theAsianparent Site Map - Articles for October 2016
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- 2016-10-03hi mummies,
Isiz a must to go do Oscar scan. Thanks
- 2016-10-03Is it necessary to give nanny a copy of your Lo birth cert? Was told in case need to go hospital or see doctor purposes
- 2016-10-03I went through the baby blues after I had my first child. It was horrible. I had severe mood swings and would cry for nothing. I'm so scared now that I am going to have my second child. Would I have post natal blues again?
- 2016-10-03If a mother has suffered from PND before, does this necessarily mean that she's likely to get it again with her next pregnancy?
- 2016-10-03Any mummies, taking cathay or SIA bring breastmilk back??
- 2016-10-03Selling the below items @ good price :
1) walker @ $15
2) swim float and vest @$5
3)baby round float @$10
4) Mickey Mouse play set @ $15
Sorry have problem to upload photos. Pls msg for more details. Thanks
- 2016-10-03Hi anyone has review for Amar Kidz childcare centre @ Pasir Ris?
- 2016-10-03Anyone having the same problems as me? My Husband won't really help me with housework unless I tell him many times to do it. He will then give a unwilling attitude. Ever since i gave birth to my LO, he still never change. Is like phone and tv is his wife. I got to work, takecare LO and do housework. This is totally madness. He keeps initiate to have sex but I always reject him. Reason being that I'm too tired to even have sex. Don't have the 'feel' to do it.
- 2016-10-04Any good drool pad that is not too expensive to recommend for Tula carrier? LO keeps sucking on the stripes and back panel ?
- 2016-10-04My NB is less than 2 weeks old currently on both breastfeeding and bottle feed. In the night she wakes up nearly every hour looking for my nipple jst for comfort. My confinement nanny says to use pacifier but somehow I don't feel too comfortable with starting a pacifier so young at her age. Does it matter how old a baby starts sucking on a pacifier?
- 2016-10-04My NB is less than 2 weeks old currently on both breastfeeding and bottle feed. In the night she wakes up nearly every hour looking for my nipple just for comfort. My confinement nanny says to use pacifier but somehow I don't feel too comfortable with starting a pacifier so young at her age. Does it matter how old a baby starts sucking on a pacifier?
- 2016-10-04My NB is less than 2 weeks old currently on both breastfeeding and bottle feed. In the night she wakes up nearly every hour looking for my nipple jst for comfort. My confinement nanny says to use pacifier but somehow I don't feel too comfortable with starting a pacifier so young at her age. Does it matter how old a baby starts sucking on a pacifier?
- 2016-10-04any cake shop to recommend ard hougang? reasonable n nice? looking at cupcakes, macarons etc and birthday cake for lo birthday!
- 2016-10-04Anyone tried the service at sbcc bukit panjang Plaza? How are their charges? Where is the near clinic with pediatrician sbcc/ bukit / panjang / nuh with children's / pediatric urgent baby care?
- 2016-10-04Any review for E-bridge child care?
- 2016-10-04Does anyone know of a parent accompanied class or playgroup for my 6 months kid..
- 2016-10-04Any review for MyWorld Pte Ltd childcare centre is much appreciated!
Please include your location, eg. Sengkang, Woodlands.
- 2016-10-04Selling Mandarina Kids stage 3 Chinese learning set. Retail price in Mothercare is $52. Selling for $25. For collection at Tiong Bahru or Harbourfront Centre.
- 2016-10-04For sale. Brand new Boots breastmilk storage bag. 40 bags per box. $7. For pick up at Harbourfront Centre or Tiong Bahru.
- 2016-10-04For sale. Brand new Boots breastmilk storage bag. 40 bags per box. $7. For collection at Tiong Bahru or Harbourfront Centre.
- 2016-10-04Hi when you're preggy what time do you usually wake up in the morning and sleep in the evening?
- 2016-10-04Wanna ask .. Is it normal for a baby to go through the vicious cycle of falling sick and recovering from sick when they enter infant care? I'm up at this hour to monitor my 11 months old daughter's fever .. She has been falling sick v often till my childcare leave all used up :( parents who sent your LO to infant care , do u have similar problem as me or am I the only 1 gg through all these ? I'm soooo... Tired :(
- 2016-10-04How do we introduce a different teats milk bottle? My lo using avent natural from birth till now. And now changing to avent classic. He doesn't deems to drink using avent classic.
