theAsianparent Site Map - Articles for January 2021

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2021-02-08Do anybody know how long of HL the doctor can give before i go on ML?
2021-02-08Hello Me and my boyfriend told our respective families and my family suggested that I am to abort due to both of family unable to support both of us and would be the only one taking care of the child. I am 12 weeks in and I feel sad cause I have no choice as I have to abort it. I was told if I give birth not only would I suffer, both my boyfriend and the baby will suffer. Due to lack of support financially. We yet to get married or get a house because it happened all of the sudden. Would there be other solutions that allows me to give birth or would it really be a better choice to really follow what the adults mentioned - abortion?
2021-02-08Hi Can baby eats some amount of meat in afternoon and dinner meal? Is eating meat twice a day ok for 9months old ?
2021-02-08Hi mummies, my 1yo teeth has gap and food is stuck in between the gap. How do I get the food out given that it is not easy to get my LO to sit still, open his mouth and let me floss? I did successfully managed to floss but it seem to push the food further down in between the gap. The bristles on baby toothbrush are also round edges and fatter, hence unable to reach the gap. Any suggestions please or which toothbrush can I get. TIA.
2021-02-08I heard that the first child will become more clingy to mummy when pregnant.. is this true? When will start to be clingy?
2021-02-08Anyone has any good piano teachers or school to recommend ? For my boy age 5
2021-02-08Any tips on what to take note of when working at a childcare while pregnant ? TIA
2021-02-08Can first trimester drink those packet chrysanthemum tea???
2021-02-08Dear Mummies, I am a little worried as my baby bump is quite huge at week 25 compared to others. But my weight has gained 4kg thus far.. Will it be due to gestational diabetes?
2021-02-08What to do if ur husband doesnt help out with taking care if kids ? Does not give any money to buy kids grocery and school fee. Once in awhile will help to vacumme the floor only .. but gives the impression to his parents that he has taking care and helping out and paying for everything and kids . He will only help to carry her sometimes in public becus people around are watching . Basically behind closed door he doesnt care and oy wants to watch tv when he is at home and ignoring everything . Sometimes when we are out he will say in a playful manner and expects me to pay . At night , ive to fork out money to buy dinner for all of us as he comes home late . He does pay for the house sp power and wifi . Each month less than $300 in total and the rest he spend on himself and takes grab everyday thru and forth to work and doesnt wants to give me any allowance. How do i deal with this ?
2021-02-08Baby is 19mths old . She could roughly understand what is going on through our action and some key words . When brought to mil place , sometimes she would jokingly or wanna try to scare my child by using the cane to hit on something and telling her she would beat . Can tell that she is afraid and i do not want her to get the ideal of her not doing something wrong and mil want to beat her and so on ... i do not like it and do not want to introduce violence to my child at such at young age especially she doesnt really understand everything . She would also start to do this hitting and scolding action when my child start to whines when shes feeling scared and cranky at her place . And secondly , my child will imitate and do this to her friemd in playground. And it happens before , luckily the parents of the kids is understanding despite there were injuries. But i guess she just dont understand ... my husbamd know what i dislike but just turned to me to look at my reaction . He is just happy tht his mother playing with her. And they also encourage habit like watching tv , and phone to her when at home i does not even allowed her to start such a habit for her own good . Husbamd does not try to stop even though he knows all these . In the end , all the taking care of the child and consequemces i have to bare in raising the child . They just spoilt the child just like that . Mqybe they think its nothing , but in the long run its gonna leave an impact ... Somehow i think mil knows becus she always look at my facial expressiin and telling me she just playing with her amd so . I just did not smile and show im unhappy ahout this type of behavior everytime she does this . When baby cry , she will just say , oh mybe shes hungry , u didmt feed her enough milk or ask me bck what happen... Ive to take care of my child all the way for several hours , while husband just lays around the house . So on sunday , ive to cleaned up my house and all the laundry and tale care of my kid and all to prepare for monday working . Im really tired.... And husband refuse to go bck to my parent house. And fair enough alternate week to g back to own parent house together? But it seeems like every week to his mum place .. This makes me really reluctant to go to mil place everyweekend... What can i do ahout this ? ...
2021-02-08Hi. Anyone here experiencing postpartum hives? Its been almost a month since i gave birth and the hives been here almost a week? No allergies in my life so far. And its only at one part of my body. Is this normal? How do you guys treat it? Thanks in advance!
