theAsianparent Site Map - Articles for May 2022
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- 2022-05-16Is it safe to eat this everyday? It’s help me with my headache. #pregnancy #1stimemom
- 2022-05-16I initially wanted kkh subsidises but I heard the waiting time is longer. Husband wants either kkh or NUH private. May I know if anyone has the breakdown of cost?
- 2022-05-16Can 6 weeks preggie do toilet cleaning?
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- 2022-05-16may i know when can i consume coconut water? im currently week 31
- 2022-05-16Hi hi,
I’m moving to woodlands and I will need to change my paediatrician for convenience sake.
My current one is Dr Dave at punggol and he’s really good so I will love to know if you can recommend any PD that is as good! Thank u 🙏🏽
- 2022-05-16Comment which would you rather clean up
- 2022-05-16Share your answer in the comment below.
- 2022-05-16Feeling tired and sleepy during meals during second trimester. Like half way thru the meal I felt so tired and couldn’t continue eating. Anyone feels the same? Currently 20weeks #firstbaby #advicepls
- 2022-05-16Hello mummies, i've run out of obimin. My next appointment is end of this month. In the meantime what can i consume as a replacement for obimin? Currently 22 weeks pregnant. Thanks in advance!
- 2022-05-16Mamas, i'm 16 weeks 4 days, and i'm having gum irritation. It's not bad but i can feel it. It's uncomfortable. I'm just worried it's gonna affect my teeth especially cause i have gaps..i'm scared to lost my teeth hahaha. How bad can it get how bad was it for you?🥲
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- 2022-05-16Just tried using pre seed lubricant. Waited for around 30 min after intercourse. When I stood up, the liquid flowed out and did not seem like ejaculation. Seemed more like the lubricant. Can someone help. What does that mean ? Failed? Or added too much? I did 3g. Hmmm
- 2022-05-16Hi all. I waited 30 minutes after intercourse but when I stood up liquid flowed out. I suspect it’s the lubricant and not purely ejaculation as it’s watery. Does this flowing out affect the purpose of the lubricant ?
- 2022-05-16Hi there.
Mummies who were smokers before you got pregnant, how did y'all quit smoking during pregnancy? I'm still in my early stages and I find it so hard to just quit smoking. I've gradually decreased my smoking session though (max I'd smoke in a day would be 3 sticks) but I really wanna quit smoking totally. I wouldn't want anything to affect the foetus. Also , I have a toddler turning 2 at home so I don't want to affect his health as well. Although I know that it's all in god's hand if anything were to happen to my foetus , I still feel that I play a part in keeping this pregnancy healthy.
Hope to hear some advises on how you guys kept away from smoking.
Thanks!!
- 2022-05-16Hi mummies, any idea which breast pumps can fit medela milk bottle? My friend gave me a set of medela milk bottles but I don't have the machine. I thought its quite expensive for me to afford as well so I am looking at another cheaper alternative that can fit the bottle. #1stimemom #advicepls
- 2022-05-16Upper body massage
- 2022-05-16Hello Mummies! Sorry first time pregnancy here. Would like to ask if any of you have sleepless nights? I realised I have been waking up every 2 hours and cant seem to find a comfortable spot. Any recommendations? Thanks!
- 2022-05-16Hi FTM here! I'm now at 22wks pregnant. I already putting some items at cart 🤣 & wanna know what brands is good for newborn pampers?
- 2022-05-16Hi mommies, I'm confused. I tot it was spotting just now at noon, but I need to change my pantyliner few hours later. It has brownish pink. Should I be worried? No tummy cramps / abs pain though.. help...
- 2022-05-16Is it ok to eat mangoes in pregnancy? Specially 2nd trimester. Online articles have mixed answers.
- 2022-05-16I just feel like I'm such a failure. Whenever he cry or throw tantrum , he will prefer his dad and whenever he sees me ard, he will ask me to go away. Am I really such a bad parent ?
And my husband will just ask me to go away too cos he doesn't want me to agitate him.
It just hurts me alot. Like I'm a nobody on this household. I know its stupid, but I'm under so much stress that I have suicidal thoughts.
- 2022-05-16Hi parents how do you deal with poop that got onto baby clothes?
- 2022-05-16Peeing after birth was ughhh.
- 2022-05-16Hi mummies, i’ve been doing a lot of research of borthing positions and still baffles me that sg hospitals, especially govt ones still insists on one position which is the standard ‘sit and legs up’ when there are MANY other better ways to push with each individual.
What are your thoughts on this? Interested to hear them!
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- 2022-05-16Hi everyone! I am currently 20 weeks pregnant and my toddler still nurses now and then, more so during the night. She has been on formula as well. She tolerates it well with formula but a few days ago, we noticed that she have been having runny poops. her diet hasn't change so I'm not to sure what's wrong. any pregnant mummies going thru the same thing?
is it possible that my milk has changed(to colustrum?) #pleasehelp #advicepls and is causing the diarrhoea?
thanks in advance!
