find myself being conscious of what i eat whether it is safe for the baby or not.
- 2022-02-10Hi . Cn i check anyone who just delivered at KKH recently ? For the bills , is there any deposit cash to be made ?
- 2022-02-10I am 8 weeks now. But been having toothache lately. Cn i just take paracetamol cos the pain sometime unbearable
- 2022-02-10Hi mummies, I don’t know what I seek out of this but I just need this space.
My baby turned 1 month old today. It has been overwhelming. My first 2 weeks of pp was a bliss because my mom graciously ordered my confinement food and she came over to my home everyday after work.
It all went downhill after she stopped coming over, and I don’t blame her, she works long hours.
I was basically on my own although, I have a husband but perhaps, I’m just unlucky to have one who isn’t proactive. I had to cook meals for him, clean after the home and the mess he leaves while caring for a newborn.
I’ve not gotten any sleep since I’ve given birth. I’d be lucky if I have my sleep longer than 3 hours. My baby is currently breastfeeding and she wakes up every 3 hours for feed. My husband does nothing but sleep thruout and snores- which irritates me cos imagine having a crying baby and a snoring husband.
Of course I can go on and sleep in other rooms with my baby but that would mean us sleeping on the floors as we do not have beds in other rooms.
My husband doesn’t help at all for the baby and insists that the child wants milk only.
I’m so exhausted. And I think it has been the reason for my low supply of milk which affects my baby cos she refuses formula and gets agitated when sucking for milk.
What do I even do? How do I increase milk supply? I’ve tried lactation cookies, water, milk. I know I need sleep but it’s impossible. I know I need to be happy but it’s also impossible.
What can I even do? 😔
#1stimemom #advicepls #firstbaby #worryingmom #breastfeed
- 2022-02-10I was told that im not sleep deprived enough. I know she didn't mean to say it in a bad way but im just taken aback.
Am i really selfish and ignorant to wanting better nights? LO is on mix feed. After 12MN we'll give her FM instead and i dont pump in the wee hours. I just want to function better in the morning but can't help to feel that im not doing enough. #1stimemom
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I’m in my 5th week and I have zero appetite for food… even when I’m hungry, I see the food I lost my appetite.. pls advice…. TIA
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- 2022-02-10Hi mums , has ur babies catch fever after the 2 mths shot frm poly, what do you suggest to give or do? Nurses said theres no medication for tt age. Worried.#firstbaby #pleasehelp #advicepls #bantusharing #ingintahu
- 2022-02-10Hi may I know if newborns need to wear long sleeved onesies with footies for sleeping and need to be swaddled up too? Will it be too hot? Will long sleeved onesies but legs bared be ok? Thanks! #1stimemom
- 2022-02-10Since nurse dont prescribes meds for babies, any suggestion on what to do for 2 mths bby gets fever after jab#pleasehelp #advicepls
- 2022-02-11I am puzzled that why my 6 MO baby have been waking up frequently in middle of night asking for milk when he could sleep through the night when he’s 2 month old. I notice ever since I stopped giving him breast milk at his 5 MO, he has been waking up every 4 hourly for milk. I tried to increase his milk intake to 180ml, but he will always stop at 150ml and refused to drink more. What could be the cause? And how do I counter it? This is so tiring and we had managed to make him sleep through the night when he’s 2 months old.
- 2022-02-11Can I know if any mummies get their booster shot at 14weeks? Is it safer to take booster during 2nd trimester? #1stimemom
- 2022-02-11Hello. I have a friend who is a single mum and is pregnant with a toddler. She found out she is pregnant after knowing her husband has a mistress outside. Her husband threw her and their child out of the house.
She is having a hard time looking for a full time admin job that do not requires OT and is a 5 days work. (Hopefully near Woodlands MRT). As she need to fetch and care for her toddler after work.
Is anyone company hiring? Thank you.
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- 2022-02-112 cm dilated during my 38+2 week check up yesterday bt the doctor sent me home cus I’ve got no active contractions. 😣 Baby’s head is s already engage and “dropping” though.
He did a membrane sweep on me to trigger my labour naturally and I’m currently hvg little spotting and mild cramps every nw and then.
Mommies who did membrane sweep before, jst wondering hw long did you went to labour aft the sweep? This is my 3rd baby btw.
- 2022-02-11ever since i started to feel the baby moving, which is a lot, my back and rib area is starting to feel sore. sometimes it hurts a lot.
whenever i sit and lean back a bit, i find difficulty to get up.
any tips or exercises i can do to help lessen the pain or maybe stretch?
