theAsianparent Site Map - Articles for October 2023
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- 2023-10-16Hi, im a first pregnancy. Today is my 7 weeks. I went to kkh on 9 oct. They did the scan but they say still unable to confirm the edd. Is this normal ? But i went to private gynae they avle to confirm and even let me hear my baby heartbeat. Kkh didn't allow saying its not good for the baby. I don't know if really cannot or just lazy. Cause my private dr was shocked when i told him kkh don't allow. Oh, they don't do any blood test too. Is it normal to have bloating everytime we eat? Its really uncomfortable.
- 2023-10-16Hi mummies & mummies to be! I’m currently at 32weeks and have been having cramps for a couple of days. Haven’t been monitoring the frequency because I’m not sure if it’s diarrhoea cramps or Braxton hicks or contractions.
Some time the cramps comes with no bowel movement. I sat on the toilet bowl waiting and waiting. But I do feel like gg for my no 2. 🫠
My next appt is next week, not sure if any mummies has been through this pain or discomfort.
- 2023-10-16#advicepls
- 2023-10-16If your newborn is not wearing swaddle, at which week did you stop wearing mittens for them ?
- 2023-10-16I lost my cool ... I beat my daughter as she scream and scratch and pinch me .. I am so upset. I am so guilty that I lost my cool . What should I do #pleasehelp #advicepls #firsttimemom
- 2023-10-16i started bleeding at 6 weeks and it doesn’t look like spotting , any idea what could it be?#advicepls #firsttimemom
- 2023-10-16#advicepls #firsttimemom i started bleeding at 6 weeks and doesn’t look like spotting, any idea what it is? kind of worried now :( last vaginal scan was 10 oct
- 2023-10-16Understand from my gynae that there are 2 options to choose or can perform these 2 options for Down syndrome. Should I go for Oscar, NIPT or both? Thanks! #firsttimemom #advicepls
- 2023-10-16At which month did you use baby carrier for your newborn? And did they like it ?
My baby is currently 1 month, and we’ve tried putting him in both ergobaby and konny, both he keep crying and wanting to get out. Is this normal and how to i let him get used to it ? As its very tiring to keep holding him for long period cs he’s always cranky and dont want to be put down
- 2023-10-16#advicepls #pleasehelp #firsttimemom
- 2023-10-16Is it normal? My shoes are starting to feel abit tight. My bump start to show and my shorts almost cannot wear. I was hoping to hide till nipt results is out... Still pending for it.
- 2023-10-16S26 has ingredients that help to build up immunity and support brain development. My kids had a taste of it and they love it!
- 2023-10-16Was attracted by the addition of lutein in this formula milk formulation and so I decided to let my little one try this, which he is enjoying. I’m sure it tastes good, otherwise he would have rejected when I repeated offer it to him.
- 2023-10-16Absolutely loving this by both my girls. Nutritious, affordable and only the best for them! ❣️
- 2023-10-16The only milk supplement I used for my toddlers. So stop looking anywhere and get this s26 stage 3 formula milk!
- 2023-10-16My baby just turned 3 months today but I notice she is not napping longer or not even napping in the day as much as usual.
She seems tired but she is not sleeping.
Is this normal ? #pleasehelp #FTM #advicepls
- 2023-10-16Hi everyone! Just wondering if it’s ok to drink similac mom alone, and not take the prenatal vitamin? Not sure what’s the right procedure here!
- 2023-10-16I just went thru csect a month ago and not intending to get pregnant for atleast 2-3 years, cause aside from the safe age gap for csect, my labor was extremely traumatising.
For protection im not sure if i should go on birth control pills or just use condoms. Im scared if ill still accidently get pregnant with protection. Any mummies managed to not get pregnant with just using condom? As im scared pills will mess up my hormones and the bad side effect.
Or if you’re in birth control, with minimum side effect
#FTM
- 2023-10-16hi there, can share if you girls take fish oil during pregnancy? from which week and which brand? #FTM
- 2023-10-16Any mums had nerve injury from epidural after delivery? How long did it take to recover and what helped?
- 2023-10-16What pacifier do u use for your LO. Cant seem to find pacifier close to hegen bottle teats. LO is only using breastfeeding to sooth herself to sleep
- 2023-10-16What pacifier do u use for your LO. Cant seem to find pacifier close to hegen bottle teats. And LO only soothes herself to sleep while breastfeed
- 2023-10-16My baby is 3 months old. I let her tried out 2 different brands of 3 milk bottles according to her age but she cried loudly, refusing to suck on the 3 new bottles. Milk leaking out from the sides of her mouth.
