theAsianparent Site Map - Articles for October 2021
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- 2021-10-18Choose 1 to go and comment it below!
- 2021-10-18NIPT is a non-invasive test that detects genetic conditions such as Down syndrome. Have you scheduled yours already? Comment below!
- 2021-10-18Children’s emotional well-being matters as much as their physical well-being. Here’s why you should take it more seriously.
https://sg.theasianparent.com/childrens-emotional-well-being
- 2021-10-18Read about it here: https://sg.theasianparent.com/braxton-hicks-contractions-all-you-need-to-know-about-false-labour
- 2021-10-18Read more here: https://sg.theasianparent.com/uncontrollable-crying-during-pregnancy-heres-whats-going-wrong
- 2021-10-18Find out the answer here:
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- 2021-10-18Learn more about this here: https://sg.theasianparent.com/hiccups-sneezing-and-other-breathing-noises
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- 2021-10-18I'm currently 11 weeks pregnant and is supposed to be happily preparing for my small wedding to get married this year with my husband-to-be. My husband-to-be and I discussed previously that we wanted a baby so whether it's before or after marriage, we're ok.
My mother isn't happy when I spoke to her about how I'm now pregnant before marriage because she's someone who has very traditional mindset. She thinks that "we did something wrong" and that "we did not plan our pregnancy properly to be after marriage". I can understand why she's angry, but honestly, we don't think we did anything wrong by wanting a baby and me wanting to be pregnant.
When my husband-to-be came over to speak to my mother about the marriage details, her attitude towards him was very bad and rude - she refused to look at him when speaking and was confronting him like a "criminal" until he mentioned that "we will be doing guo da li + a banquet" to appease her. She demanded for a lot of things which I don't think was necessary and I was appalled because before this visit, I actually told her I wanted a simple ROM only and no banquet, and she told me she was ok with it since it's now covid period and that it's "troublesome". I didn't speak up during this conversation to confront her because I know how defensive she will get and how it will make the whole conversation turn ugly - I admit this is my fault for not speaking up for my husband-to-be at that point of time.
A day before the second visit, I told her in private that I really don't like all these traditional stuff and I just wanted a simple ROM, that's it. She got pissed off and we ended up in an argument - with her saying that she's "not asking for a lot already" and that I am "worried that my husband-to-be will have to spend a lot of money on the wedding". In my opinion - he paid for the downpayment of oue future house alone, I didn't fork out any money for it; he is taking care of me and takes time off to accompany me to gynae checks; he has a car loan to pay off; he has his own retired parents to take care of; and now we are having a baby on the way. And she's expecting him to fork out all the money himself for the wedding as well. The whole conversation didn't end off well in the end.
The next day, my husband-to-be came over to visit and discuss on the wedding plans again. Again, my mother, with a black face, refused to look at him for the first 15mins until he said "Ok auntie, we will still do the GDL and banquet". I can tell that my husband-to-be was already unhappy but he was still sitting there patiently, trying to appease her. Again, I didn't speak up because I had an argument with her the day before and I knew things will turn ugly if I intervened that day - this was definitely a mistake that I made.
After all these, my husband-to-be told me that he don't feel welcomed to the family at all, and asked me why I didn't stood up for him at all during the conversations. I told him I did, but I did it in separate occasions and it didn't end off well. He wishes to have an apology from my mother for being rude before we proceed with anything else. On the other hand, I don't trust that my mother will apologise willingly because she don't think that she's rude at all.
I know he doesn't deserve all these treatments from my mother, but I feel really helpless now as to what I can do to make him feel better. I've been crying daily whenever I think of these issues and I feel really helpless because I'm in the middle. #advicepls #pleasehelp
- 2021-10-18Hello mummies! I've been diagnoised with GD, but recently noticed my blood sugar is usually higher before eating, and will drop after eating.
e.g: Before breakfast 7.3, 2 hours after breakfast 5.9
Any other mummies experiencing the same?
- 2021-10-18How do you mummies feel about moving out of your parents house? I feel a little sad and can’t bear to leave the place that I have stayed for many years , especially with my mum
- 2021-10-18Hi there. Any reviews on Little Footprints@Sengkang? Am intending to enroll my kid for PG and Nursery there.
- 2021-10-18Is it normal that my stool is in green?
I m pregnant 6W
- 2021-10-18Hello!
I am starting to build my freezer stash. Would like to get some recommendation on breastmilk storage bags? I read that we have to get the ones with the tabs out cos if we write directly on the bag, the ink will seep through? Is that true?
How do you also organize/store it in the freezer afterwards?
- 2021-10-18I just had my first child and we don’t get any support / help from our parents (either working or already taking care of my sibling’s kids).
I always wanted two kids but sometimes it can get really overwhelming when we have to juggle between work (WFH) and taking care of our child.
We enrolled our child into IFC but hasn’t been going to school due to the spike in cases. We don’t have a strong need to get a helper as I will not want the helper to care for my baby.
Just hope to get some advices / thoughts before making any decision.
- 2021-10-18Mummy, do u experienced sore nipples like it is not not cracked, but the nipples is like "standing always" even after breastfeeding?
It is a bit painful but not as pain as cracked nipples which I had during my first n second day of breastfeeding. Thanks!
- 2021-10-18Hi mummies,
I am trying to stop my production of breastmilk by pumping less etc. Howver it has been a week and I still do have alot of it. How long does it takes for our breast milk to dry up?
- 2021-10-18Easy to swallow since the length is pre-cut. preparation is fast too, just add some veggies
- 2021-10-18Hello mummies, any recommendations for moisturizer safe for pregnancy/ breastfeeding?
- 2021-10-18Hi, did anyone start mixing cereal / nestum in milk for 3 month old baby?
- 2021-10-18Does anyone feels stress when feeling pregnant? I'm 9 weeks pregnant now.
Had my 1st son which is 7yrs old. I had a miscarriage this yr June. I'm feeling so overwhelmed with my sister attitude which we are in the same house. Who is always jealous whenever my life leads to. Trying my best not to stress out but nothing help me with what im feeling right now. Fret not, not a single 1 of my family member know im pregnant due to my siblings n in law jealousy.
- 2021-10-18Is dying of hair safe during pregnancy safe?
- 2021-10-18mummies please help. im a first time mum & im currently 39 weeks & 3 days. my due date is in 4 days time. having a painful contraction every 3-5 mins non stop. went to the hospital but was told only 2cm dilated.
given a choice to take injections of painkillers & get admitted or went home to wait & dilate more. i chose to go home but i can no longer stand the contractions pain & cant get any sleep with this contractions. is there any technique or tips i can relieve the contractions ? should i wait more or go back to the hospital ? help please im in pain ☹️
- 2021-10-18Hi mummies i having checkup soon. Its called ANTENATAL DIAGNOSTIC at kkh. What am i going to expect ? Im a little bit nervous haha.