- 2022-05-16Has anyone use this brand for baby wipes before? Is it okay and safe to be use for newborn and baby in few months later? Any advices? #advicepls
- 2022-05-16I am week 23 and noticed that my dandruff has just increased in massive amount. I never had dandruff pre pregnancy. Anyone has gone through the same ?
- 2022-05-16Hi parents
My child has been crying at school dropoff . He has started sch of 7mths. There are some good days and bad days. But just want to know how long did your child take to overcome this.
- 2022-05-16Hello,
My baby is turning 2 months next week and recently he is not sleeping for the entire day and will only sleep at night. Sometimes with carrying, he will sleep but not on his bed alone.
Am worried because he went to babysitter's place yesterday and he is not sleeping as well for the entire day.
Will he be fine if not sleeping?
- 2022-05-16Hi, can I just ask.. how soon is it ok to ask my gynae for HL? I’m under private at KKH. Will be reaching 32 weeks at my next appt. I’m really exhausted by work as I work with young toddlers and it’s getting more tiring to keep up with their energy. Will appreciate those who can advise me. TIA! :)
- 2022-05-17Hi mummies, is it normal for discharge to come and go during pregnancy? I’ve been having lots of discharge but after I entered into Week 13, my discharge became less/none. Is this normal? Thank you!
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- 2022-05-17It's my first pregnancy and I do not know what is to be avoided till I know of this app. Read that Dang Gui is to be avoided during pregnancy as it may cause miscarriage but I have already drank a few times before week 8. My appetite wasn't fantastic and only seem to be craving for soup hence I drank like 2 bowls of dang gui soup... My 1st appointment with gynae won't be so soon till week 10 so after doing some research I'm very worried. Anyone can advise what I should do or eat after drinking dang gui soup during early pregnancy? #1stimemom #advicepls #firstbaby
- 2022-05-17Share the last 3 digits of your loved one's mobile number in the comment below.
- 2022-05-17Hi Mummies,
Im not sure if i should be worry or not as my 2 months old baby poop has changed to brown and slightly runny with seeds right after i change her formula to Lactogen 1 from dulac. Even the poop smell like adult omg huhuhu..
Anyone face this? Izit the formula or its just normal for 2 months old baby?
- 2022-05-17Hi mummies, preg 6mths here, can i still go travelling? Been grounded for 2yrs, hvnt been to my honeymoon after wed.. hope to take longhaul flight to either Europe/NZ. Any issues if travel on 6mths preg ? Gynae said i can go but i am concern abt the covid situation at overseas..Will airlines let me take the flight if preg 6mths? Any advice?
- 2022-05-17I swaddle my 7 weeks baby to sleep in an aircon room. He still can’t sleep long in his own crib (which is empty to prevent SIDS) so he sleeps beside me at times. During nap time, he falls asleep in my arms but when I transfer him to a flat surface to sleep, he wakes up shortly (no aircon and no swaddle but just a small blanket & security pillow under supervision). Anyone can share the Nap and Night sleep conditions/ routine that works for you? Thank you!
#1stimemom #pleasehelp #newborn #newbornsleep #swaddle #nap #bedtime
- 2022-05-17Hi to all experienced mom, am seeking for some opinion as the family is planning to have a trip to thailand, but by then my baby only 3-4 months old. To be honest, I am not comfortable with it. seeking yall’s opinion if anyone of you ever travelling to other country with such young baby? any things i should be aware of? #pleasehelp #firstbaby
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- 2022-05-17hi there i heard that eating avocado toast in the morning is good because it can helps with baby weight gain. any advice on this? #firstbaby #pleasehelp #pregnancy
- 2022-05-17Hi. 20 months old boy on food strike. So difficult to feed him. Happy he will eat otherwise don't want to eat or drink water or milk.
- 2022-05-17Any mummies experience dry mouth and always thirsty? Usually happened at night during sleep. My mouth is super dry. Have to wake up every now and then to drink water. But it gets super dry in awhile again.
- 2022-05-17Easy to use wipes, no rash and I like how it is water based
- 2022-05-17Recommended by a friend, great purchase. Cute prints!
- 2022-05-17Hi mommies! I sometimes have lack of appetite. Like today, i only had peanut butter toast and Mamee monster snack (without the powder) w a glass of hot milo for lunch. I was feeling a little nauseous & only want bland food. But I’m quite concerned abt my nutrition. What do u usually eat when u feel this way? Thanks in advance for sharing 😍#pleasehelp #firsttrimester
- 2022-05-17Connect with mums who need your assistance here: https://community.theasianparent.com/feed/latest?type=home_feed&id=0&lng=en
- 2022-05-17Hi mommies. If I'm having period at 5 weeks pregnant, does it it mean I have miscarried my baby? Anyone experienced similar situation? Did not have any pains / cramps before having this period though...
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- 2022-05-17Any mummies using offspring brand for their newborn? How was it? Any recommendations on other diaper brand?