- 2022-02-11Hi. Im giving my 2 weeks old baby 60ml milk every 2-3 hours. When should i increase the intake?
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- 2022-02-11My KKH appt is in 5 days time. I barely had vomitting series in my 1st Tri. About less than 5 times. In the 3 times that I vomitted, it was mostly liquid, acid and blood. The blood is like watery, fresh red color. Is this normal? Should I wait for my appt or should I go to A&E? #advicepls #pleasehelp
- 2022-02-11Is it really possible to understand baby's cries? It's coming 3 weeks and all her cries sound the same to me. I'm confused 🤯 Any..... tips?
- 2022-02-11Why do my boy keep rubbing hiz eye 15month
- 2022-02-11Hello mums! Im a first time mom and will be going back to work soon. I am thinking of getting an electric pump as I only have a hakkaa and 2 elvie curve- manual
Torn between baby express be free and Youha In gen 1 as theyre the cheapest..
Which one would you recommend? Or is my manual elvie curve ok for work?
Thank you.. #1stimemom #pleasehelp #firstbaby #breastfeed
- 2022-02-11Hi mummies,
Are there whatsapp group for edd in June?
Can be both Muslim or mixed group ? Interested on getting an active whatsapp group where they share group buys.
- 2022-02-11i cant consume anything if not i’ll vomit everything out. However im hungry and even when im not eating im having this severe nausea/vomiting. I need help this is sooooo bad :,(
- 2022-02-11I participated in the Spin The Wheel and won some TAP App Points but cannot see it anywhere in my account. How do I check ?
- 2022-02-11I am still in first trimester at 8 weeks. Is it safe to go for booster shot? Planning to do it before this 14th otherwise I can't go to much places right? Any mummies have gone for your booster shot too?
- 2022-02-11Hi there, Anyone experienced 3rd degree tear on your first delivery and expecting your 2nd one?#advicepls
- 2022-02-11Hi today is my 3rd day post c section delivery. Went home and was surprised that i did not lose any weight at all. Was the same as a week ago when i was admitted to the hospital. Very worried. Anyone encountered the same?
Most articles say that right after delivery will lose around 6kg due to baby weight and amniotic fluid weight etc. How can i be weighing the same?!
- 2022-02-11i desperately need answers , my family is infected with covid 19 & only me, my son & husband is stil negative but today my son (10 Months old) is having a very high fever and i think it’s the virus attacking his immune (each of my family member has a fever before getting a positive results) , i’m very worried like what do i have to do? if my baby really positive, what will happen to him? will he be placed at hospital? if yes, can i accompany him even if i’m positive with no symptoms? please help me
- 2022-02-11I'm 31 weeks. My doctor suggested for me to get induce labour at 37 weeks as my baby is bigger than normal range, they're afraid that the baby will get too big for me to go through normal labour, which I want to. For mummies out there, how different in feelings is induced labour and natural labour? I'm scared and I do not know what to expect. #advicepls
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- 2022-02-11Hi mummies! I don’t know whether I should feeling concerned with regards of my 4 month old babyg. We went for her monthly check up and doctor mentioned babygirl percentage of growth is 90% percentile. She weighs 7.9kg now as she sleeps well and has been drinking milk 120ml consistently. am wondering what’s the ideal weight for a 4 months old baby? and should i be worried? ##1stimemom #firstbaby #worryingmom 😔
- 2022-02-11As a first time mom, i'm always so anxious and worry about my baby. Especially when I'm already 17weeks with no baby bumps or cannot feel any baby movement, i always wonder if my baby is "still there". GYNAE appointments seems like ages to arrive and the wait makes me so nervous. My husband bought this ultrasound device to give me a little peace of mind. Now I can see my baby's heart rate and listen to its beating whenever i want. Each time i feel stress i will listen to baby's heartbeat and it makes me feel all better. Worth every penny! #pregnancy
- 2022-02-11I’m spotting on day 25 of my cycle. Could it be implantation bleeding or am I giving myself too much hope? I tried to do pregnancy tests but it’s negative. Any idea how I should proceed from here? #pleasehelp
- 2022-02-11I am currently at 15 weeks. My morning sickness started at my 6th week and is still on going (but it isn't as bad now). However, ever since the morning sickness started, I have been having a build up of saliva. It could be when I am sleeping or whenever (except when eating). To a point that I have to keep spitting. It makes it inconvenient to even have a decent conversation without being "interrupted" by the saliva build up. My sleep gets broken as i have to get up to spit. Has anyone experienced this before? Will it stop eventually? 😵💫
- 2022-02-11Hi Mummies, I am currently on my 21st week and seeing Prof Su at NUH. I just have few questions hope anyone can share similar experience with me 🥺
So I am married to Singaporean currently holding LTVP and planning to give birth at NUH (due date June 2022) however, I am unsure about the fees. Tried calling the hospital and some other people for information but I wasn’t given clear instructions. Since I am a foreigner, I am charged as Private Patient at NUH, but since my husband is local, we can claim financial help from Medisave.