- 2021-10-18My girl had this sort of white spot on her cheek. Any idea what this is?
- 2021-10-18Hi mommies, what do u provide your baby with for bf lunch and dinner?
- 2021-10-18Hi mommies ❤️. Currently I'm 17weeks . Already gain 4kg. My gynae ask me to monitor my weight..#advicepls #pleasehelp any advice mommies to avoid kgs gains... Help me out!
- 2021-10-18Hi, I am currently 30 weeks and I read somewhere that rockmelon should be avoided during pregnancy. Is this true? Can I still eat a little? TIA! #pleasehelp #firstbaby #pregnancy
- 2021-10-18Hi mummies.
Wanted to ask your opinion. My newborn is about 18 days old today. And he has been breathing through his mouth and his mouth is always open therefore. And apart from that, he wheezed a lot esp when he drinks milk. And he never burps. Is this a concern?
- 2021-10-18Hi mummies🥰 could anyone share whats in your hospital bag wen ur abt to be admitted. Whats to prep?? #1stimemom #advicepls
- 2021-10-18Hi mummies! I am having period like cramps the entire day today and lower back pain. It's like a mild period pain and not having bleeding. Is it normal at this point? My gynae appoinment is in 3 days time. Thanks!#1stimemom #pleasehelp #pregnancy
- 2021-10-18How to cure fever during pregnancy (8 weeks 5 days)?
Temperature is 99.6 for me.
- 2021-10-18I'm 22 weeks but my baby moves still in my lower part of my tummy... is that normal?
- 2021-10-18Hi,
Im currently at week 30 but i can already feel that my baby is low around my pelvis area. Is there anything i can do for baby position to be higher?
Thanks… 🥲
- 2021-10-18Anyone knows any tested and proven method to remove splinter deep inside the skin without much pain? No tweezers and needles pls.
- 2021-10-18Hi my newborn is currently 7 days old, but he doesnt poop often, only pee.. He only poop about once a day, is that bad?
- 2021-10-18I have been using spectra S1 for 2 years and it was recommended by a mummy. It is gentle, have auction and massage levels to choose from. I love the night light which I can pump easily without switching on the room light for pumping. The cons is that it is big and bulky.
I tried other brands of breast pump but still prefers using spectra. Bought spectra M1 and S9+ too so I can bring out or use it at work.
- 2021-10-18Hi mummies my newborn is currently a week old, he doesnt poop often, only once a day after coming back from hospital, but pee often.. is that normal?
- 2021-10-18I breastfeed my 1 week newborn for nore than 1.5hrs each feeding, isit bad? as i am not sure how much does he drink
- 2021-10-18Hi mummy .. I need help .. 😭.. yesterday I got my period around 10pm then I check in the morning my period still normal .. just now around 7.00am I when to toliet to pee. I check my pad suddenly my period getting less .. and I saw brown spot .. can anyone still me what signs is that 😭
- 2021-10-19I was a preschool teacher but I left due to the workload & stress. Anyone has a part-time job to recommend?
- 2021-10-19My coming 5 week old baby loves to nap in his baby Bjorn rocker. He doesnt fall into deep sleep in the afternoon so once you carry him to the cot he wakes up and cries bloody murder.
I know it’s not ideal for him to nap in his rocker but it doesn’t seem like we have any other alternative. Carrying also doesn’t help all the time.
Can any mummies advise what worked for them besides the rocker?
- 2021-10-19Feeling fancy and in the mood for some high tea? 😉 Here are the best high tea spots that will make feel like royalty. 😍
https://sg.theasianparent.com/high-tea-singapore
- 2021-10-19Hello there!
I received an sms that I have a blood test on wk 10 and FTS at wk 13 at KKH.
With my first child, I didn’t do any Down syndrome test.
Can I ask if I can skip the blood test on wk 10 and just go ahead with the FTS at wk 13. Anyone knows the cost of a private patient? I’m not under subsidy as I went back to the old gyane.
Thanks! I tried calling them and the call Centre wasn’t very helpful.
- 2021-10-19Show some appreciation for the special ladies in your life. Here are the best compliments women love to hear. 😍❤️
https://sg.theasianparent.com/compliments-women-love-to-hear
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- 2021-10-19hi mummies, my newborn is currently 1 week old, he hasnt poop for more than 24hrs, He is currently on breastfeed but occasionally still give formula. Shud i be worried?
- 2021-10-19Find out the answer here:
https://sg.theasianparent.com/is-it-safe-for-pregnant-women-to-use-magnesium-sulphate
- 2021-10-19Find out our tips here:
https://sg.theasianparent.com/how-to-save-money-for-a-baby-on-the-way
- 2021-10-19Hello mummies, wanted to get a freezer/fridge to store my breastmilk. Any recommendation? i used farfella freezer before, but not sure which one is the best one for me to store in my room. Saw powerpac mini fridge and freezer but not sure if its good.
#advicepls
- 2021-10-19Learn more about this here:
https://sg.theasianparent.com/removing-ovarian-cyst-during-pregnancy-what-you-must-know
- 2021-10-19Hi mummies, my 13 month LO has been 2 months plus been scratching his back and forhead till bleed. Now his whole back red. Cut hair into ahort dont work, use cetaphil lotion dont work, use powder same dont work. Heart pain to see his forhead and back got scratch mark with blood. Afraid will be permanent scar.#advicepls
- 2021-10-19Read more here: https://sg.theasianparent.com/low-birth-weight-babies-management
- 2021-10-19Learn more here:
https://sg.theasianparent.com/benefits-of-massage-for-babies
- 2021-10-19Find out more here:
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- 2021-10-19Read our recommendations here: https://sg.theasianparent.com/best-baby-lotion-singapore
- 2021-10-19Find out the answer here:
https://sg.theasianparent.com/baby-sleep-patterns-6-months
- 2021-10-19Hi mommies ❤️ .any of u do this kind of checkup @ alvernia obstetrics center . Is this necessary ? What they will do , mind share if u did the checkup.
- 2021-10-19Hi mommies, did u use the sterilizers and bottler warmers a lot? I saw tommee tippe under promotion. Not sure to get it or not. Bcoz for sterilizing my family thinks we can save money by using old method. Boil water n put the bottles in hahaha. Please advice! #1stimemom
- 2021-10-19Read more here: https://sg.theasianparent.com/mfgm-essential-nutrient-in-breast-milk
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- 2021-10-19Hi, first time mummy here at 12 weeks. May I know which is recommended? Having a team of doctors at random (subsidised) or one doctor throughout (private)? What’s the pros and cons apart from cost? So far my baby is ok but I’ve a history of ectopic pregnancy before this. Thank you! #firstbaby #advicepls
- 2021-10-19Any unemployed mummies succesfully got a full-time/part-time/WFH job from Mums@Work?
I've an 8 mth old infant and thought of looking for a wfh job for an extra income.