- 2022-05-17My son is 19 months and got Mild HFMD probably from school since they gave a notice of 1 case. First was the high fever. Went to doc, gotten ibuprofen and paracetamol. Then starts the ulcer on the tongue, just one. But it looks painful. Then the rashes on neck which got better after Suubalm lotion. Then now his gums which swells on the right side is spreading to the whole top of his mouth. A little knock to the gums makes him bleed red blood in the mouth. The gums swell like its swallowing his white teeth. I tried applying Soragel but i’m not sure if it helps. I keep giving him plain water to keep hydrated. Avoid hard food like biscuits or snacks. Its been a week. Is it normal? Any advise of remedy?
- 2022-05-17My baby 73days now, he dont want to drink milk since last week. Before, he drink 700-800ml milk per day. Now less than 500ml per day, any one facing this before? And how to solve it.
Thanks
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- 2022-05-17At what age is suitable best to give grown up toddlers vitagen/yakult? I havent started any as my toddler is still 2yrs 8mths old.
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- 2022-05-17Hi I'm 10 weeks and covid positive. I've seen a doctor. Feeling extremely weak with pregnancy nausea as well. Has anyone else had covid positive while pregnant? I'm worried for baby. How did you'll manage it? Did you take paracetamol or just left it unmedicated?
- 2022-05-17hi mummies. i have been having cough for over a week now and it progressively gets worse everyday. just today i realised that i have a bulge of tissue protruding out of my vaginal opening. it doesnt hurt but shld i be concerned? is it from all the coughing? i also pee with every cough like i cannot control it at all. please help. my mum says its normal cos im alreasy at 31 weeks now so my cervix is bound to be swollen. but im really worried.
- 2022-05-17Hi mummies do you use wet wipes or warm water and cotton ball to clean your baby girl after she passed motion/ urine?
- 2022-05-17Hi, do i need to apply for maternity leave and the shared parental leave which im giving my husband 2 weeks of my ML online? What are the steps to do so?#1stimemom #pleasehelp #advicepls
- 2022-05-17My 18 months boy been crying whenever i send/fetch him to school. On a few occasions...teacher would feedback to me saying that he refuse to eat the food served at school. So i was thinking maybe he prefer home cooked meals..so i packed some and informed teacher. But same thing as per feedback by teachers- he refused to eat. Surprisingly, when at home, he got no issue. Can ask for a second serving of porridge and snacks too. So my question is how do teachers feed the LO who requires supervision in mealtimes. Do they even bother to coax LO? #worried#firsttime#childcare
- 2022-05-17My baby is currently 10 more days to 5 months old.
- 2022-05-17Hi, I have applied for baby bonus cda account when baby is born but I’m still not married yet and my baby is now 17 months and I have just had my solemnisation alr and now I wan to apply for cash gift how do it do?
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- 2022-05-17Mummy, who is that?
Share your answer in the comment below.
- 2022-05-17Is it normal to see lumpy or chunky stuff in expressed breast milk?
- 2022-05-18Hi mums, have you ever drop your kids to the centre and realise that the teachers are just hanging around and not teaching anything ? Is it normal or should i write feedback to them ? I feel like they should be more serious in teaching the kids even tho its just a playgroup
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- 2022-05-18What can i do or eat to start period asap (if possible)? Starting to worry. I do not have any pains or feeling sick. Just very tired. Ive tested 2 times and i am not pregnant nor i hope to be pregnant as i have a toddler and a baby. Too bz haha. Should i go see doctor?
- 2022-05-18Really salute to those mummies who are handling a toddler and a newborn by themselves with no help. I only need to take care of my newborn as I have help for my toddler as well as household chores and cooking but I already want to KO.
- 2022-05-18Hi! I'm 32 weeks pregnant with a first baby :) I'm wondering if I'm going to need a hot water dispenser, like for cleaning, for bathing, etc? Help 🥺#1stimemom #firstbaby #pleasehelp #advicepls
- 2022-05-18Hi Mum's
Wanted to check if anyone was prescribed aspirin during their 2nd trimester to increase blood flow to the placenta? Any advises on this as I was told in the fetal scan that there is a notch seen in my right and left uterine artery hence aspirin was prescribed so that blood flow to the placenta is proper and that in the later trimester it can minimise the risk of fetal undergrowth..can anyone share similar experiences?
- 2022-05-18Is it safe? Share your thoughts in the comments below!
- 2022-05-18Don't forget to share the reason in the comments.
- 2022-05-18 Visit our pregnancy tracker to track your baby's development : https://community.theasianparent.com/tracker/pregnancy?lng=en
- 2022-05-18Hari ni dah Hari kedua Pendarahan seakan datang nya haid + senggugut. Kerana risau, semalam saya ke A&E. Alhamdulillah, ultrasound scan baby (5 minggu 5 Hari) terlihat walaupun sedang Pendarahan. Perlu dipantau Dan scan lagi selepas 2 Hari ni. Semoga dipermudahkan urusan #firstbaby #1stimemom ibu2 yg sedang mencuba.
- 2022-05-18Anyone's baby at learning kidz ifc?
