My mum in law is coming to take care of my lo while my mom going on holiday. Then now suddenly my bro's gf is unable to join us and she is willing to give her place free to me. I mentioned to my husband that I would like to bring my lo to go cruise and play since its kinda free and I just need to pay my share. My husband got angry saying that I dont trust my mil to take care of my lo. Still scolding and going strong. I only meant to bring lo to play and he tot I dont want his mom to take k of my lo. WT*?

Have u let ur mil take care of baby for a long period before? Could it also be that the husband prefers the baby not to go on holiday? Btw, baby is not free on cruise yar, still have to pay some fees. Well, if u cannot convince the husband then just don't go? U have nothing to lose and no need to spend the additional money and make everyone unhappy too(although we cannot relate to why). Maybe husband prefers to play as a family instead of just u n baby?

From the content that you've posted, this is more like a misunderstanding. Communication is important between a couple but the quality of communication should not be overlooked too. Thus, I guess your intentions weren't put through in a clear and concise manner to your husband, resulting in this misunderstanding. On another note, do choose your words wisely as being too blunt might hurt one party or another even though it might not matter to you.

Your husband seems to have some misperception of the relationship you have with your mil. Maybe you can explain to him about the free cruise thing in more detail? Now that he is very angry, perhaps let him cool down before talking to him about this again. If it's okay with you, take this as a chance to unwind and go on the trip yourself? In the meantime, let your mil take care of your lo to show your husband that you do trust her! :)

If thats the case, why not try to split the days. How long is the cruise? After that maybe you can let your mil take care of your Lo. In that way your mil can also spend time yo bond with your lo. Makes every party happy. And husband will be eased as well.

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yup. I decided to go without my LO. I will leave him with my MIL and my Husband. To be honest, sometimes i dont agree with what my mil does, but we all wont harm my lo. So I will just put my trust to her.