- 2021-10-19Hi anyone recently took nipt test at kkh? Any idea on the cost. Please share. Thank you:) #1stimemom #pleasehelp #advicepls
- 2021-10-19I’m at week 27 day 5. Noticed that my belly has a dark Linea Nigel line, but it circled around my belly button which looks weird. Is this normal? #firstbaby #advicepls #pregnancy
- 2021-10-19Hi All, I am currently in 39 weeks 5 days but i have no symptoms of labor. No water break, no mucus plug, just so tired and I do feel like my baby has drop that's all. My doc have slot in my induced day on this Thurs which will be my 40 weeks. So now I'm just worried if I have to get prepared for a long hours of labor since there's no symptoms yet. Have anyone gone thru this? #1stimemom #firstbaby #pleasehelp
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- 2021-10-19My 2 month 3 week baby always cry during drinking milk in the day time recently. I check his tummy is ok. Not hard. But why does she cry when I giving her milk ? She want to drink but cry .#1stimemom #firstbaby
- 2021-10-19Shared previously abt my spouse falling in love with his colleague. We aint talking now. And im 5mth pregnant. Im so lost and so helples... what should i do..
- 2021-10-19In most cases, preeclampsia occurs after 24 to 26 weeks, towards the end of pregnancy. Which of these risks are applicable to you? Comment below!
- 2021-10-19Do you think you should twice as much while pregnant? Comment your answer below!
- 2021-10-19Give yourself a tap in the back and comment "I AM THE BEST" if you are proud of what you accomplished today! 🤗
- 2021-10-19Find out the answer here:
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- 2021-10-19Find out the answer here:
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- 2021-10-19Find more old wives tales here:https://sg.theasianparent.com/old-wives-tales-about-pregnancy
- 2021-10-19Learn more about this here:
https://sg.theasianparent.com/teething-causes-fever
- 2021-10-19Learn more here:
https://sg.theasianparent.com/baby-sleep-training-methods
- 2021-10-19Read more here: https://sg.theasianparent.com/5-ways-to-create-healthy-sleep-habits-from-birth
- 2021-10-19Learn more here:
https://sg.theasianparent.com/mosquito-repellents-for-babies-and-kids
- 2021-10-19My baby has issues latching and seems to like the bottle only.
If we do exclusive pumping, will milk supply increase according to baby's requirement?
- 2021-10-19Hello! Any mummies here has tried to re-apply for Baby Bonus cash gift, as during my child's birth we didnt get Married till recently now my baby is almost a year old. How is the procedure, where/what i should do & what is the waiting period if i can still apply? I already have a CDA account for my baby since birth anyways.#pleasehelp
- 2021-10-19Anyone can advise if the older kids can visit us post delivery? My kid is 11+ (primary school falls under not vaccinated group).
- 2021-10-19Does this represents the recommended feed that I should only feed 450ml per day?
- 2021-10-19Switch on 24 hours and 7 days aircon
How much is your bill? Plus fan and TV
- 2021-10-19How to reduce hairloss due to breastfeeding? Are there any remedy? Please help.
- 2021-10-19Any reviews on Australian International School on their Early Learning Village. Asking for a family member who will be relocating and would want to get some reviews frm parents who has/had their child in their infant care.
- 2021-10-19Being having headache & nausea but no vomiting. Feeling bloated. Haven't miss my period(Coming In 4 days times) . Can I take pregnancy test before miss my period? #pleasehelp #1stimemom #advicepls
- 2021-10-19Hi, I would like to ask if there is any home
based businesses doing confinement meals with delivery? Able leave contact down and prices if there is? Thank you.
- 2021-10-19Week 26 but it feels like I’m almost at the end. Pelvis pain and groin area making it really hard to walk today. Any ideas how I can relieve the pain?
- 2021-10-19Hi mummies, I stopped bleeding around 3.5-4 weeks pp but now it’s back again at 4.5 weeks. It’s bright red very similar to menses type of bleeding. I am exclusively pumping BM for my LO since day 1.
Is it possible I’m experiencing my first period pp? It’s too soon!?
- 2021-10-19Hi mommies!
Any recommendations for apps to record down the above?:)
TIA!😙
- 2021-10-19He knows I am married and he also has a girl that he’s currently chasing. He is helpful, friendly and humorous. I feel attracted to him because he’s tall and strong. I can’t help but feel flutters when he gets near me. Is this normal? I take the same bus with him everyday after work since we only live a few blocks away. My husband also know him and even jokes to my son that I have a new boyfriend. Ahhh what should I do? Difficult to avoid him unless one of us quits….
- 2021-10-20Hello girls!
Is it early pregnancy?
- 2021-10-20Anyone tried IUI successfully? Care to share your experience. Thank you! #IUI
- 2021-10-20Hi Mummies!
Anyone experience anxiety and worry about the growth of your foetus on the first trimester? I have yet to go for the first check up as i just entered 5 weeks but i’m constantly worried and anxious about the foetus. i have another 2 weeks to go before my first appt. is it normal? anyone have any idea how to cope with this? #firstbaby #1stimemom
- 2021-10-20Our baby is 21 months old. How do we persuade baby to brush teeth? We tried before but she kept resisting, she only bite the Toothbrush thinking it's a toy or snack 😂
- 2021-10-20Hi mommies
When did you stop eating painkillers/panadol after c sect surgery?
- 2021-10-20Hi mummies, May I know which breast pump is the best? Hands free would be awesome. Thank you #breastpump
- 2021-10-20Staying home more often these days? Here is a smart and easy way to clean your home and keep your loved ones protected from hidden germs! 😃✅ https://theasianparent.page.link/2sEXWc5kAU3ZkMnZA
- 2021-10-20Just realised the meats I always buy is not fresh, got smell of chlorine
- 2021-10-20So I was wondering, let say I don't have anyone around after I gave birth be it C Sec or natural and I'll have to give shower to my newborn since day one.. do you have any advice on what kind of bathtub I should have or Diaper changing platform high enough so that I wouldn't have to squat? I believe I'll be in pain still.. or how do I do this? #pleasehelp #firstbaby #advicepls
- 2021-10-20My in laws have recently recovered from covid and already started asking us to go back for dinner. Pre-covid we have been going back for dinners. Now that I am pregnant I feel it’s not very wise to be asking us to go back? Not sure if im being over sensitive. Husb didnt say anything about rejecting them thou. Any opinion mummies?
- 2021-10-20I am 5 weeks pregnant after trying to conceive for 3 years. When should I go to the doctor to get it check?
- 2021-10-20Im 35 weeks 5 days. Is it safe for mummies to do nails or nails extensions?
- 2021-10-20Baby is active n moving. But when baby daddy is around or trying to feel her kicks n movements baby dosen't move/kick ..why is it so? #pleasehelp #advicepls #firstbaby
- 2021-10-20Hi mama, I am looking for a ring to gift to my gf daughter who is 6 years old. May I kindly know where do you buy such jewellery from small girls? Thanks in advance!