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- 2022-05-18Is it normal to pee frequently in very early stage of pregnancy? Is the frequent peeing also symptom of a pregnancy?
- 2022-05-18I've lost my baby again today, 18 May 2022
The first miscarriage was on May 2008.
May we, trying to conceive mommies chin up & move on. To another baby making chapter...
- 2022-05-18My 2.5mo has recently learned how to roll back to tummy, and will then proceed to kick himself forward using the railings until he reaches the end of the cot. Its obviously very tiring. And when he gets tired, he starts crying. If I rescue him and flip him back he immediately rolls back, or gets annoyed and wails. If I grab him up and soothe him, he struggles in my arms and wails. And when we put him down again he will roll or cry because apparently he hates being on his back now. It only stops when he is so tired he falls asleep after a crying bout.
I get it is part and parcel of his learning journey, but has anyone encountered this and what do you do to help him? When the baby cries is it just out of exertion and we should leave him be, or does he need to be rescued - if so why does he still cry?
And does anyone's LO eventually learn to flip tummy to back? My mom insists that's not a thing and babies only do back > tummy > crawl.
#1stimemom #firstbaby
- 2022-05-18Hi! Anyone using Nizoral Anti Dandruff Shampoo? Is it safe to use for pregnant women?
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- 2022-05-18I'm a second time mom in 22weeks. Till now I don't feel much baby movements. When willi start feeling it? Any second time mom here ? Which week u started to feel the movements?
- 2022-05-18I am having spottings (like period type but lighter) for almost a week and im late 3days .. i have yet to check for pregnancy .. not sure if i should/can check now or what till the spottings have stopped?
- 2022-05-18Hi mommies! Currently i am in the 4 weeks of pregnancy. I don’t why nowadays i am feeling sad and want to cry . I try to find something to make me happy but I can’t. I don’t know how to make myself happy and positive. Anyone experienced it before?
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- 2022-05-18Hi I experienced stomach tightness recently that doesn’t seem to go away. At one point, it’s so tight that it gets hard to breath. Is this normal? Can braxton hicks last for long period of time or is this something else? Should I be worried? Thanks
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- 2022-05-18Hi my child has a severe astigmatism for her left eye, she can’t see things from one angle and kept saying her vision is extremely blurry. I am very worried despite we have seen doc in KKH but her left eye’s condition deteriorated drastically within 3 months from her first visit. The recent one was just last week but the doc (not the same one from the first visit) didn’t do any eye-patching for her left eye.
Thus I want to ask for some good recommendations for a PD Ophthalmologist ASAP for a 2nd opinion, does any mummy know? Pls advise me. Thanks!
- 2022-05-18Wondering if this kind of cot ok for nighttime sleepin? Due to room space constraint, we are looking at cot size instead of cotbed/bigger furniture. Anyone using this for their baby’s night slp? TIA.
- 2022-05-18I let my baby sleep in an empty crib while being swaddled but he doesn’t sleep for long stretches. So I have to pick him up again and again during the night when he fusses.
My mil says I should put some bumpers and small cushions so that baby feels secure and can sleep better. But I’m afraid putting stuff in the crib might cause SIDS.
Anyone can share some tips, please? Thank you!#firstbaby #1stimemom #bedtime
My baby is currently 7 weeks old.
UPDATE: My friend alerted me that the empty crib might not be the issue. It might actually be a sleep habit and sleep association issue!
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- 2022-05-19Hi I'm 22 weeks pregnant now. Over the past 2 to 3 days, I'm having stomachache diarrhea kind of pain on and off-have been going to toilet as well not exactly diarrhea too. Took charcoal pill once and relieved symptoms. However it's back again. I will feel stomachache on and off. Is this normal for 5 months pregnant? Or is it something wrong I ate? No vomit though.
- 2022-05-19Hi mummies, anybody experience sharp cramps when you sneeze or cough at times? I just experienced 2 sharp cramps when I sneezed twice consecutively. It really scared me. I’m currently 13 weeks pregnant. #1stimemom
- 2022-05-1929 weeks pregnant #pleasehelp my work involveds lots of standing. And now i have this pain on the left side of my thigh (my bikini line) and im basically limping. Im not a private patient so i do not have a specific gynae. Any mummies experience the same thing? Did you go to A&E to get this checked out or your gynae and did they give you any medication or leave? Im really lost because im afraid my employers will be mad bur i cant walk properly. It takes me 1-1.5 hr to travel to work… please help..
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- 2022-05-19Currently at 34+3 weeks, i’m very small in size, only 143cm tall but my baby weight is now at 2.4kg. My edd is slightly more than 1 month more to go, i’m so worried and scared that my baby will gain more weight for the next 1 month and will be too big to go for natural birth 😔
- 2022-05-19what is prenavit for? i accidentally eat 2 pill a day when doctor only say 1 pill a day..
#pleasehelp #advicepls
- 2022-05-19Dear mummies,
Anyone of you experience increase in weight for the 2 months after consuming hormone pills..