When I gave her the old bottle ( the current one which she uses everyday), she stopped crying and finished the milk.
Pls help!#pleasehelp #FTM
- 2023-10-16I like this Singapore formulated S-26 milk powder which contains many nutritional ingredients and also Lutein, which is good for my child’s eye development. And oligofructose which helps stimulate increase of bifidobacteria to help my child maintain a healthy gut. My little one loves this milk when I got him to try, and no rejection from him is a yay!
- 2023-10-16Hi Mummies, my almost 4 month old baby have not done any flipping by himself yet. Is this normal? How old were ur baby learning how to flip?
- 2023-10-16I just gave birth 1 week ago. Can anyone advise me if I should guide my baby to poo poo everyday by making the umm umm noise or just let baby poop by himself naturally?
Do babies need to poop everyday to be considered normal?
Please advise! Thanks 🙏#pleasehelp #FTM
- 2023-10-16Chest x-ray needed for health examination to get work visa approval
- 2023-10-16Hi mummies anyone has experience to share on whether it’s better to go private or public? I’m in a dilemma as private cost seems to be much much higher. But public seems like each time you go for appointment have to wait quite a long time…
- 2023-10-16My confinement nanny has been with us for 2 weeks, and baby is showing a preference for her when it comes to calming him down to sleep. He would continue crying when me or my husband try to carry him to sooth him to sleep,but calm down with the nanny and sleep.
However, as the nanny will be gone in 2 weeks,I am concerned that baby becomes over reliant on her and would be very hard to calm down after that.
Would like to ask if anyone has similar experiences, and what you did to overcome it.
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- 2023-10-16I’ve heard and read a lot regarding the pros of goat’s milk (easier to digest, tastes more like breast milk, stronger immunity for child etc) but am wondering if there is any truth to it?
If yes, which brand is recommended? Little Oak, Karihome or Kendamil?
- 2023-10-16Hello, there has been inner thigh abrasion recently. Any remedy that is safe for pregnancy? ThAnk you!
- 2023-10-16My 2 weeks old baby poop like this. Can anybody help me with this. Is this normal, ok? A concern? Should I bring to hospital to check? Also he is drinking full formula milk -nan blue tin 0-6 months. Is it because of milk, do I have to change? Constipation? If yes do share what kind of milk formula is good tho I understand we need trial and error for them. Should I be very worried about this or just observe first? He is also drinking milk well 60-90ml every 2/3 hours. Only today he poop as such. Ftm here, do share your thoughts. #FTM #firstbaby #poop #babypoop
- 2023-10-16My baby just turned 4 months old and we plan to send her to playgroup at 18 month. May I ask how early can we register/ enrollment for playgroup? And what are the things to look put for when selecting playgroup. Thank you
#FTM #pleasehelp
- 2023-10-16Any mummies have this feeling of hands and legs cramp and the urge to crack every joint on toes/ fingers / elbow etc? It almost feels like elderly with arthritis and this is waking me up a lot of times in the night. Happens only during pregnancy. Any remedy ?
- 2023-10-16I am at 37 week now. My baby did not grow vs 2 weeks ago during my scan. The Gynae said I need to come back to her at week 38 to see if my baby grew. If not I need to induce. What should I do? Are there other alternatives?
- 2023-10-16What important documents to pack for kkh delivery?
- 2023-10-16Does anyone have any pre natal excercise packages to recommend? Looking to keep myself fit during this period and prepare for normal delivery.
- 2023-10-17Recently I just got the Cocoa Butter Formula oil. Is it safe to use during pregnancy?
- 2023-10-17Hello! Intending to switch from the subsidised route to private when I'm nearing week 20. Anyone have any gynae recommendations? :) I've only attended a few appointments so haven't gotten a firm choice of my gynae yet. Thank you in advance :)
- 2023-10-17hi mummies, pls help me out here 🥹
i realised my LO has been coughing every time during his feedings— should i be concerned? do i go to the polyclinic to get my LO checked out? #advicepls #firsttimemom
- 2023-10-17Is it normal even after a month my csect still hurts every now and then ? And sometimes feel like a bruising or throbbing pain below the wound?
Most mummies mention their csect no longer hurts most of the time after 3 weeks but i feel like im taking forever to heal. Im scared i will never recover. Even now i still walk with my back a little bend to the front. Im still not able to walk with my back totally straight.