- 2021-10-20Hi! Any mummies recently delivered at KKH/ TMC able to share your experience and delivery fees? Tia :)
- 2021-10-20Did any mummies here got yourself an MMR jab and only got to know you’re pregnant a week later? Can share your experience with me. Thank you.
- 2021-10-20Learn more about this here:
https://sg.theasianparent.com/husband-doesnt-listen
- 2021-10-20Find out some tips here: https://sg.theasianparent.com/how-to-boost-your-sex-life-in-the-time-of-coronavirus
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- 2021-10-20Im 38w 1d preg with my 1st child now. Staying with my husb & MIL at her house located in Yishun. MILis now processing her divorce w my FIL.. est to get everything settled by eoy..
MIL now is taking care of my SIL's 2 kids age 9 & 11 yrs old.. They are staying at Sembawang & is now WFH.. but my MIL still insist on taking care of them.. but problem is, she never asked her daughter (my SIL) for money to pay her kids' expenses.. all of it is being paid by my husband. My FIL is basically a free loader and good for nothing.. so i am not happy about it because 1stly, my MIL and her grandkids are very wasteful kind of people. They alw leave th electricity/current on even after not using them. 2ndly, my MIL will buy snacks or foods and drinks for them, and we're not allowed to eat it (even my husb). My husb have to ask for permission before eating it, eventho technically he paid for it.. 3rdly, my MIL will cook dishes for her grandkids to bring home leaving me & husb with little food left to eat.. And whats worst, my MIL will always complain to her siblings and mother and relatives and to me sometimes, saying that my husband is very selfish when it comes to money! Excuse me?! My husband practically takes care of all the bills & expenses in this house.. it's her daughter that is selfish but she didnt see that.. she said she sympathize with her daughter because she is a single mom.. but then what about me & husband? She doesnt sympathize with us at all.. me with being a SAHM, having a baby otw, getting our place soon (after her divorce is settled), renovations & furnitures all.. she doesnt seem to think about that all..
B4 i gotten pregnant, she already warned me earlier on saying that when i got pregnant & give birth alrdy, she will not take care of me during my confinement period as she is alrdy old & not strong anymore.. she said to stay with my mom and let my mom handle me.. and once i start work already, my baby to be sent to my parents place also. She dont want to take care of babies anymore. When she was telling me all this, i was like shock.. because, i didnt even have the thought of her taking care of me and my baby at all.. i have already discuss with my mom about all this before i even got married that she will take care of me & baby.. idk but the way my MIL spoke to me about this is as though i am a burden & wanna draw the line.. lol..
And like i said, im staying with her now in Yishun.. my parents place is in tampines.. my husband is working at tampines.. my work industry is located in changi. So we're definitely going to buy a house at tampines because it is very convenient for us, obviously.. BUT, now my MIL disagree with our plan. She wants us to buy house at Sembawang or Yishun so she can continue taking care of her 2 grandkids.. when i tell her no and asked her to move in with her daughter then if that is the case, she gave her stupid excuses which is, my SIL place is 3room BTO flat, very small so not comfy enough for her. So she wants me and husband to get a resale at Sembawang or Yishun so she can be at her comfort zone. Big spacious house & get to be with her grandkids.. so her grandkids can come over to my place and she can continue taking care of them whilst my SIL is working from home at her house in Sembawang.. I truly dont understand her logic in this matter.. When i give her my reason saying that i will be working at changi, how can she expect me to take bus to and fro with baby everyday from north to east; and i will have to wake up super early; the journey; baby is not going to be comfortable in the bus for long period of time twice daily & all these would be way even more troublesome if it rains.. She just look at me and repeat her dumbass excuses, "But i pity my 2 grandkids.. nobody take care of them when their mom is WFH." She clearly only thinks of herself, her daughter and her 2 grandkids. She not making it subtle at all. As though the baby in my stomach is not her grandchild also. I keep asking her to move in with her daughter, she will keep saying that the house so small not comfy and shes not used to it..
And now i just found out not only that, she plans to bring all her old antique furnitures to move into my house because she feel "sayang" to throw or sell her furnitures away.. i have repeatedly tell her no no no no no.. she will keep quiet and try to guilt trip me saying that she wants to stay in old folks home since nobody cares for her anymore. Manipulative! But i still stand firm and my ans is no. And she disregard my decision and say to me, "Later after confinement period, u come back here and we discuss again." I still said no. She replied, "Nvm, we'll talk about it later."
I tried telling my husband about this. He doesnt seem to agree with his mom also and he seem quite angry about it.. but he also seemed like he was angry at me because i was complaining about his mother.. i really dont know what else to do.. my MIL is very control queen and selfish and thinks of her own convenience and biased.. i am feeling quite resentful towards her now.. and ive been crying at night thinking about this.. esp in my final weeks, i know its not good for baby.. but i cant help it.. ive always wanted a house on my own with my husband and baby.. where i can have privacy and decorate my house following my style, cook my dishes (she doesnt eat or let her grandkids eat my cooking.. she will cook different dish for herself and her grandkids) but now i feel like my MIL is trying to snatch all that way from me.. sometimes i just feel like separating with my husband.. since he doesnt like me complaining about his mom to him.. then to who can i complain? So i am just swallowing all this by myself..
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- 2021-10-20Hi fellow mummies! Would like to see if anyone have any similar situation as me #pleasehelp #firstbaby #advicepls #1stimemom #pregnancy
I was 5 weeks when I went to see a gynae & there was nothing in uterus (transvaginal scan) I usually have regular periods btw.. Doc say either too early, ectopic or sign of miscarriage
Did a blood test at 6pm on 14/10 - 523
Another blood test at 8am on 17/10 - 1460
Which is doubling every 18hrs after I checked.
I also have no bleeding, no severe pain nor cramping
Doc said doubling is a good sign & I'm scheduled for another scan on 25/10. I'm really nervous however I do feel positive.. Afterall they said mummy's instincts! I do feel there's nothing wrong with my body but I can't help to worry.
- 2021-10-20Anyone has recommendations for part time cleaner willing to do part time cleaning once a week at Tampines? Willing to do ironing too. Thanks.
- 2021-10-20How do I know when to change teat size for my newborn? She is using pigeon SS teat
- 2021-10-20Do you also miss how things were before you become a parent? Comment below!
- 2021-10-20Which is more challenging for you? Sound off in the comments!
- 2021-10-20Hi mummies.. my baby is on dumex dulac stage 1 now.. she is 6 mth coming to 7 mths.. should we switch to dumex dugro stage 2? #pleasehelp
- 2021-10-20Would the doctor be providing the ultrasound picture for a termination of pregnancy?