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- 2022-05-19For those with babies who still have Moro reflex, how do you dress your baby for nap and under what conditions (aircon or fan, on the same crib)?
I let my baby sleep with aircon at night because he wears the Love to Dream swaddle and Tommee Tippee swaddle, which requires the room temp to be lower.
For nap time, I recently tried a letting baby wear a muslin swaddle and sleep with just the fan. But it seems like it is too warm.
- 2022-05-19Did your little one say 'Mum' or 'Dad' first? Share your answer in the comment below.
- 2022-05-19Hello fellow mummys! I've spotted these tiny bumps on my baby girl's adorable cheeks about a week ago and I thought they could be caused by her drools (she's drooling quite a bit since she's teething). I thought they would go away in a few days BUT they didn't!
They don't seem to cause any discomfort in my baby otherwise. Any idea what they are?
#pleasehelp #firstbaby #firsttimemom
- 2022-05-19Share with us your favourite baby girls name(s) with the letter 'A'
- 2022-05-19Hi..mummies,I am 20 weeks pregnant. I am.going for booster shot. Jus being nervous wther it will harm baby n such stuff?any advice..
- 2022-05-19I'm 28 weeks pregnant today and getting very nervous as I realised that I've entered the third trimester and baby can come soon or later. And furthermore I'm born with gastroschisis (its a birth defect where there is a hole in the abdominal wall beside the belly button. The baby's intestines, and sometimes other organs, are found outside of the baby's body, exiting through the hole.)
Yeap I was born with it and even had a scar on my stomach since I was born. First thing that I'm worried of was about my baby bump, it looks like I'm 3-4 months pregnant when I'm actually in my 7th month. Not sure if this is normal or because of my gastroschisis scar.
And the second thing I'm worried and afraid of was the delivery process. How will it be, can I give a normal delivery or can I deliver smoothly without getting an operation. I'm not worried about myself but about my firstborn.
If there's any gastroschisis mummies here, would you care to share your experience. It will really help me and I will appreciate it so much :(
#gastroschisis #1stimemom #firstbaby
- 2022-05-19I am now in week 37 & 5 days and baby weight 3.5kg. Still have 16 days to go. My height is 1.6 and weight 58kg. Have anyone here encounter big size baby? Can i still go naturally labour?
- 2022-05-19Dear mummies ,
I am very concerned and sad abt my weight gain after 2 months… it is so demoralising to see my weight increase alot … any advice how to lose my weight??
- 2022-05-19Use 3 emojis to describe how it felt when you found out you were pregnant
- 2022-05-19Any baby with this pimple? I think my 4mth boy kept sucking thumb. I hesitate to re introduce mitten and I have already wean off pacifier from him.
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- 2022-05-19My son is 15months and is down with hfmd for almost a week. Only taking in porridge and plain water. However he’s rejecting milk bottle for a week alr. Will this continue after he recover or will he look for his milk bottle after he recover? #1stimemom #advicepls
- 2022-05-19I thought I read that it's usually constipation. Im 5 weeks pregnant and having diarrhea on some days. #1stimemom
- 2022-05-19Hello, I’ve read that the breasts will grow bigger from week 7 onwards. I’m at week 8 and I feel they haven’t grown much. Is this normal? 😅
#firstbaby #advicepls #firsttrimester
- 2022-05-19I cant figure if it is dried blisters or idk. Help pls.#pleasehelp #firstbaby #advicepls #1stimemom
- 2022-05-19Oh no… I think I accidentally ate undercooked potatoes. Worried mama now 😭
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- 2022-05-19hello. mummies using Elvie pump, how do you clean and store the pump parts at office, especially when you need to pump more than once at work.
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- 2022-05-19Hi Mummies, I just delivered my stillborn baby girl at 32 weeks.
It started when I noticed I haven't felt fetal movement for the day. Eventually, we went to KKH for a check to get a peace of mind. Turned out that she has no more heartbeat... We were shocked because we just had our regular check up with our private gynae few days back.
So I was induced and had to deliver her out naturally. The medical team, nurses and doctors on duty were actually very nice and helped my hub and I a lot throughout the whole process. When the baby was finally out, we got to spend some time with her before she was taken to the mortuary.
Anyway, the tests done indicated nothing which might cause the stillbirth. My pregnancy was also smooth sailing so far, no GDM or any other complications. As what the doctor mentioned, there might be no known reason for the stillbirth.
Just wondering and need some positive stories for encouragement, anyone managed to conceive and have a healthy pregnancy again after a stillbirth? How long did you wait before trying again?
Thanks in advance.
- 2022-05-19hi anyone knows if we allowed to bring home baby with hospital clothes? i'll be delivering subsided at NUH.
cause i'm not sure what type of clothes i should bring. the zip kind,button kind or normal rompers?
mittens,booties,hats & swaddles i already pack. #1stimemom
- 2022-05-19Hi Mummies
Recently my 5 months old baby has been coughing whenever she is asleep (occasionally when sitting as well) but most of the time when sleeping. She is not sick (no fever or flu) but she has been drooling alot, not sure if that is the cause? She can cough quite hard at times like till wana vomit 😢 But she can still drink milk and play. Wana know if any mummies experience such?