- 2023-10-17Hi fellow moms, anyone started exercising 3months postpartum? I’m doing exclusively pumping 7 times a day. And I have a 3yo toddler. Some days I’m so tired but some days I feel energized. I wonder if exercising will make me feel more or less tired. Anyone started exercising which made them feel better, and what exercises did you do? I have a mild case of diastasis recti. #advicepls
- 2023-10-17Wanted to change another car to smaller CC before the increase of COE next month but couldn’t get one we wanted so we decided to sell instead and buy in few months time. Good or bad move? 😅
- 2023-10-17anyone whose EDD is nearing end of Dec and tried to appeal to get the 4 weeks of paternity leave (the extension of 2 to 4 weeks starting from 1 Jan 2024) instead of the 2 weeks? TIA!
- 2023-10-17After your postnatal massage session, how long would you usually keep the binder on ?
This is my first day of postnatal massage after csect, after 3hours or so i feel suffocated by the binder, and my ribs hurt. Theyre using the traditional binder the one need to tie up.
How long did you keep the binder on after your massage and do you wear it to sleep?
My masseuse told me if possible keep it till next morning
- 2023-10-17Hello mummies! My baby is about 4.5months. Since she was about 2months old, she started to have eczema at the back of her ears and red blotches on her tummy. This red blotches seems to be different from those at the back of the ears.
Any mummies out there have encounter this before? TIA!
- 2023-10-17I just completed my detailed scan at 20 weeks and they detected a short nasal bone @ 2mm. My NIPT was low risk but I'm super worried. Has anyone had the same experience? Thank you!
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- 2023-10-17My 20 days old baby poop is like this. Is this normal? He is on full formula milk. Nan optipro - blue tin 0-6 months. Do we have to change his milk powder to another brand? If yes is there any recommendations. Thank you. #FTM #firstbaby
- 2023-10-17My kiddos are drinking S-26, it helps them with Vitamin D: Contributes to the normal function of the immune system.
DHA and ARA are important building blocks for development of the brain and eyes in infant.
*Zinc and Iron supports your child’s natural defences for children up to 6 years of age.
- 2023-10-17May I know if EDD date is confirm from the 1st scan done by your doctor in consultation room or from the first trimester screening done by the antenatal diagnostic? Which is more accurate?
- 2023-10-17Is it normal to often dream about your little one?
Am first time mummy and lo is 3 mths old
#firsttimemom #firstbaby
- 2023-10-17Hi mummies. I’m about 2 months PP. I used to be an oversupply pumping 1L-1.5L a day. It was so dreadful and I wanted to decrease the amount so I don’t overproduce. I then started to drag my pump and hoping the supply would drop but one day… the supply just completely stopped. Like just a few drops left.. I have not pumped since the past week since it stopped. Any ways to get it back? Or once it’s dried up means it won’t be back already? I’m very regretful since I won’t be able to feed my boy with BM now that my frozen stash has finished.
- 2023-10-17I am 14wks and starting to have bad headache or feeling like fainting like having low blood is it normal?
- 2023-10-18Need help
- 2023-10-18Any mummies went thru csect and hows your recovery ? I am a month after csect and my lower abdomen and csection still hurts
- 2023-10-18Hi there! Does anyone here experience cold sweats during pregnancy? I'm 15 weeks preg now and been experiencing cold sweats whenever im standing in the train.
- 2023-10-18Hi, any mummies here had a planned c-sect at 38 weeks and baby is ok without any breathing issue and no need extra care? I'm planning to have mine at 38 +2 but not sure if there's anything to be worry about.
- 2023-10-18My MIL wants to play mahjong every Monday still, during my confinement. I am very frustrated as I thought confinement cannot have any visitors over? What if the visitors want to come near the baby? She even wants the baby to sleep with her during the first month, I understand it will be quite overwhelming for me as a ftm and I need to catch up on rest.
Any tips or advice? I'm very stressed.
#pleasehelp #firsttimemom #advicepls #firstbaby #FTM #firstmom
- 2023-10-18Am i normal to feel very anxious whenever baby is still awake after feeding (fm), even when he’s not crying? Mostly during the day. As im just waiting for him to cry unconsolable.
Im a ftm, and my baby is a month old and im still not used to this whole motherhood thing, and im always extremely anxious, esp when baby is awake. And will feel like breaking down when baby cries.
- 2023-10-18Is it normal that even after a month, i dont feel the bond with my baby at all? And i dont feel that love towards my baby? Im not sure if its because of the post partum blues or the pain that im still feeling after csection. I also feel like i still cannot move on from the fact that i had to go thru emergency csection and im still not recovering even after a month. maybe one of the reason why i dont feel that kind of love towards my baby. Mainly cause i am in still in pain?