1. Antenatal package with Prof Su is $1100 at 21 weeks. How do we claim antenatal expenses from medisave? Do we consolidate or automatically deducted from the package?
2. How much was your total bill with normal delivery? Planning to take A1 ward as I am a light sleeper. Total bill for LTVP (foreigner) minus the medisave claims?
3. My baby is automatically Singaporean to follow my husband. Is the baby’s fees fully paid, partially paid or not paid at all by his medisave grant upon giving birth?
Apologies if I am asking wrong questions or if I assumed something wrongly as its my first time and I have no idea how these things work. I have very limited friends under LTVP so I am unsure 🙏 hope anyone can help me #pleasehelp #pregnancy #sgbabies #nuh #vaginalbirth
- 2022-02-12Isit safe yo go booster at 17 weeks,im ex convid 19 last sept
- 2022-02-12Hi mummies, I'm almost 17 weeks now and still not gaining any weight. Should I be concerned? Did a scan last week and bb is growing fine but I'm paranoid why I'm not gaining any weight even though I had no MS and have been eating well~
Anyone only starting to gain weight much later as well?
- 2022-02-12Hi all I am in my first trimester and gynae has issued me a letter of medical ineligibility for booster jab until 2nd tri (March 22) as I am on heavy preg support medications due to spotting earlier on.
So I showed this to my workplace but no exemptions was given and was put on no pay leave (w.e.f 14 feb 22 until I get my booster. anyone facing this issue as well? is it a standard policy with other workplaces?
With no pay leave, how am I going to pay my monthly HDB loan and my first born's school fees? I am not a frontliner so definitely am able to work from home and fulfil my duties since I have been doing that ever since I joined the workplace.
Does any mummy have any experience? do you think MOM will step in or will it be futile? I am not anti-vaxxer apparently I was the first batch to get my first 2 doses of Pfizer in Feb 21. (have explained all of these to HR but was still ignored).
- 2022-02-12I am having brown bleeding yesterday and slowly it turn to bright red bleeding. I went to kkh O&G center and they gave me duphaston to stabilise the bleeding. May I know does the medicine help? I have been bleeding whole night till this morning. What can I do to stop the bleeding? I am very worried that this might lead to miscarriage
- 2022-02-12First time mom here. Am 38 weeks 4 days. Just had what I think is bloody show hahaha. Had my cervix checked yesterday morning & was at 1-2cm dilation. Brown discharge started at midnight. Any idea if I should head to the hospital now or shall I wait for contractions or waterbag burst first?
- 2022-02-12Hi All, I am currently in my first trimester and was given a medical ineligibility memo to take my booster jab after first trim (early March 22) as I am on heavy preg support medications due to spotting earlier on.
my HR not only did not recognise the Dr's memo, they issued me no pay leave w.e.f 14 Feb 22 until I take my booster jab. So essentially if I choose to take in third trim or after I deliver, I will be on no pay leave for almost a year.
Is anyone else experiencing this difficult decision? having no pay leave means I am unable to pay for hdb house loan and first born's school fees. Do you think MOM will step in or will the efforts be futile? I am in an admin position so wfh definitely workable since I have been doing that since 2021.
- 2022-02-12Hi all juz discover I m pregnant with 2nd one. But am having issues with weaning 1st born who comfort latch for naps and bedtime. Any tips to wean her? She is 2 yo.
- 2022-02-12I am currently pregnant at 12 weeks through IVF , yesterday there were a bit of bleeding when i go to the toilet. But today when i woke up the bleeding stopped and brown discharge was visible each time i go to the toilet. Is it normal to bleed at 12 weeks pregnant ? There were cramps as well but only mild cramps and bearable. #advicepls #pleasehelp #firstbaby
- 2022-02-12Mummies . I would like to seek your advice .. ive already thought of enrolling my daughter into either My First Skool or PCF but not sure how early to apply for it ..? How long did ur kids get to enrol ..? Cox im also waiting for a flat ...