- 2016-10-05What will u do if u found out that your husband went to batam secretly but when confront he says he wanted piece of mind as I as a wife couldn't give him happiness.
- 2016-10-05What will u do if u found out that your husband went to batam secretly but when confront he says he wanted piece of mind as I as a wife couldn't give him happiness.
- 2016-10-05My helper sometimes brings and fetches my toddler to school. There have been a few occasions of neighbours and school teachers telling me to keep an eye on my helper and told things like how she drags my toddler, she doesn't hold my toddler's hand when walking by the road and they finish off their words with 'keep an eye on her'. I find her ok at home and I trust her, but the neighbours and school teachers' warnings send shivers down my spine and make me uncomfortable. It is the reality that it is impossible for me to see for myself how she behaves outside home. Have you encountered this? How do you deal with it? So far I have my family members (not living with us), neighbours and my toddler's school teachers warning me.
- 2016-10-05Hi Gorgeous mummies,
Where can i buy Bellamy Organics baby food in SG?
Anyone feeding your precious this too?
Thanks in advance!
- 2016-10-05hi, any female gynae to rec around pasir ris/tamp area tht is affordable and delivers in tmc? TIA!
- 2016-10-05How to keep oneself happy to not think of the stress we are facing?
- 2016-10-05Hi mommies
How do you mommies who pump at work store the EBM pumped on friday?
TIA
- 2016-10-05Hi mummies, I would like to ask how can I increase my milk supply?
I've tried:
1) pumping regularly
2) lactation cookies
3) drinking milo
4) taking supplement given by hospital when discharge for milk supply
5) hydrating myself with plenty of water
6) consuming lots of fish
7) let my LO(2months old) to latch, but he always cry and refuse to latch
Seeing my supply reducing tremendously after confinement make me very depressed, please help me
During confinement my milk supply for each pumping session can reach 160-200ml. But now it's only 40-50ml the most, sometimes even lesser.
- 2016-10-05Anyone send your kids to ebridge at punggol edgefield ? Can share your experience on the teachers, programmes and center? I will be moving to punggol dec and was told to pay advance fee for month nov to secure the place, this fee is non refundable. This is on top of the deposit fee. So i m contemplating is it worth it. It is walking distance from my house though.
- 2016-10-05Hi I just want to rant.
Not too sure if I am having some kind of depression or blues. I had been away from Singapore for a year because I quit my job and followed my husband overseas. Came back when I was five months pregnant because I just couldn't handle pregnancy alone In a foreign country. But my husband is still overseas. Throughout pregnancy I did everything on my own mostly, packing my room and baby stuffs, moving heavy things and going baby fair alone to buy everything. After I gave birth husband comes back to visit once a month only. I totally feel like a single parent. My plan is to find a job back as we still need to service mortgage and my husband salary allowances will be cut once he returns to Singapore. I have been trying to actively look for a job for the whole year. Went for several interviews and for some companies I even went through many rounds and got into the final round. But everytime I am not hired at the end. Just went for a third round of interview and the HR said they are still reviewing a few more candidates. I think I lost my chance again. I am so stressed and down from being rejected again and again. I used to be able to find a job very easily. Now with age and a two year gap in my working life I know it is hard to find a job back. But I never expect to take so long close to a year and still no job. I am feeling so dejected and wonder what is wrong with me. I am willing to take a pay cut but not so much, however I am afraid I have to lower my salary by a lot and that will affect the Amount of cash flow. We still need to Reno our house and buy a car. And most importantly I feel so sad that I have to start all over in my career again. Inside my heart I blame my husband indirectly. I feel so scared sometimes, going to company and company for many rounds of interview. So tired but still have to find time to apply for jobs and husband is not around to help.
Sorry for lengthy post. Anyone is like me looking for a job??
- 2016-10-05Hi i am currently pregnant with identical twins and i am considering private cord blood banking. I have read about the pros and cons of banking, so i am undecided if i should bank, and if so for one or both of my kids. Any advice?
Also, i heard that public cord blood banks reject twins' cord blood donation. Anyone has any idea why?
- 2016-10-05Hi all, any recommendations for infant/childcare centres in sengkang/buangkok area? Thanks!
- 2016-10-05Just need to rant~
I just had a quarrel with my husband. I am in my late pregnancy and we went for a walk with our dog. He is very strict to our dog so when he say no he means no and the dog today did not behave and he smack his backside and I don't feel good, I just keep quiet. When we reached home, he come to me and explain "the dog should be discipline when they are naughty" and he know I am kinda of not very happy about it.
