theAsianparent Site Map - Articles for December 2016

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2016-12-12Lo is 13mths.. Suddenly reject bm n solids, only drink water fr filtered tap.. Don't like food Tat's turns cold~~ how to encourage lo to eat n drink? Dropped off the percentile chart, doc said if lo still dropping, need to refer to paediatrician.. Worried mummy here~~ many thanks !!
2016-12-12How do you deal when your hubby commented that you are slow in doing most things like finishing housework directly and lazy indirectly? Also, I feel offended when I got to use effort to do the daily housework and yet face with such comment. It's not as if I get the chance to even have afternoon nap most of the time despite feeling tired. I also have been searching for a full time job for past 6 months but to no avail and he thought that I am lazy. I commented his brother is the one who is lazy when most of the jobs he had he won't stay long and yet he does not even have to do housework. I even got to flush his pee when I was the second person to use in the past. My hubby is protective towards him. I felt very disappointed! Kept saying that I am not working of course I would need to do the housework. I even ask him to take leave to help me in cleaning the windows as I am not able to reach and we only cleaned once every 6-8 months yet he showed me a black face or ignored my request:( Disgusting guy!
2016-12-12My 2 month old has problem sleeping. And only sleeps for max 2 hours. Loves to be carried and when I put him down while he's asleep, he will cry and appears unsettled. He used to be able to sleep through noise but now his sensitive to it. His eye lids are constantly jittery, half close and pupils rolled up while trying to sleep. Why is this so? Could it be due to his brain wave activities? What can I do?
2016-12-12Any mummies using baby wipe from Daiso? How is it?
2016-12-12Hi mummies, my baby is 8 months old and has constipation for 2 weeks already. Is that normal?
2016-12-12Where to buy cheap Lego Duplo?
2016-12-12Why my newborn wants milk keep crying like starving. Is it normal?
2016-12-12My LO is 1 month plus. He is mostly on formula and sometime i latch him . He is having constipation. What should I do? Must I give him a bit of plain water? How much wat3r should I give him since he is still a newborn?
2016-12-12Hi mummies, what design for a sponge holder will work if its meant for my LO? Should I get a single long holder with partition in between so I can put 2 sponges separated ( one for LO and one for us adults)?
2016-12-12Hi mummies, does anyone uses spectra breast pump and how good spectra can be compared to big and popular brands like mendela? Thanks
2016-12-12Anyon using avent storage cups to store bm? I wonder how long can it be used till I need to change new ones?
2016-12-12Mummies, if lo dont drink milk what should i do? The solid intake also less.. how?
2016-12-12My mum in law is coming to take care of my lo while my mom going on holiday. Then now suddenly my bro's gf is unable to join us and she is willing to give her place free to me. I mentioned to my husband that I would like to bring my lo to go cruise and play since its kinda free and I just need to pay my share. My husband got angry saying that I dont trust my mil to take care of my lo. Still scolding and going strong. I only meant to bring lo to play and he tot I dont want his mom to take k of my lo. WT*?
2016-12-12Just to share. I dont know why, i felt i like someone younger. I am married and having a lo. My husband rarely talk to me and this dude always talk to me (workmate). I had a strange feeling to him. Hope its just my imagination.
2016-12-12Was thinking of getting a pram in the upcoming baby fair.. may I know any recommended pram?
2016-12-12hi all.. im currently tandem feeding a 33 months and a 3 months old.. boy and girl.. i dont know why recently i dont like my boy sucking on my boob.. when my girl crying, i have to attend to the girl and i told my boy but he dont let me go to attend the girl, holding on my boob.. and when the boy is sucking, i do feel slight tinging feeling and making me quite uncomfortable.. and my boy bites the sister occasionally and i dont know what triggers him, he just do it without reason which makes me pissed.. is there something wrong with me now? i feel bad after i scolded him, also trying hard not to lay my hand on him.. and also, he normally latch to sleep.. but recently, he will still make sound and play around instead of trying to sleep.. latch and suck and unlatch and move around then come back latch.. makes me pissed too as i feel like he is wasting my freaking time.. and when he suck, he must touch the other nipple.. i dont really like it but enduring.. also recently he will wake up middle of night just to latch on my boob 2 to 3 times and i find it annoying too.. im still hoping he will wean himself but i dont see him a bit feel like weaning.. i said stuff like nehneh pain pain but it doesnt work.. he will throw his tantrum and keep saying i wan nehneh.. can pls advise? thks..
2016-12-12my son seriously dont wanna eat his meal.. be it breakfast, lunch and dinner.. he chew slow and keep inside his mouth.. or else he will push away the spoon or turn away and shake his head while throwing his tantrum.. we tried all means and ways but still reject.. is it really cause im breastfeeding him that makes him gam zak (not sure what it meant).. but the oldest keep blaming me as my milk makes him dont wanna eat and he dont grow fat but skinny and tall.. im getting all those negative comments and he still keep on rejecting the food.. or else he will spit out.. before this, he can finish almost 3/4 of the noodle soup but now, he takes maybe 1/4 or 2/4.. ppl advicing me is a phrase but how long is he going to be like this.. almost 6 months i guess?
