Planning for second child

My gal is currently 2y2mths old and i am also in my 34 wks of pregnancy. My ger was also taking a long time to sleep (except now she seems dam shag from sch compared to previously). But i guess she is becoming slightly better now too coz at least i can wfh while she is home. I guess its the passing stage! Hb takes care of my ger mostly but i am usually the one staying at hm if she falls sick on my office days.. i am not that lucky because my inlaws and father r not able to help because they are v old alr. At the moment i have no intention to get a helper at all coz we both are not that comfortable to have a stranger at hm and i am not used to ppl doing tings for me. Try letting ur baby ownself try wipe? My ger doesnt like us to help her do anyting 😢 and sometimes she does tings that u always tell her not to hahaha. At 34 weeks, i still do carry my ger (rarely she would let me carry her since the father is her no 1)

hello dear, me and my husband will split the chores and take turns to put my girls to sleep. I'm currently 17weeks pregnant w two kids, 2year old and 1 year old. honestly having a part time helper to help you around the house is actually a good idea cz you can rest while she cleans. you can start send you LO to school. it'll be easier for her to learn and absorb things, she'll tend to follow what her friends do. if she sees her friend driking from a straw cup she will try and imitate. if your husband don't agree on getting the part-time helper, when she goes to school you'll have alottt of time to yourself. you can slowly do things at ur own pace. my daughter use to sleep late too, what i did was i will play w her bfr her bedtime. if i want her to sleep by 9pm, I'll start playing w her ard 8pm thn usually by 845pm she'll be very tired. i hope this helps!