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- 2021-10-20My 6 months old baby started to grow teeth this week and I started to feed him some solid food 2 times a day. But today he constantly crying and did not pass motion for 3 days already :/#advicepls #firstbaby #pleasehelp
- 2021-10-20This is my 2nd marriage, n it's my current husband 1st child.
Previous marriage, I got 2 children.
So baby bonus cash gift counted as 1st or 3rd child?
- 2021-10-20Hi, would like to know any mummies have to experienced this? FTM, baby is 4mo and mummy now is currently expecting again. Share me your journey and your baby well being!
Thank you!
- 2021-10-20Hi guys, this is my 1st pregnancy! 6 weeks right now.. im thinking about the nipt test and I'm confused if I should take it anot.. any suggestion guys to help me with my decision? #pleasehelp #firstbaby #advicepls
- 2021-10-20Hey mummies..just letting out. Eversince the start of my pregnancy is been stressful fr me. Both my brothers gt married frst and decide to have child after house and everitin, well i totally support them in anw. I am 5mths now and till this day my SIL refuse to talk to me as i gt pregnant after few mths of marriage. I am happy even tho is hard to believe. My brothers cant care abt me cos they dnt wanna hurt their partner which i totally understand. Sometime i feel is becos me being pregant they cant talk to me. None seen my scan and none ask me hows baby and me and even none asking the gender. How can i move away frm this? I dnt wanna think abt it everyday..#advicepls I wanna get out frm this feeling blue. Any tips??
- 2021-10-20my mil always comes home after work and not washing hands before touching my newborn ( 1 week old only ).. somemore now covid situation its so much more dangerous. How do i tell her off? And how do i know if my baby isnt feeling well after? I scared my baby got covid or germs cux of that, she literally touches his face and hands while i am breastfeeding him... I uses wet wipes and warm cotton wool to clean him after but not sure if its clean enuf... she also lean rlly close to kiss him...
- 2021-10-20Hi all, FTM here. Baby arriving in about 2 months. Would like to know what a newborn routine should be like eg what happens when we come back home from the hospital? Kindly share your newborn feeding/pumping/napping/changing/bathing schedule or any tips are appreciated thank you!! :)
- 2021-10-20I kept dreaming of bad stuffs after giving birth i am now one week postpartum, each time i get rest i keep having bad or weird dreams.. is that normal?
- 2021-10-20I often buy this as gifts for my friends who have a new baby. The pink is particularly pretty pink.
It’s very soft and baby is very comfortable and safe
- 2021-10-21i was feeding baby and out of nowhere he pooped, does that mean he is full alredy?
- 2021-10-21Hi mummies, I'm a housewife and am currently pregnant for 21 weeks. I hardly go out due to covid and i dont really wear bra at home,somtimes for days.. Recently noticed that my breast is a little sagging. My husband says my breast did grow alittle bigger ever since I'm pregnant and I'm worried that it might sag too much. I'm planning to breastfeed after giving birth and my husband joked that if it's sagging, i dont have to carry baby up to my breast *roll eyes*
Is it advisable to wear bra for at least a few hours a day at home to prevent it from sagging? And what kind of bra should i be wearing during these period? #advicepls
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- 2021-10-21My orange rubber on my imani pump has fallen off. I can't find a replacement anywhere. Has anyone experienced this before?
- 2021-10-21Find out the answer here:
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- 2021-10-21Dreaming of baby’s diaper-free days ahead? 😍 Here's how & when to potty train without diapers! ✅
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- 2021-10-21Hi all. I'm pregnant w no.2 and have decided on a gynae at NUH but I can only see her next year. In the meantime I was advised to go through Clinic G for my antenatal visits while waiting to see her. Can anyone advise on
1. How long before I get an appointment at Clinic G? It's been 3 working days since I went to the polyclinic for referral. Should I call to check?
2. I understand that some mums call in to check if there are last min cancellations to try to get an earlier appointment. Can I do that too w the WOMEN'S Clinic?
3. Has anyone tried going for the first appointment with any gynae at Women's Clinic (private) for the dating scan and then reverted to the given Clinic G appt (assuming it's quite late) I would like to have an appointment at week 7 but I heard that the first appointment can be as late as Week 10.
3. What is the cost of doing NIPT as a subsidized patient?
Thanks all in advance!
- 2021-10-21Read more here: https://sg.theasianparent.com/how-to-boost-energy-when-tired
- 2021-10-21I am curreny breastfeeding my newborn ( 1 week ) but i can my left chest keep " jumping " or " vibrating " not sure if its heartbeat or anything else
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- 2021-10-21Hi mummies, in need of help. Really want to train my boy to sleep on the bed instead of yaolan. I am planning to send him to playgroup once 18 months & I'm pretty sure they don't yaolan them to sleep.
My boy has been using the yaolan since 9 months till now almost 13 months. Previously we used tula to carry him to sleep then put down once asleep. He used to go IFC when 4 months but kept falling sick (i know its normal) so MIL insisted she takecare of him instead. So we withdrew him.
Afterwhich, as both hubby and I return to work, she didn't want to struggle with putting him to sleep so she used tula. But again insisted we buy yaolan because her back started to ache.
Please help :(
Thank you!
- 2021-10-21How do you differentiate between babys kicks and your own bowel movement?
At 22 weeks how often should the kicks be?
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- 2021-10-21Hi, may i know at which week will be recommended to take second dose vaccine? Currently at 16 weeks now.
- 2021-10-21Sorry about the photo. Any mom experienced their little one’s poop like that in the photo? Is it normal or something to be worried?
TIA.
- 2021-10-21I am 10 weeks pregnant and I don’t eat so much as how other mums would, in fact my appetite lessen compared to when I am not pregnant. Is this normal? Will my appetite grew and my pregnancy develop further?
- 2021-10-21Hello all, would appreciate recommendation of pregnancy pillow. Which is the most comfortable and affordable? Not really keen in the odd shapes types, as i think its gonna be difficult keep away.. #pleasehelp #1stimemom #advicepls
- 2021-10-21To those mummies who did/does TW with your infant, how do you transition from smooth textured food to textured food like porridge?
My infant is 8m10d old and I want to transition him from cereal to porridge but he gagged and sometimes threw up. Transitioning him slowly since I read that by 9 mths old should eat textured food already. I did porridge for him last time but I made sure to blend it smooth before feeding him and he ate it well. Advice needed. Greatly appreciate your help!
- 2021-10-21What type of exercise can I do? Now in 7 weeks. #1stimemom #pleasehelp #advicepls
- 2021-10-21my baby is 2 days old and this is her poop. she is not breastfeed as i wasnt producing enough. shes drinking formula s26. is this normal mummies ? im scared.
- 2021-10-21Share your choices below!
- 2021-10-21Share it in the comments and who knows... we might create a playlist for it 📲😜
- 2021-10-21Anyone 35 weeks and above?
How are u feeling so far?