Im scared i wont feel at all even after months. Is there something wrong with me ?
And yes during the first month my husband handles the baby mostly, if not, my MIL. But now both has started working, im feeling very stressed with baby around.
- 2023-10-18#ftm #gynaerecommendation
- 2023-10-18How much will we save if its subsidised? Genuine question as I am a FTM and not sure on this thanks !
- 2023-10-18Hi all, I’m currently week 18 but experiencing swelling in my feet and also back pain. Is this normal? Sorry asking as I am a FTM. Though my bump is not that big yet, but my back feels like it’s breaking apart.
- 2023-10-18My newborn seems to be having very dry skin/peeling on its forehead and in between eyes, should i leave it or put on moisturizer? What cream should i use? He’s a month old
I have mustela face cream, should i use it ?
- 2023-10-18My daughter has been drinking this brand since birth. This is my recommendation to other mums too! Nutritious formula and reliable brand for our kiddos.
- 2023-10-18By massaging breasts regularly during pregnancy will it help to increase milk production?
- 2023-10-18Hello moms, I am currently coming up with a baby skincare product for a school project but can’t seem to hit a strong pain point. May I ask if there are any pain points or annoying parts of baby skincare that you experience?
- 2023-10-18When will this enddddd
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- 2023-10-18I am 20 weeks today and i went to a public toilet and could only allow me to squat. When I finish peeing and stood up, I felt cramp at my lower abdominal and it felt cooling at that area for awhile and then my spine was aching .. 3-4 hours later, my stomach is still a little cramp… fellow mummies ,should I be worried ? There is no bleeeding as I have checked ..
- 2023-10-18I read that baby immunization is free for citizen for Doctor Anywhere clinic visit? Whats the catch? Anyone had similar experience?
- 2023-10-18I got a 11 day old newborn… & i realise that every night after 9pm she will be awake and start crying for something even after feeding time , sometimes im not sure if shes still hungry or due to other reason … she will be fussy until 2+ am and i cant get to sleep im so so tired! Not knowing what she wants
And she always sleep so peacefully in the day and gets cranky at night . Ive tried to give her pacifier but she doesnt want kept rejecting no matter how much i tried giving her …..
#advicepls
- 2023-10-18Hi fellow mummies, just wondering under the private route with KKH, anyone able to get 3D/4D ultrasound scan?
Or do I need to ask my gynae to write a referral to external clinics to get it done? TIA!
- 2023-10-18Hi munmies do you clean your baby’s ears? Inner and outer? How u do it?
- 2023-10-18I ask my gynae for Hospitalisation leave and he didn't allow it. My body can't take it anymore to work as I'm working as an infant teacher. I keep on bending to carry babies more than 5kg. Now my back hurts and I have swollen legs. I can't apply for unpaid leave as it will affect my appraisal , Should I change gynae. My ML can only be used after 36 weeks.
- 2023-10-19My husband and I have plans to have a second child. However, recently, my 13mo baby has been taking a very long time to fall asleep and ends up sleeping very late (around 10pm to 10.30pm). She also has been needing a lot of attention and cannot be left alone for long. Doing the housework while looking after her has also been very challenging. Hence, my husband is unsure if we will be able to manage when I am pregnant with our second child and when we have to look after both children, as we do not have a helper and our parents are not staying with us. I am considering having a part time helper to help with the housework during the weekends, but my husband is not very keen on the idea as he feels the main issue now is having to spend a lot of time putting baby to sleep and giving her a lot of attention. Also, I have been having difficulties wiping her mouth, teaching her how to brush her teeth, getting her to drink from the straw cup and even getting her to drink water. She would cry when her mouth is being wiped, when we want to feed her water, and when we want to teach her how to do things. Would appreciate if you have some tips on how to make these tasks easier! Also, how did you manage handling pregnancy while looking after your other child or children, and how did you manage looking after more than one child? Thank you in advance!
- 2023-10-19Hi all!
I’ve booked a confinement nanny under PEM.
Just wondering whether you all got the package for the confinement soups and the postnatal massage too? I can’t decide 😥
- 2023-10-19Our baby is 20w now and we went for a gender scan. To our surprise, there’s more to it, doctor diagnosed that my baby girl have spina bifida. There’s an extra white spot captured during the ultrasound.
Doctor plan for next checkup in 2 weeks time.
We got really devastated by that news and would like to seek any idea in what else could we do to remedy it. Is there anyone that faced this issue and was told that it was a false positive before?