2016-12-12Which brand of shower cream do u use for ur baby?
2016-12-12Hi mummies My girl is coming to 5mth and we just came back from bkk. She was fine during the day however i realised after i gave her cereal,half hr later she been crying loudly trying every ways in e end gave milk and she drink it all half hr later she merlion for 10mins at least vomited 4times next 3hrs gave her milk again after she drink it all,she merlion right after milk twice. What went wrong? Isit she too full? Cereal problem?or milk cause after milk she will merlion today within 6hrs she vomitted 7 times
2016-12-12Do ur babies sneeze many times everyday? My baby can ah choo abt 10 times or more in one day & everyday..!
2016-12-12honestly.. i have been feeling loveless from my husband recently as he is not the touching type like hugging and kissing.. always i initiate.. and he is always on the phone or his laptop and lying on bed otherwise on massage chair or either sleeping.. which i dont really like it.. feel like he's being lazy throughout the day.. we dont have often family day out to bring kids to play.. when i ask him to go out, he will comment 'u have money meh' or 'if go out who gonna pay'.. we dont have any dates at all either with the same qns throwing to me and i also thought of him playing phone and no topic to talk if we really go on date.. and sex life is so so whereby i missed being licked and fingered and kissing too.. and financial can be a headache and i really hate to discuss money issue with him.. always will end up having bad issue.. so i did thought of divorcing and raising 2 kids myself.. to the point that i actually think that i can be happier without him.. and i feel that i have no love for him anymore.. but this few days, he went back hometown and i pass by the place where i met him for the first time.. i do feel that i missed him and the past came back to me.. and he told me today that he went to do some surgery on his penis for me.. i do feel love towards him.. i do want to salvage and not divorce.. he willing to go counselling but only is free.. can advise where? so, what do u guys think? should i voice out all this to him? but i feel that he also dont bother, how?
2016-12-12hi parents, can i seek your advice and feedback on the following preschools: MMI@kovan, patschool@kovan and mindchamps? are the price of these schools justified? Thank you in advance! :)
2016-12-12Dear working mummies, how do you cope with working life and family life taking care of lo, especially if you are in the middle management in your workplace. There are times which I thought of stepping down and be happy ordinary employee. Hope to hear some wise advice from everyone here! Thank you!
2016-12-12Anyone experience wrist pain .. both wrist have been in pain since breast feeding.. went Chinese physician also not ok
2016-12-12Hi, Does anyone know if I can spray this directly on baby's hand?
2016-12-13How do u treat fever and etc during pregnancy?
2016-12-13I'm interested to sign up classes for my baby. Have you all heard of right brain training? Is it effective
2016-12-13I understand that some mummies give their LO fresh milk after 1 year old, because it is "fresh" with lesser chemicals etc.. Just wondering about the nutritious content, in terms of iron and DHA..will it be sufficient for LOs?
2016-12-13Random question. Where can i find maple syrup? I cant seem to find it around my neighbourhood. Or any mummies willing to help me buy?
2016-12-13My 9 month old baby always want to vomit out milk almost every feed. Her appetite is also a little bit decrease. I did once asked her dr about her appetite. He said as long as she's drinking 90ml every 2-3hrs should be fine. But now she dont want to drink. And everytime i need to dream feed her. ? what should I do? Pay her dr a visit? Or should I monitor first? Is there any home remedy?
2016-12-13hi mummies! may i ask when do kids learn how to spit ? I m currently dry brushing my 15mo 's teeth at night. at times I use some baby toothpaste though he cant spit. i guess i shld probably teach him as he does it for fun at times but i m wondering when r they developmentally ready to learn :)
2016-12-13Currently my ex husband is paying half of my daughter's childcare fees. Her school is coming up with Speech n drama program. I requested to have him bear half with me but he didn't bother to reply. And he continued to give only the school fees. I dun think I'm being too much for this request. Really sick of him.
2016-12-13Scenario: Lo 1st birthday. Your parents and your in law both brought a dress for him/her to wear for photo taking and cake cutting ceremony.. How will you decide? ? And of course you wanted your lo wear what your parents buy. But your hubby/wife wanted your lo to wear what his/her parents buy..
2016-12-13How to handle terrible twos!? My 20mo throwing tantrum & bite me everyday. I know it's a phrase, but how should I react or what should I say beside telling her no & don't. E.g. She is trying to feed me a bottle of water, then I told her no mummy not thirsty & I will get wet if u insist pushing to my mouth. She feel angry & throw the bottle away & start to bite me when I try to console her.