- 2022-05-19Can my kids visit me?
- 2022-05-19Does anyone have opinions or advice about solar films? We have windows which let in the afternoon sun and want to install solar film to minimize the heat in the rooms. However, there are so many options!
Pls help 😅#advicepls
- 2022-05-19Anybody having the same issue around 23 weeks? Can't eat much but feel hungry. After eating will feel very sleepy and like bloated... Probably half an 🥑 will feel like it's enough but also like not enough... Not sure u all get what I mean... Constantly need to like take deep breadth if I am sitting down or slouching... And most of the food don't taste normal... Taste bud still same as first trimester but not as bad thou... And did not feel baby's kick for few days.. Should I be worried?
- 2022-05-19Hello! Is there any family out there with 2 kids without a helper? The people i know seem to all hve helpers! Pls share how do you cope and what kind of routines help?
Edit: thanks for sharing 💕 sorry wanted to clarify for families with both parents working!
- 2022-05-19Hi,
Can I check if the $3k baby support grant will be credited in together with the cash gift or separately? How long after the cash gift will the baby support grant be in?
TIA!
#1stimemom
- 2022-05-19Hi mummies! Wanted to check - my baby is ~2.9kg at 36w and afraid will be too big at full term. Anyone arnd the same, can share the weight at birth? I had a massive growth spurt at 24-28w and baby was big. trying very hard to control my diet 🥲 #advicepls #firstbaby
- 2022-05-19Hi. Need to seek advise please. I HV a sole custody and care and control. Do you still need both parents details for P1 registration?? What is LOU means?? I hope I can get some answers. Gladly appreciated.
- 2022-05-19Any recommendations for bottle sterilises
- 2022-05-19Hi mums any one ever experience these , went to nuh doc says lungs clear nothing, its been 7 days still bad cough with phlegm. What should i do?
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- 2022-05-19Hi fellow mummies! I recently went for my check up & baby is 3kg at 35weeks which is big & my gynae advised to check on next visit at 37weeks, if more than 3.4kg she said I should be induced.
Any advice on this? As I really want to go the natural way instead. I heard induce is way more painful and most end up with C sec. However, I do want my baby to be healthy & I'm just so torn now..
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- 2022-05-19Any receipes or ideas for halal confinement food
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- 2022-05-19Hi mummies, why do my 11 months old baby keeps waking up at night even after bottle feed he will still wake up and my room temperature is totally fine as well, after putting oil and some back rub he will still wake up. What should i do?
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- 2022-05-19Hi mummies, a#1stimemom #advicepls #firstbaby ny idea?
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- 2022-05-19I’m currently 12 weeks pregnant and i have very bad vomiting & gastric since week 5. I have also been admitted to hospital 3-4 times in a month because i am super dehydrated. Doctor did give me some medication to lessen the vomiting but it only help a bit. I can’t seem to have appetite or drink anything too. Does anyone have good home remedy to help? When will it get better? How do y’all overcome this? #pleasehelp #firstbaby
- 2022-05-19Went to the maternity hospital because baby was not moving (bit paranoid as a 1st mom). Checked and was put on the monitor machine thing for 30mins, found out that i am having a frequent contractions .. however, i don't feel anything . I had an appt with my private gynae on monday, my cervical length was 3cm but today it got shorter. Did vaginal ultrasound 3 times (every 2 hours) and my cervical length is way shorter than average at 31weeks. Was told that short cervical length is high risk for preterm labour. Anyone experience this before? Told to rest and avoid walking too much . Given some meds as well. #firstbaby #1stimemom #advicepls
- 2022-05-19If you have a newborn coming and only have the finance for 1 option, would you opt for a car or a maid? To experienced mothers, which would be a wiser choice?
- 2022-05-20Hi May I check if cycling or hiking are safe after we have sex to conceive ? Just want to do some exercise before the two week wait 😅
- 2022-05-20Hi mummies,
My toddler teeth’s look seems a little translucent (the pic below). Seek Dentist’s opinion and dentist said it’s just a different teeth structure with thick enamel. However when I googled, results seems different. Any mummies encounter this with their kids before?
Thank you!
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- 2022-05-20Hi mummies, any recommendation ear piercing for baby?
- 2022-05-20I had severe vomiting (HG) in first trimester. Now into 26 weeks and seems like my vomiting has slowly resumed! 😭 Once every 2 days. Anyone experienced the same and how did you ease this?
- 2022-05-20Is anyone feeling warm or hot belly and indigestion?
Any home remedies for it?
Feel uncomfortable even lie down and slp alot.. 1st trimester
- 2022-05-20I'm now officially 17 kilos heavier than my original weight before baby. Is this normal?#advicepls #pregnancy
- 2022-05-20Is it normal to feel pain at your vagina on early stage pregnancy? Just that sting feeling.#firstbaby
- 2022-05-20hi, may I know where to redeem pregnancy goodie bag? Thanks
- 2022-05-20Hi mummies,
Is feeling cramps (bearable though) during very early pregnancy normal? How long does it usually last and is it usually through out the day? I don’t usually have cramps during menses though.