Im getting more nervous.. at the same time i cnt wait for my due.. #firstbaby #pregnancy
- 2021-10-21mummies, is this poop normal ? shes only 2 days old and on formula milk s26 as i wasnt producing enough breast milk.
help pls im scared.
- 2021-10-21Hi mummies,
Any mummies delivered their baby at SGH? Who was your gynae?
- 2021-10-21Just asking if anyone has experience 3 weeks straight of brownish discharges ? its really light .. doesnt fill up the a pad or panty liner. I did a pregnancy test but its negative. i waited for my period blood like red blood but doesnt seems to get heavier.
- 2021-10-21Hello Mommies
Im currently 18 weeks pregnant and having GDM.
And existing diabetes patient.
So just wondering is Anmum or any milk for preggy mommies that is safe for mommies with GDM that will not contribute to my sugar counts?#1stimemom #firstbaby #pleasehelp #advicepls
- 2021-10-21Hi!
I'm on 5th week and starting to feel nausea most times especially after any meal. Also I cant drink plain water or anything so I've been eating Popsicles/yole for my fluid intake. Any remedies?
- 2021-10-21My 4 month old baby is on formula and breast milk. She hasn't poop for 4 days this week. Usually she poops every 2 days once. What was the longest duration your kid haven't poop and when to bring to see a pd?
- 2021-10-21Hi mummies anyone experiencing the same? I started getting afew rashes 5 days post-pregnancy. Initially was just at my tight area now feels like whole body - hands, legs, buttcheeks and the itchiness is driving me crazy.
Is it really post-pregnancy hives/rashes or isit a side effect to the epidural. What do i do? Should i just wait it out
Photos abit graphic but is worse at my butt area 😩
#pleasehelp #hives #rashes #postpartum
- 2021-10-21Im going into my third trimester. Tonight i had an argument with my husband and it made me smoke a cigarette. I took a few puffs and immediately threw it away. I dont know what gotten over me. I wanted to smoke real bad because I was so stress. I know it's wrong. I don't know what to do right now.
- 2021-10-21I am 31 weeks pregnant and my baby in cephalic position (head-down). I still have 10 weeks for my EDD. When will delivery happen after baby turns head down position?#1stimemom #firstbaby #CephalicPosition
- 2021-10-21Hi any recommendations for postpartum massage, is there any rules now before the person come to house do need to do swab test due to covid rising?
- 2021-10-21Hi moms! Im 19 weeks pregnant. Some nights I couldn’t sleep because of cooking oil smell (maybe the smell from the food factory). I tried to use essential oils, sprays, put oil in pillow all doesnt work— I ended up sleeping with a mask on, its uncomfortable..! Do any of you experiencing the same thing? And please share what your solutions are.. much appreciated! #advicepls #firstbaby #pregnancy
- 2021-10-21Hi mummies/daddies.
What is the ideal diet is suitable for 18 months?
Is salt, sugar is okay for them. I do give my LO. But in a very small amount. Will it be okay?
- 2021-10-22Any recommendations for healthy catering / tingkat dinners for expecting mummies?
- 2021-10-22Hi all ..what can I do for 7mth old coughing...did Vicks it doesn't works
- 2021-10-22Is this possible? 14 mo keep stirring and making so much noise, while sleeping. Sounds very unrestful. Doesn’t like carbo or grains, will only eat some meat and vege and fruit
- 2021-10-22Hi Mummies, do you have any recommended gynae at KKH? Was thinking of getting a fix gynae soon entering second trimester.
- 2021-10-22While certain confinement practices are common, it’s a bad idea to follow them blindly. We’re here to help bust the most common ones!
https://sg.theasianparent.com/common-confinement-myths-busted
- 2021-10-22Hi all,
I am currently 24 weeks and had a slight fall, but didn't suffer from any visible injury. I am feeling fine. However, I think my baby is more active than usual ever since the fall as I can feel like there's an increase in movements. I might be paranoid but should I be worried and seek medical attention?
- 2021-10-22hii ftm here! can anybody recommend good PDs in the east side?
- 2021-10-22When i was pregnant, living with mil wasn’t that hard even though it was also not easy. My mil is obsessively superstitious to a point she will “go temple and ask God” about everything including why baby is not pooping more than once or breathing heavily. Everyday she has something to nag and always hosting pity party. She will call friends and relatives to talk about me (like I don’t eat alot) .. all the small stuffs but it does not make me feel comfortable. However, I do not have a place to go with baby so I’m just trying to see if anyone is going through such situation or poor relationship/conflicts with mil and how you all manage it?
- 2021-10-22Find out the answer here: https://sg.theasianparent.com/pregnancy-urine-colour-heres-what-it-can-indicate-about-your-health
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- 2021-10-22Any good double strollers to recommend? Prefer front back with different configurations instead of side by side. Looking for something like contours options as I can't seem to find contours options anywhere 🥴 not too pricey please
- 2021-10-22Find out the answer here:
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- 2021-10-22Read more here: https://sg.theasianparent.com/dramatic-zodiac-signs
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- 2021-10-22Hi mummies,
when do we go for our first pregnancy check-up with the gynae? im currently at 6 weeks #firsttiimemom #advicepls
- 2021-10-22Find out the answer here:
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- 2021-10-22Hi I'm trying to decide to deliver in what ward. Heard that b2 + ward is not available during this period. I also heard that b2 ward is now with aircon (kkh website shows natural ventilation thou) any mummies can help to verify please?
I don't mind staying with 6 bedded room but really need a room with aircon haha.
Thanks!
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- 2021-10-22Does your weekend past by so fast too? Comment below if it's a YES!
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- 2021-10-22Which of these is your go-to snack when watching your favourite shows? Share below!
- 2021-10-22Hi Mommy,, I know the situation it's not so good for enjoying and going outside with many people. But we always do precautions before and after going out. So was thinking to take our boy to USS bcs that's the only place we never go together. He is very smart boy and social boy we try to take him to park & beach once in a week (but we feel bored) :( & I just feel sad to keep him always home, basically we always stay home only weekend when his father off we’ll go out. So anyone of you been there currently?? How is it with the little boy? I know he can not do much but I was thinking he will loves to see the decoration and new place. Please let me know if you have any experienced.
Thank you
- 2021-10-22Hi mummies! I bought 60pcs pampers premium and 140 pcs drypers touch S diapers. Im thinking of buying other brands too to try. Is that enough quantity to test first? Thank you!#firstbaby #1stimemom #advicepls
- 2021-10-22Hi FTM here. Can i breast feed my kid after I take my jab? Confuse with all those can and cannot.
- 2021-10-22Market or supermarket or online
- 2021-10-22Currently at week 32 of my pregnancy and I enjoy feeling my baby movement everyday.. Enjoy touching my belly and talking to baby 🤭 who else is in their 3rd trimester right now? How do u interact with your baby?