2021-02-08We are 10weeks. My wife is vomiting and feeling nauseous almost daily. Is it normal? She eats sweet to control herself sometimes at work.. Our next appt at kkh is next week. Any advice? #firstbaby #advicepls #firsttrimesterhere
2021-02-08When does ur morning sickness stops? I am in week 16 still have it
2021-02-08Father malay , mother chinese . Each wants the child to learn their own mother tongue . But mom have been taking care and paying for everything for the child . Is it only fair that the mother go ahead and let the child learn chinese in school? Belived that malay language can easily be picked up from grandparent or self taught at home . But the malay side might not be too happy about this.. Father is not teaching child anything or taking care as he comes home late everyday , what if we choose malay and in the future , nobody is gonna teach and guide him at home ? And i think chinese will be more useful and harder to picked up therefore i think it should be taught properly in school . Share with me ur opinion . No rights /wrong ..
2021-02-08Anyone had 5th c sect n will be going for 6th?
2021-02-08Need help badly, my baby is super duper cranky every time before sleep for almost 2 months... every naps, and also night sleep... should I bring him see doctor ?
2021-02-08Is it normal to feel bloated and having back pain when u are 31 weeks pregnant? Cause i feel very uncomfortable. And is there any ways to reduce the bloated ness??*
2021-02-08I am 2 weeks postpartum. I delivered my baby via c section. My bleeding stopped and became light discharge then suddenly the bleeding started again today with red blood. Is this normal ? I am worried. #pleasehelp
2021-02-08I did ask tis question when my lo was abt 1 yrs old now she is 2yrs3mth going to playgroup already!!! So jst wanna ask wat time wil ur LO officially goes to ZzzzZzzzz abt wat time Is the light switch off time? N wat time is their wake up time? Pls share thoughts Thks
2021-02-08Isit normal to have baby movement at low pelvic (I guess near cervix area) at week 20? It seems to be abit too low to have baby movement at that area. Kindly share experience #1stimemom #firstbaby #advicepls
2021-02-08May I know what supplements are you taking during pregnancy?
2021-02-08Hi. How to make your 4 months plus infant sleep through the night until next morning?
2021-02-08I’m on my week 14, and had spotting after 2 days of having sex. I went to KKH emergency but dr said baby is safe. But do u have spotting before? Is it normal?
2021-02-08I’m on week 14 and I realized i pee a lot more often and my urine is very yellow. It’s like the colour of crysanthemum tea. Is it normal?
2021-02-08Which best describes you when you're in the kitchen 👩🏻‍🍳👨🏻‍🍳 Check out our recipes feature foe ideas this coming Chinese New Year: https://community.theasianparent.com/recipes?lng=en
2021-02-08How do you balance everything in your life?
2021-02-08Where do you feel kicks when your baby is head downwards?
2021-02-08What age should you start sleep training a baby?
2021-02-08How do you get rid of negative thoughts?
2021-02-08Is walking early a sign of intelligence?
2021-02-08How many times a year do you vacuum your mattress?
2021-02-08Do/Did you feel discomfort when the baby is turning?
2021-02-08Do you record your child's development monthly? (Eg: weight gain, height, head circumference, etc)
2021-02-08Is it safe to get waxed during pregnancy?
2021-02-08What kind of skin problems do you have?
2021-02-08Is tightening of the stomach a sign of labour?
2021-02-08My mil ask me to mix 0-6m old formula with 6-12m old formula. I never heard for that. I don't know can we do that. Please advise.
2021-02-08Hi EP mummies, my LO is 9mth. May i know how many times do u pump a day and wat is ur pumping schedule like? #advicepls
2021-02-08Which month can bring infant baby out ?
2021-02-09I’m on my 2nd trimester (14 weeks), but I really feel tired and I can take nap for almost 3 hours and take about 8hrs of night sleep. Will it be normal or will my baby feel lazy? Or I will have difficult time to give birth?
2021-02-09How much can we eat pineapple tarts in a day?
2021-02-09Hi! I have seen baby food and purée for babies aged 4 months and above. My baby is just above 4 months old now. Should I start on these? When is the earliest you all started on baby food/purée? Thank you!
2021-02-09Hi mommies, I just resume back to low impact pilates after 8 weeks of postpartum. However, I noticed mild bleeding after exercise. As I am having C Section, my bleeding has been v mild or close to none before I started exercise. Anyone experienced the same issue? Is this a concern that i should check with my gynae?