I told him" he used to be a nice attitude guy when I know him not the angry side of him." And he feel offended and say" now u regret married me already har? Now think I am very bad already is it? Then he say back to me u also used to be very chio why now like this lei?"
Then he say "when people say it back to you, you will feel sad right. That how I feel when u say I used to be a nice attitude guy. What if next time baby is born and he is naughty you going to give it all to him and pamper him until he is like a king?"
I reply him" is useless talking to you."
I know what I say trigger him but I really did not know the impact until he say it back to me. I am a sensitive person but not when I talk. He ask me "am I feeling sad or angry because I did not talk." I say "no". Then he fall asleep and I can't stop crying and feeling sad.
So I wake him up and say" I feel so hurt about the last time chio now why like this" he then wake up and say "do u mean I have a bad attitude when u say it to me?" I reply "no, I don't mean it" then he says "that's right I also never mean it" he then say " you hor, say people can la, when people say you back you cannot take it hor."
I don't know is it hormones or what I just feel weird and sad and can't stop crying.
Sorry for the long post.
- 2016-10-06I am currently still bf my lo who is 4 mths plus old can I do manicure n pedicure or even dye my hair?
- 2016-10-06I am at my 3rd trimester and this morning I feel that I am having gastric pain when my baby move around. And I feel in between my chest and tummy that area is painful and uncomfortable. Don't know is it normal or I am having a gastric pain or tummy ache. I apply abit of ru yu you in between the centre of the chest and tummy. I hope the pain and uncomfortable feeling will go away soon.
- 2016-10-06Parents, kindly give me your opinion without any derogatory remarks.
My girl is 4yr plus. She was born end of the year. We thought that she would be in K1 next year. After half of the year passed, someone mentioned that she is 5yo this year and should be in K1 this year, not next year.
Singapore Children's Society dropped by my place when I am not around, regards my girl not being in preschool.
We have more than 1 children below age of 6. I am their only caregiver. I intend to start working as we are getting our BTO keys early or mid next year. Currently living in North East area and husband is working near current home (15 mins bus ride away), new place is at North area (20mins - 1hr bus ride away from the current place).
I suggested placing the children in Childcare so I can look for a job. Husband suggested sending our 4yo to pre-school only near current home or his workplace asap.
If you were me, would you:
1. Place 4yo in pre-school near current home asap for now.
2. Place 4yo in pre-school near husband workplace asap for now.
3. Place all in childcare near current home asap.
4. Place all in childcare near husband workplace asap.
5. Place all in childcare near new place asap and look for a job near new place.
Please also note we are facing financial difficulties and intend to approach FSC and SSO for assistance if need to place our children in CC. And that our current location most pre-school and CC are full. However, more CC and pre-school are coming up too.
Appreciate all your input. Thank you!
- 2016-10-06When did your LO started talking?
- 2016-10-06Which type of food feeder is better? Mesh/net type or silicon type?
- 2016-10-06I am allowed to accompany my LO on her first three day of playgroup. I had sort of brought her to her class a few times before she started school officially. She seemed to be comfortable with the teachers and her classmates but that was probably because I was around. What should I do during these first three day to help her to transit into her school? I am also worried as my LO has not learned to talk.
- 2016-10-06Hi anyone can recommend a good trike for 10mo baby? So many brands and versions out there. Thanks
- 2016-10-06Looking for mandarin speaking boys, aged 5-9, to join a television programme on a fun filled farming adventure with their parents/guardians!
Interested parties do contact me @82826387 or drop me an email at [email protected] for more info
- 2016-10-06My LO is 2 weeks old. She has been crying loudly out of a sudden with her eyes closed for a few times a day. This has happen for the past 4 days. Confinement lady say she is dreaming.
LO is not crying for milk or diaper change as we always make sure we check her diaper and her signs of hunger. Many times, we feed her 50ml to 60ml per feed.
Is this normal?
- 2016-10-06My baby has a tendency to hit/scream at me. I'm worried if she goes into childcare at 18m, she will hit and get hit by her friends. How do I overcome this? And how do I ensure my baby doesn't cry too much in school as she's very timid?
- 2016-10-06Any mummies give this before to your LO?how?TIA
- 2016-10-06I'm on my confinement period now and breastfeeding my LO. Every time my milk will leak till my shirt is wet. I feel uncomfortable wearing bra so I did not use on breastpad. Anyway stop the milk from leaking ?