#pregnancy #thirdtrimester
- 2021-10-22Find out the answer here:
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- 2021-10-22Any new parents facing hernia on their newborn girl infant. What are the action you have taken. Please share with me #firstbaby
- 2021-10-22Any mummies has experience with this? Did you babies come out fine? Really worried after the detailed scan. Waiting to see the doctor.
- 2021-10-22Are you having a tough time picking formula for your baby? 🥛 Worry not! We’ve curated a list of the best brands available in Singapore.
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- 2021-10-22MIL said that drinking while standing will cause womb to sag??? #1stimemom
- 2021-10-22Hi, since yesterday ive a slight light brownish discharge but not painful..and baby is moving frm what i feel so far.shld i be concern? I am at my 33 wks
- 2021-10-22Do u have constipation? Im eight weeks and its bugging me.
- 2021-10-22Any mummies here took covid vaccine and breastfeeding? Any side effect or differences? Did you stop for a while after the dose?
- 2021-10-22Right breast esp lower part is VERY PAINFUL 35 weeks now. Anybody experienced the same thing? Is it normal?
- 2021-10-22Hi mummies. My baby knows how to hold his biscuit, but it seems like he doesnt put into his mouth. He will just hold it through out. Is this normal? I wanted him to hold and put in his mouth basically like self feed?
- 2021-10-22Hi mummies, anyone attended wongbb antenatal crash course? I signed up for it but it changed to a zoom session instead of a physical lesson due to covid. ): but we wanted to attend the physical class to learn some hands on skills. Is it worth it to attend the zoom lesson? Otherwise, anyone managed to get a refund? Please advise. Thank you!
- 2021-10-22I'm currently giving my coming 4mo Aptamil stage 1 since birth ( followed what the hospital gave her). I stopped breastfeeding after 1 month and she has been on the same milk powder since she was born.
Recently she has been very gassy and spitting up quite a bit of milk after burping after every feed. She is a milk spitter and gassy baby since she was born but recently the amount she spits is much more and frequency became every feed, her gas can be so bad that her tummy looks hugee as well. (I do rub ruyi oil and give tummy massages but doesnt really help)
I'm wondering if it has got to do with the milk powder? Any other mums or dads notice your baby is more gassy while taking Aptamil? Any other formula to recommend for gassy babies?
First time mum here and would love to hear advices and experience from other parents! Thank you in advance!! :) cheers!
- 2021-10-22This is my one month of miscarriage after miscarriage I did rest and did recover and with my family support I did recover well and bf also takes good care of me I hope someday I can get a another baby ❤️ I try to avoid raw food and cold things
- 2021-10-22Hi Mummies,
I’m a sub patient at NUH currently week 8. Doctor only told me to eat Folic acid. Is that normal? I am in a group chat with same EDD mummies and they are eating blackmores pregnancy vitamins, iron, calcium pills too?
Currently I’m taking fish oil, folic acid and iron. Only folic acid was requested by doc. I’ve been taking fish oil even before I got pregnant. My next visit is in Nov, and I just wanna know if I should buy the pregnancy multivitamins first or should I wait till I’m 12 wks to ask the doc at my next visit? #pleasehelp
- 2021-10-22Hi mummies just want to know if you have 2 children of the same sex I.e first and second child, did you have the same symptoms as per pregnancy? I did not experience vomiting or nausea during my first pregnancy. This time round I did not experience also. Can’t Wait to know the gender in a month’s time!
- 2021-10-2216 weeks and gain 4kg so far. Help!! 😔#pregnancy
- 2021-10-22Hi mummies, #1sttimemom here. I’m currently at 27 weeks pregnant and today I noticed my left breast started leaking leaving some stains on my top. It was hurting a little for the past few days but not anymore. Couldn’t tell if it’s whitish but it seemed clear and doesn’t have a smell. Just want to know if this is normal and any advice?
#pregnancy
- 2021-10-22Hello! Is there any recommendations for dishwasher tablets to wash baby bottles?
- 2021-10-22Last year our teen mentioned she has friends who self harm and has mental health issues. This year, our teen is also one. We are shocked, saddened and a lot of other emotions when we accidentally found out, using a ruler or ballpoint to inflict. She does this whenever she gets scolded and punished/grounded… which becomes more frequent lately with the sudden change in her attitude and outlook in life. As far as we’re aware, we have provided her everything she needs so we really don’t know where we could have gone wrong. The scolding is to instill discipline and correct the wrongdoings.
Any reasonable pyschiatrist to recommend?
Can the form teacher or school counsellor help or speak to us? We know she’s running for leadership role so we’re worried if speaking to them could harm her chances to become a school leader…
- 2021-10-22Hi, my baby currently 9.5mths old and i have a thot to stop sterilizing the bottles. Do you think it is ok?
Because i noticed my steam sterilizer the metal plate started to get rusty which im not too sure why. Thanks #advicepls #1stimemom #firstbaby
- 2021-10-22Hi anyone got this free sample from similac? I added hot water previously at 75degree and got this clump. Then I change the temp to 100degree also have this clump. I don’t rmb the batch in 2019 having this clump though. Or sld I just use warm water at 45degree?
- 2021-10-22Currently in my third trimester, although started using later than my peers, I find that my itch gradually disappears. Hopefully my stretch mark will be better soon
- 2021-10-23Hi mommies! how early can we start tummy time?
some say as early as newborn?!!
- 2021-10-23baby sick, infant school got confirm case cannot go school, take leave always is mother but both salary is almost the same. Y mother has to be the one to take care? Still want to have 2nd one. Faint~~ mother v stress… aside this, still heard what breast milk no vitamin Liao… give baby drink formula… more vitamin… then y at the 1st place keep want me to breast milk… Low supply, 2 hours pump once, engorgement etc…
- 2021-10-23Hi, any mummy need Diclectin?
Took a few tablets previously due to excessive vomiting during 1sy trimester.
Exp: 29/4/2022
Self collect at Toa Payoh.
#pm if interested.
- 2021-10-23Wondering how old your baby should be before you can put him/her to bed with a pillow? 🤔 Here’s more on why it’s not a ‘good idea’.
https://sg.theasianparent.com/when-can-a-baby-sleep-with-a-pillow
- 2021-10-23should i get baby express be free or should i get imani i2?
- 2021-10-23Hi my baby is 7 months now , hes not been sleeping through the night he keeps waking every 2 hrs i give him milk at 2am then again he wakes up at 430am-5am lip smacking but hes not hungry. Is this a development thing , teething ? Or what i have barely slept last 1 month. He normally has dinner and full milk before sleeping.
- 2021-10-23My baby is turning 1 year old in a weeks time. She is still uninterested in solids such as porridge/cerelac. She only wants babybites and yogurt melts. I keep on changing places around the house for her to eat. But still no. I also made fingerfoods for her. She is not interested too. How do i get her to eat more? Help! Thank you!