2021-02-09Hi, im 8weeks into pregnancy now... is it normal to have stomach pains or cramps? it has been on and off since Sunday... how do we differentiate pains and cramps? LOL
2021-02-09How old do you put your kids into preschool or playgroup. Which school is recommended
2021-02-09It’s only hubs and I. Maybe need to go into labour alone and hospital stay alone too. Anyone knows if hospital has “childcare” option?
2021-02-09Will your tastebuds change after 9 weeks?
2021-02-09Hi ladies! Just wanted to ask if anbody knows for kkh private A1, will we get the final bill upon discharge or they will bill to our house? And what are the newborn charges?#1stimemom
2021-02-09Anyone had any experience of 7 weeks 4 days baby, but half its expected size, still grows to become a normal baby? Having a feeling doctor will ask us to abort it during a rescan ten days later. IVF first try for my 40yo wife. Thanks in advance.
2021-02-09Can anyone share your experience while having fibroids during pregnancy? Does it cause bleeding? I've been having light vaginal bleeding or spotting every day but no pain. Doctors check and say baby is doing fine and there is nothing much we can do about it except close monitoring and taking Duphaston. I'm wondering if the fibroids are causing the bleeding.
2021-02-09Hi any one have leaking problem? I hv this issue and am not sure if its amniotic fluid or urine. But i dont feel like urinating it just flow out like that and i hv to wear pad. Im worried cos i dont have this issue past few mths.. should i go see my gynae . Any one face similar issue😟
2021-02-09My child is 19 month old and love water so much . I do not have trouble bathing her from birth . But right now , whenever she bath she does not want to come out of the shower and will cry murder if i turn off the shower . Any method to cope with toddler that throw tantrum whenever they cant get their way ?
2021-02-09Mummies-to-be, you should be cautious of these food and drinks during Chinese New Year: https://sg.theasianparent.com/chinese-new-year-foods-to-avoid-during-pregnancy
2021-02-09This guide of unconventional gifts is all you need if your spouse is not into flowers and chocolates: https://sg.theasianparent.com/corn-chocolate-money-bouquets-and-more-unconventional-options-for-valentines-day
2021-02-09Is the timing for doctor’s appointment flexible under subsidised patient? I’m afraid that I won’t have enough leave to accompany my wife for the appointments.
2021-02-09Hi you guys! I’m Kim from Vietnam. It’s my first baby and will get birth on middle of June. But I really don’t know what to repair for the things to go to get birth 🙈🙈😝. What’s need to buy and where’s to buy things for kids! Can you guys help me? I’m totally don’t know 😢😝🙈. Thank you
2021-02-09Complete this sentence by telling us why you love your spouse 💏
2021-02-09Share your song recommendations to add into our playlist 🎶
2021-02-09Rash on body
2021-02-09At 36 weeks my baby is in breech position. Is there chance that baby will turn head down at 37 weeks?
2021-02-09Just curious if that is an infection?
2021-02-09How does hiccups feel like? how does tossing around feels like? How do you know if the baby is punching or kicking you?
2021-02-09How often do you clean your baby’s tongue? I was told to clean 2-3 times per week. And I realized I couldn’t get rid of the white layer on baby’s tongue, is this normal? I’m using NUK wet wipes for tongue. #advicepls #firstbaby
2021-02-09Hi mummies, any PD recommendation in punggol or east areas? Thanks much!
2021-02-09Everyone is different, hence there is not right or wrong answers to this question 🙂 Share your answers with us in the comment section below 🤔
2021-02-09NT scan indicates high risk while Harmony indicates Low risk. Should go for Amniocentesis test?
2021-02-09Sharewithme
2021-02-09https://www.washingtonpost.com/business/2021/02/04/toxic-metals-baby-food/ So better to cook?
2021-02-09I have received the Down syndrome test ? But i couldnt understand how to know if my baby is ok or not . Abit worried because doctor told me if down syndrom is ok they wont call to come back n see them and just come for next appointment. But they called me to come down tmr? So worried . Did any of u mummies experience . Coming down to get the result and just go for the next appointment?