- 2016-10-06Mummies and daddies, how do you get rid of puree stain on highchair straps/hand towel/feeding spoon?
- 2016-10-06What kind of pajamas is recommend for hospital stay after delivery?
1) 2 pieces pajamas with front button, long sleeve and long pant.
2) Normal pajamas without any front opening.
3) Dress type pajamas without front opening.
I am thinking which one to buy for my hospital stay.
- 2016-10-06Any of u here brought your LO to Shan dong TCM at Jurong east before ? Any review?
http://www.sdtcm134.com/
- 2016-10-06Any method to make lo sttn? I feel so tired & sleepy he will wake up few times at night
- 2016-10-06Hi. Anyone know where i can buy pockit stroller? Would like to get the one that can recline if possible.
Tia
- 2016-10-07Hi mummies
I have a question
Do we burp our LO during night feed ard 3-5am?
LO is turning 3mths i understand we have to but i have always have difficult time burping baby when she's asleep OR sometimes after i burp her, her eyes will be wide open.
Pls advice
Thank you
- 2016-10-07Lo is 1yr old. Wanted to wean her off from Bf due to work as will be out of town. She is a direct latch baby. Dun like bottle, frozen bm,formula n fresh milk. Tried giving her in cup n straw bottle still the same. Take few solids. Any mummies encounter these before? Any solutions?
- 2016-10-07How long is long for constipation in a 10mo baby before I bring her to see the PD. Today is the fourth day baby hasn't popped and this is the first time. Previously her poo is hard but she still poos everyday or every other day although she has to squeeze hard. But this time she doesn't even really squeeze, it is as if she doesn't feel stomach pain or urge to poo at all. I give her probiotics drops everyday already. And her diet consists of mostly veggies and sweet potatoes. I have also given her yoghurt this week to help her poo but she still did not. Also tried tummy massage but still no use . Any advice
- 2016-10-07When did you receive the baby bonus?
- 2016-10-07is there any cc that serves healthier food? the ones i saw serve cakes like pandan cake for snacks. tia!:)
- 2016-10-07is there any cc that serves healthier food? the ones i saw serve cakes like pandan cake for snacks. tia!:)
- 2016-10-07Any recommendation for forehead thermometer?
- 2016-10-07Any recommendation for forehead thermometer?
- 2016-10-08I steam and mashed the avocado . Bcozzz its not riped yet. Is it ok mummy???
- 2016-10-08Champion father: Kids needed to pass motion during dinner, and Father asked Mother to pause her dinner to clean them up while he continues playing on his phone after he has finished his dinner.
*furious*
- 2016-10-08Hi mummies, i m looking for vegetarian eggless birthday cakes for my 4 yr old girl. She loves my little pony and insists she want that as her birthday cake..any suggestions? Preferably with less cream. Thank you.
- 2016-10-08My 3mth old is scheduled for 5in1 and rotavirus vaccination on monday. It seems like she is having a little flu, sneezing and occasionally sniffles. She cannot take the vaccination after 12 Oct as told by the nurse.. should i just proceed with the vaccination? TIA
- 2016-10-08Whats your take for husband that watches porn? And when confronted, he deny until you show him proof?
- 2016-10-08My mother doesnt really like my husband because my husband is quiet and doesnt really talk to her. My husband is also poor while most of her friends' son-in-laws are doing business or having a high pay salary.
She always mentioned "your husband" despite of calling his name.
I dont know what should I do. Sigh.
I even asked her just now, if she doesnt like him. But she said she was just saying.
To my mum, husband should be the one providing everything to me even all of his salary. But to my husband, he will just give the portion of the necessities to me, he wont give it all. I might bad but sometimes I felt my mum abit "looking at quot; type.
Even though I am not working and my husband is the one providing us, I am still giving her monthly expenses using my own savings (my dad not ard anymore)
I just need to share as this has been in my heart for so long and I cant even share to anyone in my family (probably to my baby only).
- 2016-10-08My friend's husband is constantly shouting at her (regardless of location). Her husband can just shout at her inside a crowded supermarket or mall. My friend temper is not that good so when things are not in her way, she might showing black face to her husband, then her husband will shout at her saying "I hate you like this! I think we cant get along, we cant go out together! I think we are not suitable"
My friend is very sad as she thought her husband should be able to know her temper, but seems like her husband cant accept the whole of herself.
What should she does?
- 2016-10-08Any recommendation of family friendly hotel in Bangkok?