- 2023-10-19Hi mummies, I am looking for some opinions from you. I am a first-time mom. My boy is now 21 months old, he started cc since Last month. At first, of course, he cried badly, but after a week, he started to enjoy and was so happy every day we put on his uniform. He would say "kul kul" (school) 😀. Although he actually still cries during class sometimes, I decided to try full day since last week. He sleeps so poorly, 20 - 30 minutes. He's usually a good napper at home, 2 - 3 hours. His teacher said that sometimes he cried badly when he woke up and disturbed other children. I know it's still less than 2 weeks he move to full day, and I've read many moms said it takes months for their kids to adjust. But I am kind of feeling guilty and keep asking myself if my LO is not ready for a full day. Should we move back to half day? Also, the teacher said he is still not comfortable with other teachers except her and still not playing with other children in his class. My LO sticks to her everywhere she goes. I have to admit my LO is a slow to warm up kid and shy. So it makes me think, is he not enjoying the cc? It's been 1 month, and he is still not making any friends. Should I put him to more playbased class instead of cc?
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- 2023-10-19Do you require a postpartum massage after giving birth to the baby? If yes where is the good option? #budget
- 2023-10-19I am in my trimester 2 and I keep going to the toilet. Sometimes it’s a lot of pee but sometimes it just a little (but I feel so urgent though) .. is it normal?
- 2023-10-19It is normal tat I keep having cold sweat?
- 2023-10-19Hi. I just did my NIPT 2 days ago on 17/10. Today is 19/10 and i missed a call from KKH itself at 5+PM. I only saw the call at 6+pm and the clinic is already closed. AM SO NERVOUS ARE THEY CALLING ME COS SOMETHING IS WRONG WITH MY NIPT OR SOMETHING. 2 DAYS ONLY THE TEST RESULTS CAN BE OUT AH? HELP SISTERRSSSSSS
- 2023-10-19
- 2023-10-19I am feeling very upset recently as I don’t already spend time with my husband and we don’t live together and yet he says we should focus on work for our baby thus we can’t have a honeymoon. And he is paying for his mother’s trip , and when he goes Malaysia , I thought at least I can finally have some alone time with him, he ask his mum along (like wtf .. he is not single parent not only child)…even simple meal he ask his mum if she wants to join.. the thought of the lack of opportunity spending quality time just make me worry.. I don’t know if it’s my issue but I am seriously quite irritated by this kind of arrangement..I used to be so carefree and I feel my life is tied down by him and yet he does minimum effort to in spending quality time..
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- 2023-10-19Hi mummies, is there a possibility that a newborn could be overfed?
My son was 3.08kg at birth and he weighs 3.9kg when he is 3 weeks old.
Is this normal? He was given 60ml formula and breastfeed for each feeding session in order to clear his jaundice as adviced by the doctor.
- 2023-10-19My baby is very gassy and currently use pigeon.
Any recommendation to change brand? Heard dr brown has the anti colic feature, anyone tried and it works? and bb doesnt like slow flow
- 2023-10-19#advicepls #pleasehelp
- 2023-10-19Hi mummies! Im on my 2nd trimester and im not able to swallow my calcium tablet 2x a day with plain water. Can i dring with juice? Cranberry/pomegranate apple juice?
Thanks in advance! :)
- 2023-10-19Hi, I’m currently 33weeks pregnant and still direct breastfeeding my 2y2m toddler. Have stop pumping since my toddler 3months old. Decided to start pumping but it come out a few drops only, is it normal? What should I do?
- 2023-10-19Hi , im currently pregnant for 33 weeks . Im having a diarrhoea. 3-4 times going in and out from the toilet . Stomach pain but i dont think its contraction . Should i go to hospital or just wait for few days ?
- 2023-10-19I'm 9 weeks pregnant and I was prescribed Gyno Travogen Ovules to treat my yeast. After using it, i felt a mild burning sensation and the area around my vaginal is swollen. Is this normal?
- 2023-10-20I'm annoyed,frustrated,pissed off,disappointed with my spouse. He done nothing other then work, playing mobile games. I left some dirty utensils in the sink,, in thought of he could help me wash it,, but nope,, waking up to the same dirty utensils in the sink. He wanted children of his own, I gave him 4 + 1 still baking, School going child,off to school without having pocket money, wife sacrifice sell off her gold wedding ring ... but what he does? He only knows how to nagged when he reaches work late. For 10yrs with him,, I don't know if I could stay in this marriage. How am I supposed to have a stress free pregnancy?
- 2023-10-20If you’re using steam steriliser or manually boil the baby bottles to sterilise, how do you air dry it if i dont have a bottle storage ? Can i just lay in on a clean cloth or paper towel to airdry?