- 2022-02-12My period have yet to come according to my period calender im already 5 days late. Im scared to check if im pregnant or not. My baby is going to turn 3 months and i read onlibe about csect delivery that is noy safe to have another one before 6 months. 🥲
- 2022-02-12Hi, has anyone recently ordered Thomson confinement meal delivery? How was the taste? Did you order lunch & dinner (or one meal is enough)? Thanks!
- 2022-02-12Hello mummies , i would like to know if anyone else is going though this or have been in this situation before ..
I just birth my 2nd child ( Babyboy ) Its been 9 days since i gave birth and things haven changed . My first born is a baby girl
and it was so easy to take care of her . I formula fed her after 1 week of giving birth as breastfeeding was overwhelming and i was really tired to keep up with breastfeeding and in the end decided formula feeding would be good for my baby girl and myself . I initially thought i could now breastfeeed but no it wasnt happening as my boy is a light sleeper , he wakes up all the time and difficult to make him sleep . Its been 9 days since i slept well and have only been sleeping 2hours at night .. It is pretty tiring for me and i told my husband i cant do it , so we change from breastfeeding to formula milk and have been giving him to drink since nothin has changed and he has been crying for everything . I have checked his diapers constantly , his been passing motion and peeing normally .. But has been crying all the time . He doesnt want to be swaddle and he doesnt like to be placed down to sleep he wants to be constantly hand carried and i am really tired . I have my mother and my husband as well as my brother helping me out but its not easy as i thought it would be . My first one was really easy , once she drink milk , change diapers will automatically knock out . I even tried giving pacifier but its not working . I am really tired and i dont know what to do . I need some tips . I even used a rocker , electric swing and all but nothing is working . I am currently working from home and taking care of newborn as well as schooling and i need him to be easily managed that is the actual reason why i even stop breastfeeding as i need enough rest to do my other things too .
Any mummies able to give me advise as to what i can do ? Some even advice me to have him to be showered in the evening and all but i believe its not good for the baby as baby will be cold and best is to bath in the morning when its a really hot day .. PLS HELP .
- 2022-02-12Hello Mummies, would like to check if anyone have recently deliver at Gleneagles? What are the total big size like?
- 2022-02-12Got my booster jab at 28 weeks 5 days. Currently experiencing fever, body aches, dizziness, and stomach cramps. Am quite anxious about the tummy cramps, am I okay? When do I know I need medical attention?
- 2022-02-12Hey guys, i am worried as i am 34w and just found out today i am Covid +. Anyone has any advice on what i should do? 🥺 I am fully vaccinated. Only sore throat but very mild. My husband down with fever and chills and also +. Please help. Stress and fearful of preterm birth..
- 2022-02-12How much is the AXA empowered mum insurance? To cover a full round of complications for high risk pregnancy?
- 2022-02-12hi mommy, can i eat pineapple tart during pregnancy?
- 2022-02-12Hello mommies, anyone here lost their appetite at 2nd trimester? I am currently at 22w5d. I am extremely tired and have no appetite to eat anything. I didn't even have a proper meal in a day. Thinking of rice or noodles make me bored. Browsing grabfood or foodpanda didn't even caught me up. #pleasehelp #advicepls
- 2022-02-12Hi mummies, just want to know out of curiosity. Does the skin around the nipples sheds throughout your pregnancy? Is this normal?
- 2022-02-12Hihi,anyone experience life being daily routine?
Everyday I did was for baby things.. feed,nap time for baby ,engage baby.
My baby is very active n needs alot of attention. He will cry very loudly for attention though we ignore n also try to wait n approach... now he is turning 7th months...Will baby at this age test boundaries?
Any methods to help?
Also anything u all do to make life more meaningful each day other than caring for baby?
Now also covid cases alot,I dare not bring baby out...
- 2022-02-12Im 7months pregnant but not yet have breast milk. Is that normal? Will i have breastmilk after i deliver?#advicepls #pregnancy
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- 2022-02-12Hi mummies who gave birth in kkh, may I enquire what would kkh provides during the hospital stay? I'm wondering what to pack for my hospital bag?
- 2022-02-12First time mother here and not sure what i need to get for my baby who is going to start on solid.
What are some recommendations for high chair, plates/bowls etc?
Is a baby cooker neccessary as well?
- 2022-02-12Any teacher mummies out here who can advice on the unpaid infant care leave?
Understand that it is 4 weeks of leave. Will I be able to split up my leave instead of taking it one shot?