Whats your take for husband that watches porn? And when confronted, he deny until you show him proof?

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We're all adults here so I'll be frank - I personally do watch porn too, and I'm totally fine with whoever I'm with/have interest in to be watching it too. If it helps, I don't watch it to fantasize over other men/women, but sometimes it's more of a "theory lesson" when I wanna try something new to "surprise" someone or just lack that feeling of being together with someone (this can happen to men when we're pregnant and well, he's being told to back off haha). I'm a single mum with no official boyfriend/spouse so I do crave that feeling of just having someone too. It probably boils down to why you think it matters to you, and why he is doing it. I understand that sometimes it could be a religious thing, but as long as he isn't doing it for the wrong reasons (eg. child pornography) - I don't think there's anything to be very worried about! All men and women have needs, it's just different most of the time - I just happen to be one of the more "open" ones who would totally give him space and time to "settle himself", or ask if he would want me to join him to watch - or even just ditch the watching and move on :x

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Almost all guys watch some kind of porn in my opinion. It could be video, pictures or even erotic stories. As women we definitely will not like our men to be always watching porn as we will think hey why do they need to do that when they have us? We must try to tell ourselves men watching porn has nothing to do with us, it is not because we are unattractive. Men are generally visual creatures. However if your husband watches porn very often like everyday, has a big collection of porn videos and pictures on his phone or he watches porn or look at sexy pictures in front of you, I find that very disrespectful and disturbing . I will show him the evidence and tell him to do it more discreetly and to cut down on it.men are like this. They will deny until you dish out the evidence. Good luck

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I will let him know that i am upset that he is watching porn and i think that he should Respect us and himself by not watching porn. I don't know how serious is your husbands' porn watching but it can be an addiction like a drug addiction that is bad, compulsive and it gradually eats them up. I will encourage my husband to stop watching porn as it will cause u to wonder if he is horny or have certain higher or lower expectations of sex because he is watching porn. Stop porn. Its bad for himself, its bad for u 2.

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All the guys I know watch porn, including gay friends. I guess it's normal to watch as long as one is not obsessively addicted to it and expect or force their partners to reenact the scenes. This is psychological to males as they explore their fantasies, after all, if they are good in bed after learning a few tricks here and there, it's good for both isn't it? Don't scold me ah, I am just sharing my thoughts.

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I think it should be fine. Some porn is healthy and you as a couple can learn from it :-) Of course, I'm referring to the soft ones. Ones that involve violence or of minors should be prohibited. This is is just grossly sick. And be careful in storing your porn stash so the kids won't find them. Let's be adults here okay? :-)

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It's normal. I will be surprised if a men doesn't watch porn. I don't feel there is anything to be upset about. I will not even confront him about watching it. In fact I ask my hub if he DIY after watching, LOL. Sometimes I tell him we should watch it together, and who knows maybe we might enjoy it together.

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Though I won't feel good if my hb was to watch porn behind my back though I do agree with yeng Lee that I think all guys watch some kind of porn occasionally. I would actually offer to watch together so that at least I got an ideal what he is watching and how often

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nothing worn actually. if i cath my hubs frens exchanging notty vids on wassap. i asked him. am i not enuff. he feel guilty la. then tats it... but boys will be boys. if u want to lighten the air. ask him "wanna watch together?" see he shy or onz 😂😂😂

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I think nothing wrong leh.. If he don’t watch then is something wrong isn’t it??