- 2023-10-20Literally everyone (except my husband) would say things like your stomach is so small. You don’t look pregnant like every time. Sometimes it gets so annoying. I’m 6 months and it’s my first time. I’m a lot taller and my frame is bigger (shoulders wise). One colleague of mine even went on to say maybe because your stomach fats push your baby in. I’m not sure what stupid logic is that. Anyway I don’t think most of them mean anything bad!! It’s just frustrating hearing this almost every day. Anyone experience this? I’m still enjoying my pregnancy feeling her kick and all that but the comments….
- 2023-10-20Love how S26 is formulated to help build immunity and brain development. My kids enjoy drinking it .
- 2023-10-20Love that it has ingredients to build immunity and brain development. My kids enjoy it
- 2023-10-20Hi mummies!
I had a vaccination done yesterday for whooping cough and flu during my check-up and the cashier stated that it can be subsidized by CPF.
I just received the bill for yesterday's consultation but i did not see the price for the vaccination listed down on the bill...
If rhe vaccination i received is fully paid by CPF, will it show up on the bill?
#firsttimemom #singapore
- 2023-10-20Hi, can i check if anyone menses came back as soon they finish their postpartum bleed & while still breastfeeding? My pp bleed stopped for a couple of days. I did pap smear & noted some blood the day after. Then i continue to bleed & have abdominal cramps & some other menstrual symptoms which i usually have. I thought menses usually delayed when breastfeeding?
- 2023-10-20the belly will still be big but not as big as before giving birth so not sure what size to get.. currently about 36” at 33 weeks. Thanks! #firsttimemom
- 2023-10-20Glad that this milk works well for my gal and she is growing well with the right nutrients.
- 2023-10-20Just wanted to rant. Long post ahead. Please don't flame.
I had no milk when I gave birth to baby. I
couldn't breastfeed on the first day because I was so busy vomitting and fainting. Then all the pains (e.g cramps, episiotomy) came in and I still didn't breastfeed much on the 2nd
day. I was upset but baby had to be fed. So I got the hospital nurses to feed him formula.
When I reached home I had no milk still, but I ate pills to promote breast milk, power pump, pump every 2 hours even waking up from sleep to pump every 2 hours etc and my output increases from measly 2ml on my 3rd day to 120ml in 4 weeks! I was happy.
During feeding, my husband would take out and use the entire bottle, and baby cannot finish the bottle and would regularly waste 20-30ml. This was okay to me at first because I consistently had 100 to 120ml and baby was drinking 80 to 100ml. But now baby increased to 100-120ml. I thought full is best, a little wastage is fine. But one feeding today, baby refused to drink anything more than 50ml and wasted 70ml.
Due to frequent checkups, long hospital visitsvand activities, and departure of nanny, I had frequent missed pumps and my supply dropped to 90ml. =(
I fed baby 90ml today. I know I could have added 30ml from the next bottle but I guess I was now hesitant to waste the milk. But baby did not sleep and was fussy. My MIL help to carry baby, she asks if he is hungry. I said maybe and made 80ml. He nearly fell asleep after screaming and waste my 80ml but luckily my mil mansged to wake him. After a while after feeding baby was crying, my husband came out and asked if baby was hungry again.
I then thought about (felt guilty) making my baby go hungry because of my hesitancy to waste milk, then thought about all the wasted milk before, esp the 70ml, thought about how my supply May not be able to meet baby needs, worst of all, all the efforts that went into increasing my supply being wasted - I cried.
- 2023-10-20Edd in February 2024 any mommies group chat to join?
- 2023-10-20Can I ask what to prepare if my child is going for 2nd month vaccination...
#pleasehelp
- 2023-10-20Hi all.. is there a faint line? Tested on the day I’m expecting my period.. having on off spotting..
- 2023-10-20Not sure if my girl is milk monster or S26 is really tasty ! My girl loves it so much! It is quite affordable and provides the nutrients to support her growth! Happy girl happy mom!
- 2023-10-20Hi, any gynae recommendation at Mount Elizabeth Novena? Ideally, one with very good front desk team as we have experience a great docs but with subpar team which left us with a negative experience. Thank you!
- 2023-10-20I bought the concert tickets before finding out abt my pregnancy and now contemplating if I should go. My nausea and vomiting is controlled. Only occasional tiredness and headache. I am debating so hard if I should attend the concert next week.
Can anyone share their experience attending a concert while being pregnant? Would it be too uncomfortable? My seats are somewhat furthest from the stage but the crowd would be massive and I'm just fearful I'd be claustrophobic.