2016-12-13Any great contact for Jelly Cake?? Looking at 2 Kg and above.
2016-12-14Hi Mummies, I would like to find a maid to help for after giving birth about 2 months. Do you have any suggestion? Just help for go up and down 3 floors house to take thing and put clothes in washing machine, can cook little bit. Any help appriciate.
2016-12-14Hi mummies May i know when do u increase the intake of bby's milk? Every weekly? Every mth and by how much ML? My bby is 4mth she reg alot but after she done w milk she will cry for more but i dont dare give cause she will reg one feeding at least twice amount quite alot. Pls advice.
2016-12-14Hi mummies, anyone using gd eye cream/serum/gel or anything during pregnancy? My eye area is dry, sensitive and the dark circles are horrible. Sighhh pregnancy seem to make it worse. Thanks in advance!
2016-12-14Where to take the kids for a road trip other than Tagaytay?
2016-12-14Thanks to a mummy here asking abt skipping of milestones. I wonder if some babies will skip FLIPPING den move on to crawling/walking? My baby hasnt flipped yet but loves to sit upright alrdy..!
2016-12-14Just sharing Have you tried Fave yet? Here’s a promo code 4GAHB to get discount .. Or get free food such as subway or other food set less than $10
2016-12-14Do your baby get nappy rash too frequent at infant care?
2016-12-14For those who stay in in laws house, do u do all the housework for them or they do it themselves? I find it unfair that most of the house chores have to be done by me or my husband except their laundry. They even say i everyday at home nth to do must do housework and tidy up the house as they are working and have no time to do.
2016-12-14My LO is 14 mths old and our family will be travelling overseas . Is it too early for him to eat outside good? If yes, how shld I prepare his food throughout the trip. Any ideas?
2016-12-14Why my baby wake up in midnight being so awake. I feed him change his diaper and he still cry excessively unconsolable reject everything. His temperature is normal. I am tired trying to smooth him for hrs. But he still keep crying.. what's wrong? I did everything I can.
2016-12-15Sharing top enrichment centres recommended by parents. ?? Chilife studios Children’s worklab Twobytwo Crestar Heart studio Hua language centre Jan and elly Kids discovery works Little splashes swim school Lorna whinston Mindstretchers Mpm math Music for young children My little genius People impact
2016-12-15Hello, anybody knows where can get the bed guard like the attached?
2016-12-15Help! We are currently in Chiangmai .. brought my 13 months old baby with us. Brought one tin of karihome goat milk powder and thought that it will be enough for 6 days . But as of today , I'm v sure I'm running out of it .. panic !!!! I did try to use electric lunch box to cook for baby but as we are mostly out for sight seeing from morning till evening, i only managed to cook 1 meal using electric lunch box and the rest I feed milk on the go. Anybody know if I can get karihome goat milk in chiang Mai? If no, any suitable alternative? Help! Feeling stressed up!
2016-12-15If your baby have sensitive stomach, what oilment do u use beside than yuyi oil? If use yuyi oil the frequent of passing motion is even more.
2016-12-15Dear mummies, How do u stop your lo from latching to sleep?
2016-12-15Hi mummies, anyone experiencing hair fall? When i was preg and after delivery i didnt have much hair fall. However, nw with no2(5mths), i experience very scary hair fall. The age gap between no1 and no2 is 8mths. Can i go for treatment or anything? What have ur done to control or lessen the hairfall? Thanks.
2016-12-15How you settle with a menopause elderly person plus supersitions too? She claim that our house have some errie things that she cant go back to her house to stay. Whenevet go back home have things happen. My sis house got see fengshui. My side didnt see any fengshui at all. Say that my house all things is black and white make people no good?
2016-12-15Attending a Malay wedding at Lagun Sari wedding & catering services at joo Chiat. How much ang bao to give? First time attending Malay wedding
2016-12-15Found this in big c supermarket in Chiangmai .. anybody have any review on this goat milk powder? Made from New Zealand
2016-12-15Hi Mummies Do you know any free course to study? Kind of baking cake, make up, or study Chinese. I would like to study while pregnant and boring at home.
2016-12-15How you settle with a menopause elderly person plus supersitions too? She claim that our house have some errie things that she cant go back to her house to stay. Whenevet go back home have things happen. My sis house got see fengshui. My side didnt see any fengshui at all. Say that my house all things is black and white make people no good?
2016-12-15My 8 month old does not like solid.. what do I do? LO is not even eating one meal of solid a day.. should I be worried as I read for 8 month old they need to have at least 2 solid meals
2016-12-15My 1 month plus baby is being fuzzy and keep crying non stop. Give milk, carry him, no matter what I do.. still keep crying. My granny come to me and ask me apply ru yi you.. not working.. then take '红花' put it on him to calm him down. Also no use.. all the supertitious things my granny and parents keep asking me to do. Until I flare up and walk off. Really feel irritated when baby is already crying so badly for 2 hrs.