Thank you.
- 2022-05-20having bad bad migraine and soo painful , if goes to the clinic what kinda medication will i get ? feel like crying 😭 ! im 13 weeks pregnant . #pleasehelp
- 2022-05-20My LMP was on 15/3 which calculates that I'm estimated 9 weeks pregnant by now. First tested UPT positive on 13/4. Had some spotting at 4/5 hence went to the early pregnancy unit and have my scan done which shows a gestational sac and yolk sac but no fetal pole. Physician thinks that it might be early pregnancy estimated to be 4-5 weeks therefore no fetal pole was seen. Went for my next follow up on 19/5 and US scan showed increase in gestational size and a small query looking fetal pole of only 3mm. Yet again, not sure if the pregnancy is viable. Was told to wait another two weeks and go back for another re-scan which will then finalise the answer. Any advise? Or any similar experience?
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- 2022-05-20Im 35 weeks and today I feel lesser movement of my baby. Usually baby kicks/move a lot when I lie down but today not so much. Anyone experienced it too? The kicks feels very light. It happened before but every time it happens it got me worried. What can I consume/do to make baby active again?
- 2022-05-20Hi. My LO is not feeling well recently, and she’s not eating well which the PD said was ok. She has been drinking a lot of water and also having regular milk in take but she doesn’t urine a lot. I don’t know is it an area of concern. Sometimes her diaper can be dry for hours. She’s 14mo.
- 2022-05-20How much weight did/do you gain during pregnancy?
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- 2022-05-20Just returned from hospital for scanning and checkup. Though the doctor said my baby was fine and normal but hearing that my baby was small in size and only weigh 1kg when I'm 7 Months pregnant was enough to make me worried and afraid😭
Have anyone experience this before? Any tips? What should I do? Will my baby be okay and can I still hope for normal delivery?
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- 2022-05-20Anyone with this pregnancy symptom in 2nd tri, and how did you deal with this? Did it also occur throughout labor?
Mine also has many air bubbles and heartburn/ acid reflux
I also have blood-stained vomit..anyone can share how u manage this diet wise?
- 2022-05-20Hi, i just gave birth last sunday through emergency csect and i am struggling with everything. I feel like my energy is drained out and to my surprise i am not enjoying becoming a mother as I thought i will be. I do have amazing support system helping me but i dont know why i feel afraid.
I feel afraid of the night feeds and not getting enough rest and just feel everybody takes better care of my baby than me. How do i feel better about this situation?
I feel like i just want to run away from everything.
- 2022-05-20Hi mummies, anyone engaging or engaged confinement nanny through agency before? Which agency is good? #1stimemom
- 2022-05-20#advicepls
Mummies, do you think it is possible to attend 2 full day trainings (online) during confinement month? I am very interested in the course and will have help from confinement nanny + husband during these 2 days.
- 2022-05-20Anyone experienced bad breakouts at forehead and chin area during early pregnancy? Any remedies to share? 🥹
#pleasehelp #firstbaby #breakout
- 2022-05-20Hi any recommendations ? I need a muslim doctor for this. Thanks.
- 2022-05-20hi i'm 34weeks and since yesterday my ribcage area is painful. my stomach feels super tight at the top. i feel breathless when i walk. and the heat isnt helping, my underboobs has rashes.
may i know if what i'm feeling is normal or isit braxton hicks?
- 2022-05-20hi mummies,
i’m a little concerned over my 4mo bb. he cries really badly after every feeding, but the moment he burps, he is okay again and back to his happy self. he currently drinks abt 130ml of ebm every 4 hours. initially we thought he was still hungry so we tried increasing his milk intake... but he will end up vomitting the milk. he also is still able to last abt 4 hours till the next feed with us maintaining at 130ml so we’re not sure if hunger is the issue behind his cries, or he is just uncomfortable with the gas.
any one has faced a similar issue or has any advice? tia! #1stimemom
- 2022-05-20Hi moms!
Im currently breastfeeding my child cos it’s the only form of feed I am used to. My baby is 4 months now and is still direct latching.
She has attended infant care since 2 months and takes less than 50ml per feed in school. She goes to school from 8-2 at most, so I’m not very worried if she doesn’t drink in school since she’s there for a while.
I only knew how to breastfeed her since I was alone ever since I gave birth to her. I had no form of help, hence, giving my baby breasts was the easiest. She’s growing rather small and slow, 4 months and she’s only 5.2kg. She was born 2.4kg but I feel at ease that she’s growing.
Im sad because my mom has been pressuring me to stop breastfeeding her reason being she doesn’t know how to “hold” a bottle on her own or doesn’t know how to open her fingers up to hold things. It seems like a huge issue to my mom that my baby isn’t able to hold a bottle on her at 4 months since her son (my elder brother who’s 30 now) was able to do it when he was 4 months.