- 2023-10-20#firsttimemom #advicepls #pleasehelp
- 2023-10-20Anyone have experience baby breech at 20weeks? Will there be effects on baby? I read too much on google and got worried 😭😭😭
- 2023-10-20When will our womb go back to normal position after csect? I just started my postnatal massage 4 weeks after the surgery and on the 2nd session the masseuse told me that my womb is still in low position.
Will it go back up or to normal position soon?
#FTM
- 2023-10-20hi mummies , any of you know about the nub theory ? was bored at home and kept looking at my 12w ultrasound photo .. too excited to wait for my 20w scan 😅 let me know what you think the gender is 💜💜💜💜
- 2023-10-20I am 32 days post csection, can i start drinking cold water ? As the weather is not helping i cant help to always crave for cold water.
- 2023-10-20Hi parents, can I check with you all, is this normal sore throat or HFMD? My girl told me that her throat pain vy painful in the evening, but now she said a bit painful only. Any mummy knows about it? Please share more with me thanks in advance.
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- 2023-10-20Whats the possible reasons baby vomited out milk? Either minutes or an hour after milk or while feeding. Baby on full formula, 80ml for 1 month old, using lactogen 1 since birth @ KKH & using avent natural 0 teat.
Recently past few days or a week he has been vomiting out milk back. Not just spitting but vomit. He’s pooping fine, always fart, he’s always burped, stomach is not hard, and still gaining weight. I assume. As he’s weighing 4.4kg. Any reason why he could be doing this? No fever whatsoever.
previously we tried to decrease the milk intake to 60ml or lower but still the same, and if we decrease he would still cry for milk and show hungry cues. Even when now feeding 80ml sometimes he’s still hungry and not full. Yet always vomit out.
His next doc appt is only next week.
#FTM
- 2023-10-21Hi, Im 5 weeks pregnant now and I have been having stomach cramps, feels like muscle aches at night while sleeping and when I get up too. Is this normal? I’m always worried it may be an early miscarriage 😥
- 2023-10-21Does pati ikan haruan only help to heal the outside wound or it can also help heal the inside wound ? For csection. Anyone consumed it ?
- 2023-10-21Which one better?
- 2023-10-21I am 9 weeks pregnant and today is my 2nd day spotting. More to brownish with little red. And i spotted in the mornings only. First time pregnant here! Been trying for 5 years so im quite worried. I had lighter spotting too last week and went to O&G, the doctor said they couldnt find the spotting residue and had a scan, all was fine. I have 5 more days before my next appointment. Anyone experience this please share if its normal to spot or not
- 2023-10-21Drinking red date longan water made me really heaty and my mum doesn't want me to drink plain water. As a result made me really heaty and now my csec wound has a small 9mm collection fluid inside.
- 2023-10-21When to apply passport for my baby?How to do it?
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- 2023-10-21I'm Popeye the Sailor Man,
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- 2023-10-21I'm Popeye the Sailor Man,
I'm Popeye the Sailor Man.
source: https://www.lyricsondemand.com/tvthemes/popeyelyrics.html
- 2023-10-21I'm Popeye the Sailor Man,
I'm Popeye the Sailor Man.
source: https://www.lyricsondemand.com/tvthemes/popeyelyrics.html
- 2023-10-21I'm Popeye the Sailor Man,
I'm Popeye the Sailor Man.
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- 2023-10-21I'm Popeye the Sailor Man,
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- 2023-10-21I went thru csect and just started my PP massage. After the massage my masseuse always tell me whenever i want to lie on my bed or sleep, always elevate and put my leg higher than my body, the higher the better. Anyone did it and does it help with the recovery ? Im not sure the reason behind it
- 2023-10-21Help! Hi Mummies. I'm currently in 21 weeks pregnancy, having my 3rd baby. I'm a plus size, in my early 40s and my first 2 children were born above 3 kg and healthy. I had GDM for my previous 2 pregnancies but cleared after delivery.
Every checkup with my gynae, she will always remind me not to gain weight. Being pregnant, I will gain weight eventho I did walking, eating healthy, etc... I'm a SAHM with no helper and will walk to send and fetch my older children to their pr schools to and from home as well as other home activities/errands.
Sometimes, my gynae will say don't eat and give advices like drinking all no sugar, which I followed. No fruits coz fruits have sugar but can drink coffee black, which I didn't take coz I believe coffee black is high in caffeine as compared to teas.
So far, for every ultrasound checkup, my baby is doing well and healthy, just my weight. I will be taking the glucose test next week, similar to my previous pregnancies.