- 2021-10-23Hi mummies,
I'm a new mom actively breastfeeding for 6months now. Able to share when you had your period and how long it took for the cycle to come. I haven't had my period yet friends and colleagues stated that it's normal. However when should I be worried if the menses cycle hasn't started. TIA. #1stimemom
- 2021-10-23Tried eating small /frequent meals still vomit like merlion. Nothing stays in stomach, not even biscuits or milo. Seriously felt so weak and tired to even eat cos few mins later will out again. My throat cant absorb anything, nothibg suits.
Not even water with fruits infused. Basically i hate eating and drinking.
So when i dont drink water or eat fruits, naturally hard to pass motion cos hard and dry. Soooo stress. Each time want to pass motion always a torture. And sore til bleeds cos too dry.
In my 11th week, and kid you not it doesnt get better. At all......... ppl says 12 weeks onwards gets better, in this case. I doubt itll be that fast for me to be a human again. Sighhh. Sometimes crying my hearts out relieves the tension and help to fall asleep naturally. But doesnt cure the problem.
Next appt 15 nov still long way to go 😢😢😢
*wfh stress alone*
#1stimemom #pleasehelp #pregnancy
- 2021-10-23Any highly recommend female doc? 1st time, and truly scared of birth, so hoping to get a good well recommended docter.. And any ideas on the consultation fees? Please2 help..
(Vaccine shots also nearly faint omg. So weak liao me..)
Thanks alot mummies.😊
(So scared, and salute those who able to go through more than 1 child 😭😭😭)
#1stimemom #pregnancy
- 2021-10-23Hi everyon! May I seek for feedback or sharing of sunflower preschool at 513 Yishun Street 51? I wanted to change preschool for my son and wanna know more about this center, pls share sunflower preschool review.thank you!
- 2021-10-23Any mommies who only give formula milk for newborns? How is the baby growing? I kept having engorgement once in awhile and baby doesn’t latch on me so it’s quite painful. Thinking if it’s ok to switch to formula milk instead as it can be quite tiring for me in the long run.
- 2021-10-23How long did baby take to arrive after you started the induce process, from when the suppository is inserted?
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- 2021-10-23Hi mummies im giving birth in kkh so do i bring along all the paid invoices for my check up during the delivery to claim for the pre delivery expenses? And will they reimbursed in cheque ir cash? How long do we need to wait? And max is $900?#1stimemom #firstbaby
- 2021-10-23Hi I have been using spectra the hospital grade pump. May I know which level do you mommies use for the vacuum and cycle? I’m at level 3 which seems quite Low, does it affect the milk output?
- 2021-10-23With the new covid measures introduced today that prevents unvaccinated to go to work from Jan 1 next year, I wonder what is the portion of pregnant women in SG are vaccinated. I am in week 14 and currently unvaccinated. It’s not a easy decision. Please comment thank you!
- 2021-10-23Hi.. can i get brand recommendations for these supplements
1. Calcium + Vitamin D
2. Iron
3. Fish Oil
Thank you.
- 2021-10-23Hello. May I know if usual 40-60 days cycle, ovulated on Day 29-Day 30 of cycle, and tested positive 12DPO, and today is 17 DPO using clearblue digital showed 2-3 weeks pregnant but transvaginal ultrasound did not see any sac yet, is it normal? Please help. Thank you.
- 2021-10-23Since week 34 and now week 35, I can't sleep properly and it's hard for me to breath normally. I feel very tired and restless
I am aware that all of this symptoms is
normal! Is there anything I can do to be able to sleep or at least improve in breathing? What do you do?
- 2021-10-23Hi mummies, how do you get rid of Postpartum Belly? Any good methods?
- 2021-10-23Mummies, what kind of milk & butter should I use to make baby french toast? TIA! #advicepls
- 2021-10-23Anyone feel unworthy of living on this earth? I feel like no matter how much I try, it’s never never never enough. Ever since the birth of my son, I have always been labeled as a bad mother. I have no where to escape to. My parents are always constantly shouting and scolding me. For I am the only one who is staying at home. None of my siblings stay at home. I feel so trapped. I don’t know what to do. They are always losing their temper and whatever I do is always on their nerve. I really wish I wasn’t born. Why must they always do this to me? I have stopped calling or talking to them and just stay cooped up in my room the whole day. My spouse always ask me to control and tolerate. How long must I have this stress inside of me? I can’t take it anymore
- 2021-10-23Anyone had a B belly bump? At what week does your belly changed to D bump? Im 30 weeks and still a B bump
- 2021-10-23Why do i keep vomitimg after eating greasy food?
- 2021-10-23My baby is 2 month old. And currently drink NAN formula. But he keeps crying, probably due to having alot of gas, uncomfortable and only shit 2 days 1 time. Is formula the cause of it? Should i change formula?
- 2021-10-23Hi mummies, for private may i know roughly when we need to book a ward?
- 2021-10-23Hi mummies who are under NUH subsidized, do u mind sharing your experiences during and after labour? Etc: ur stay, the nurses. Thank you! #1stimemom #firstbaby
- 2021-10-23Hi All!
my baby is 12 days old!
initially, he feeds at every 3hrs interval
but now he’s waking up at every 1hr- 30mins for milk (breastfeeding)
Inwonder if my milk is not enough such that he wakes up
more often now
or what is happening?🥺
ftm here!
- 2021-10-23Hii, anyone can recommend a cheap and good drawer/cabinet to store diapers/milk powder?
- 2021-10-23Sorry for the feet pics 😩
I’m a FTM and I just realised my inner ankles looks swollen with two bumps. Does anyone know what is this? Is this a sign that my feet is starting to swell? Is this normal? Should I be worried? I am currently week 31. TIA! #pleasehelp #advicepls
- 2021-10-23Does your newborn/ infant has sticky eyes (yellow discharge from birth that hasn't gone away)? Mine had for both eyes ftom birth but one eye hasn't cleared yet. Doc said might be blocked tear duct and taught massage but now at 7 weeks still not cleared. When did yours go away and what helped? Thank you in advance
- 2021-10-23does it matter how many times i feed baby in 24hrs r? or its about how many hours feed 1 time right? like 2-3hrs feed once, sometimes he feed for 1-2hrs then i after that then start counting 2-3hrs to feed him again or isit a must to feed him 8-9 times in 24 hrs
- 2021-10-23Hi mummies! Would like to ask if it is okay to dye hair during confinement?
- 2021-10-23Hi would like to ask if fever is considered urgent at the KKH urgent o&g clinic? I’m feeling feverish and slight loss of appetite although my stomach feels empty. And as I am a subsidised patient with KKH will there be any subsidies too? My next appt with the gynae is on the 11 Nov
- 2021-10-23Doctor gave me obimin multivitamins, should I take it alone or can I take with my folic acid?
- 2021-10-23Doctor gave me obimin multivitamins, should I take it alone or can take with my folic acid?