Im upset because I have no idea how to stop my baby from breastfeeding. Im upset because my baby will refuse bottles since she was introduced to bottles only at 2 months.
Im upset because I’ve tried every method to get her to hold her own bottle and tried bottle feed her but my baby just refuses to. And worst, I’m being shamed for breastfeeding her and giving her breast milk since she’s not growing. My mom has been telling me to throw away my breastmilk since it’s wasting space in the freezer and should just formula feed her.
Im upset cos I don’t know what else to do. My mom has even forced my child to eat the baby’s biscuits and baby’s cerelac at 4 months and I’m not even sure if it’s right? And she’s sometimes feed my baby the food that she’s eating.
Im exhausted. As much as I want to bottle feed my baby with formula, my baby really loves my breast and it’s the only thing that soothes her. She doesn’t even take pacifier :( what do I even do :(#advicepls #1stimemom #firstbaby #firstmom
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- 2022-05-20Hi mummies, anyone engaged PEM confinement nanny service before? If yes, do you all top up for their gold tier nanny? Thank you in advance! #1stimemom
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- 2022-05-20i was doing research its says sleeping left is best position. But recently my baby perfer right side of sleeping .. Everytime i try sleep on left.. he keep pushing and kicking to the point its getting uncomfortable. Anyone experience that? Btw i just reach 35 week pregancy..
- 2022-05-20Hi mummies, I am about 38 weeks 5 days and I see no signs of labour at all. Is that normal? And advise? ##1stimemom #38weeks #pregnant_38weeks #labour
- 2022-05-20Just noticed a bottle of 270ml bm has a fruit fly 🪰 in it. Not sure how it got in but very depressing that I've to dump the whole bottle. 😕
- 2022-05-20why is it that everytime i cough i feel like vomitting? is it like a gag reflex or smtg haha pls advice if its normal. im gg to week 11 soon. pls pray that everything goes smoothly #firstbaby #firstbaby #pregnancy
- 2022-05-20Im really having a hard time trying to find a bigger cutting diaper for my boy. His weight is about 20kg+. Wearing 3xl mamypoko junior night pants for both day and night n find it abit unworthy due to quantity to wear during the day. He poop quite often too so such a waste. His quite chubby with BIG butt and thigh. Hope to find 4xl but none. Any recommendations?
Btw his not ready for training pants ya as only 1yr plus going 2yr. #pleasehelp
- 2022-05-21Hi mummies just wondering is there any online platform beside carousel that sell preloved baby clothes. Kids grow up fast and I am wondering is there any platform where we can find good condition preloved clothes online?
- 2022-05-21#Diabetic #firsttrimester
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- 2022-05-21If my baby is a catnapper , do i let him nap more than 3x so as to make up the minimum amount of day sleep he needs to have?
- 2022-05-21should i be worried if baby kicks continuously for more than 5mins? does it mean anything?
- 2022-05-21Anybody sends their kid to infant care even though their MIL can take care? Am sending my 9 month old baby in to infant care as I feel that he is not learning anything, just feeding basic needs like eating and sleeping under my MIL care.
- 2022-05-21Going to be Wk 8, nausea getting worse. Vomited after I eat everytime even with small meals. When I don't eat, also will vomit. What can help to reduce the feeling?
It's so terrible. #advicepls #1stimemom #pleasehelp #pregnancy
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- 2022-05-21can i drink carbonated drinks to ease morning sickness?
- 2022-05-21Anyone's inlaws keep saying about baby's sleeping habits, and what if go to ifc, they cannot sleep..etc?
So annoyed w my inlaw as they keep saying that baby cry and needs to be carried. She is only 6 weeks then, even now at 8 weeks, they are still growing isnt it. Just bcos she cannot put baby to sleep and baby keep crying, she decided to put in the cot and pat -.- baby cries even more?!
Had to intervene and carry baby and pat her to sleep. Within 1 min and she slept alr cos tired of cryinggg..
Arghhhs just need to rant!!
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- 2022-05-21Hi mummies,
Have anyone given birth recently at Mt A and any gynae to recommend? Plus points if they have clinics in Punggol or Sengkang too.
Thanks!
- 2022-05-21Hello mummies.... which lotion is best for stretch marks?
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- 2022-05-21Hi mummies, I'm about 10 weeks preggo and lately my left side butt feels sore when I move. Is that normal? Any mummy knows why it happened? I'm still weeks away for my gynae appointment. TIA❣️#pleaseadvise #firstbaby
- 2022-05-21Any chat group for Jan 2023 EDD mummies?
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- 2022-05-21Hi, may I check if it’s safe to consume street food during pregnancy please? I’m planning a trip to thailand and wondering if it’s a good idea since the bulk of it would be street food. Thanks (:
- 2022-05-21#1stimemom #advicepls #pleasehelp #firstbaby #pregnancy
- 2022-05-21Hi moms,
What should I pack for a vaginal delivery at NUH? Anybody has any birth experiences to share?
#firstbaby #pregnancy
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