When I ask what other exercise is safe and effective for loosing weight at pregnancy, I was advised to do just walking, which is my daily routine.
Sometimes, I feel a bit sad, coz all the food that we eat contains a certain amount of sugar. If I can't snack on fruits when I have hunger pangs, I don't know what to eat. I cook for my family but sometimes feel sad remembering "no food" or "cannot gain weight". I've always thought if there is no weight gain, it's not a good sign for baby and mummy? I'm so confused and stressed at times.
Any advice, please? Sorry for the lengthy post. Just need to pour it out 😩
- 2023-10-21Can csection incision open back once its dry and healing well? Im a month PP and im still paranoid if suddenly one day itll suddenly tear open back. Or if using a binder on my pelvic, above the incision, to support womb, will put pressure on the incision causing it to open back
#FTM
- 2023-10-21My baby is a dual race baby, malay chinese. According to islam, it is a great sin to shave the newborn's eyebrows no matter what. Just last night my husband suddenly realised my baby's eyebrow were gone. He looked at me and ask whether did my family (we are staying tgh with my family) or I shaved. I told him none of us shaved his eyebrow neither shaved any parts of his body. I add maybe it drop by itself. He keep staring at me as if he's dying for me to admit we shaved him. He recently putting alot of stress on me, whatever i do he will scold me. He was not like this before having a baby. So i cried out of panic as i was really scared he would flare up. He ask me if i didnt shave, why am i so scared until i cry?
He then texted his mother to ask if eyebrow really drop on its own. His mom replied usually it will not drop by itself. All the more i cant proof my innocence. He even scolded my family members. Im really stress with him, i feel like everything i do, to him is wrong. Sorry to say, if i know that having a baby with him would happen like this i wouldnt have marry him..
Idk who else mummies shares the same exp as me, husbands suddenly change after having your baby... 🥺 im really lost, idk what to do.
- 2023-10-21If my one month old baby’s always gassy, can i give him ridwind or gripe water? Or best to ask the paediatrician first ? And does both of them work ?
- 2023-10-21Is it normal for dry csection stitch area to itch once in a while ? Especially the ends.
- 2023-10-21Anyone experienced the same condition? doctor recommended IVF.
- 2023-10-21If I need to change the brand of current formula milk that my little one drinking.
Can I just change immediately or I need to mix old formula with the new formula?#firstmom #pleasehelp #advicepls
- 2023-10-21For confinement.
My mum kept it from when I was a baby..
- 2023-10-21hi mummies, I have huge red patches on my skin around both my lower leg/ankle area for about 2 weeks. it is not a rash as it doesnt feel itchy... anyone knows what it could be? could it be water retention? I am currently 28 weeks pregnant.
- 2023-10-21Hi! I'm 8 weeks pregnant and suddenly I'm having this gooey brown discharge. Is there anything wrong? I'm really scared as I'm at overseas now. Never experience this during my first trimester. #pleasehelp
- 2023-10-21Can we consume Natto while being pregnant?
- 2023-10-21My building is currently going through painting and the smell came in from the corridor and my mother in law kept the door open and the smell came into the house and the whole house smell of paint. I stayed in the room but somehow I think there is abit of smell in the room too , I tried to ventilate and now I don’t smell it but I don’t know is it because I got used to the smell.. will my baby be ok? 🥺🥺🥺🥺 I feel so scared and paranoid.. #firsttimemom #firstbaby #advicepls #FTM #pleasehelp
- 2023-10-21Any suggestions on how to remove cigarette smoke residue / particles from clothing? Just washed baby's bedsheets and smoker neighbour started smoking while the bedsheets are hung at service yard to dry... I know effects of third hand smoke is as bad as second hand smoke... whether there is any remedy instead of having rewashing the bedsheets since I dunno if the neughbour will smoke again after rewashing. Not sure which neighbour smoking since we know there are a couple smokers living below or above us, so hard to approach anyone to tell them stop smoking at windows.
- 2023-10-21I haven't had my period after giving birth. I am still breastfeeding. Just wondering if I should be concerned because I have PCOS. #PCOS #postpartum #period #firsttimemom
- 2023-10-21Baby vomit milk
- 2023-10-21My 9 month old baby always having a soft firm poop after solids but now for past 10 days she is having loose stools and innoticed that started after her 6 in 1 and pneumonia 2 vaccinations….and i went to kkh and they prescribed me some probiotics and it was ok after 3 days but still the poop was loose but now having watery stool is this normal?….has anyone noticed this before?