2016-12-15Is it true baby younger than 3 months cannot bring the baby out? I was scolded by my mom for bring LO out to shopping mall. Because after I return home my LO keep crying and it become everyday thing. And she assume that is because I bring her out.
2016-12-15I have been having issues with my husband since firstborn arrived. Now, having a 2nd kid, who is a reflux infant, at home doesn't help with the situation. I kind of lose patience easily and am treating my second child differently from my firstborn. At times I hate my second child so much I would slap him. Or throw small objects at him. Or throw him onto the bed. He'd cry badly and I'd let him cry for an hr or so. I'm thinking maybe I hate my husband so much that I'm transferring the hate to my second kid. But he's only 4months old. I really am disgusted with myself but I cannot seem to control myself. I feel very stressed, especially when my husband becomes passive aggressive and I have to 'play along' to avoid blowing up at him... For example, my husband knows that I get angry when he meddles with my laundry. When some days I don't treat him very nice cos I'm feeling tired and needed a break myself, he'd go meddle with laundry and stain white clothes with colored, then he'll say he's sorry and he won't do it again. But he'll do it again. And again. And again. I know scolding him will make him worse as I have experienced before. So I'd smile and say it's ok and pretend it's nothing. Then I turn angry towards my kid. I'm very frightened. Is there a hotline or professional help I could go to?
2016-12-15Hi mummies, how many VSOP Martel bottles or DOM did you all set aside for your confinement period? I intend to do 1.5 month confinement but heard that too much intake is not good if doing breastfeeding.
2016-12-16Mummies is this normal for a mosquito bite? She got it ytd and tdy it became so big and hard.
2016-12-16Is there any place to recommend for me to bring my one year old plu lo for vacation ?
2016-12-16Did anyone uses the babasling brand for your newborns? Is it easy to put on and off and does the baby feels comfortable with the materials?
2016-12-16My 1 year old has no teeth yet but wants to eat anything and everything. I hv ran out of ideas what else to gv other than purees, porridge n pastas. Can i start giving him noodles and bee hoon with soup? Isit okay since he has no teeth yet?
2016-12-16Hi mummies My 4mtha old baby only pee twice or once a day and it looked concentrated like orange colour. Happen for two days. Drinking milk is fine. Why is this happening
2016-12-16May mga do's and don'ts ba when it comes to transition ng toddler's milk from 1-3y/o to 3+ formula milk?
2016-12-16If having menses , can do full body massage and foot reflexology ?
2016-12-16Any review on YMCA childcare Bishan? Thanks.
2016-12-16Any review on YMCA childcare Bishan? Thanks.
2016-12-16How often should a 2.5 yr old urinate in a day?
2016-12-16Can I still latch my LO after having paracetamol and clarinase? Having the worse flu bug i ever had
2016-12-17I am currently pregnant at age 38. Have just done the first trimester test. I was told that I have a high risk ratio with a reverse ductus venosus flow? Anyone encounter this and gone for further check such as amniocentesis test?
2016-12-17Any good hair salon to rebond hair around woodlands?
2016-12-17Hi everyone My dotter is 14months and she is having high fever. Arnd 38.5°c. Been giving her ibuprofen. She also keep poking her gums which is at the back of the mouth. Shes drinking less milk and passes watery stools. Is this teething? I have not bring her to the doctor as i wan to ask others opinion 1st. The last time i want to the doc for teething,they mention theres nothing much to be done. Any opinion mothers?? Tia.
2016-12-17What type of hospitalization plan are you getting for your lo ?
2016-12-17How do you manage the logistics for traveling on 8hrs to Sydney when you are pumping exclusively (perhaps need to pump at least once) and baby takes only ebm? Is beast milk allowed on hand carry at Australian custom?
2016-12-171) Do kids fall sick more at enclosed hdb cc as compared to CC with classroom/ open windows? 2) Are open concept or classroom CC better for kids? aren't open concept CC somewhat too noisy for learning & even just well-being? I feel very stressed up by the noise level in open concept CC not site if anyone feels the same, or are kids ok with that generally.
2016-12-17Hi My girl is 2 years old and i intend to give her fresh milk. Which freshmilk would you recommend? Should i go for Full cream,low fat or non fat milk? Should i give it cold from fridge or leave it outside let it on room temp before serving my child? Thank You
2016-12-17Hi mummies, can playpen be an alternative to a baby cot for infants/newborns? Any factors to consider for such a playpen?
2016-12-17Did anyone use a low lying mattress for infants/newborns to sleep on? Is it safe?
2016-12-17Anyone try colic tablet? My baby been crying excessively during evening and midnight. I tried everything thing nothing works.. gripe water also no use.. tried massage baby stomach but still crying.