2021-02-09Which of the following describes your money parenting style? Find out more: https://sg.theasianparent.com/the-5-money-parenting-styles-which-one-do-you-follow
2021-02-09What is your dengue cluster colour? Find out how to protect yourself and your loved ones here: https://sg.theasianparent.com/singapores-dengue-cases
2021-02-09Do you follow the "5-step Mozzie Wipe Out" routine? Find out what are the steps are here: https://sg.theasianparent.com/the-battle-against-old-foes-continues
2021-02-09Which method would you use to put your child to sleep? Click on this link to find out more: https://sg.theasianparent.com/how-to-get-baby-to-sleep-fast-2
2021-02-09Hi ladies, just wondering do you guys consume bird nest with collagen during pregnancy ?
2021-02-09Is safety the first consideration you have when buying developmental toys for your child? Read more here: https://sg.theasianparent.com/best-developmental-toys-for-babies
2021-02-09Which method would you consider trying to get your child to lie on their stomach? Find out more information here: https://sg.theasianparent.com/promote-neck-development-keeping-his-head-high-at-3-months-old
2021-02-09Ever since i was diagnosed with high risk pregnancy, my husband has been hustling even harder for the family. We have 3 kids n a helper and other expenses. Before i was pregnant with 4th, i could still help out working on weekends and doing deliveries. After a major bloodshow, i was bound to bedrest for almost a month. Husband has been working everyday n coming back late. Today we had an argument bcoz 1)he was very late to help me deliver an item. 2)he came back furious because our 1st daughter kept calling n texting him non stop while he was typing something serious on his hp n got disrupted. The kids came out of their room so excited to see him home only to be reprimanded. My heart ache for my child. He went on n on how bad his day was. How much time he was wasting just by coming bck home only for me to tell him item can deliver tmr. So i asked him now u come back u angry with who? With us? In disbelief. I know my child shouldnt have annoyed him like that. But why is he venting his anger from work to home??? I really dont like it la. Then amidst everything, he said something like "im on the road the whole day. If nvr scold and discipline now then when? Wait till i die is it?" Ever since i stopped helping out, he mentioned the word die so many times. "Work until die" Its like as if we r driving him to work to his death. Doctor told me i cannot drive. But after so many arguments, i really think i should just get back to do some work n do my own deliveries. Im so sick of being useless at home. Its not that i dont appreciate my husband hardwork. But everytime when we argue, i feel very guilty for making him work so hard for the family. This pregnancy has really tested us in so many ways.
2021-02-09How would you encourage your child's curiosity? Read more here: https://sg.theasianparent.com/5-month-old-babies-curiousity
2021-02-09https://sg.theasianparent.com/baby-air-purifier-for-nursery-top-6-air-purifier-for-your-baby-room
2021-02-09Do you regularly use hair conditioner after shampoo?
2021-02-09What happens just before labour begins?
2021-02-09Does drinking warm water induce labour?
2021-02-09What is the sign of a genius baby?
2021-02-09Can babies skip crawling and immediately start walking?
2021-02-09Do you often try new recipes?
2021-02-09When during pregnancy do breasts start to produce milk?
2021-02-09Do you celebrate your child's birthday annually?
2021-02-09Hi I’m week39+2 now. My EDD is 15th Feb 2021, planned induced on 12th Feb 2021(2 more days)s My mucus plug dropped on week38+6, then again on week39+1. In between my discharge was normal.Are there supposed to be so much mucus plugs? Do you think the contractions will only come 2 more days? 😅 #1stimemom
2021-02-10I am currently 11 weeks pregnant and gynae discovered dermoid cyst 6cm and another dermoid cyst which is 2 cm on my other ovary. Gynae advice to have a surgery in 2 - 3 weeks time to remove it to prevent future rupture. I have also done Harmony test on 11 weeks, gynae said if my blood results is not normal, he will have me terminate the pregnancy by doing abortion and cystecnomy together. I am horrified, has anyone had a dermoid cystecnomy and yet have a healthy pregnancy? I am super worried and have to wait 2 weeks for the blood result. This is my first baby, and I really scared to lose it. 🥺
2021-02-10My preferred ifc is only available in July. Should I send my 6 mo to an interim ifc then change to my preferred ifc in July? 3 months in ifc , then switch....
2021-02-10Hi mummies.... Recently my 4+ mth baby is developing these rashes on his body. What could be the cause of it? Any cure? The rashes dont seem to bother him at all. However, it seems to get more day by day.
2021-02-10Hi, Has anyone engaged Dr Steven Teo from TMC STOG Practice? He was previously from KKH. Care to share your delivery experience and fees? Thanks alot.
2021-02-10Any ideal Valentine gift for husbamd this year ?
2021-02-10Hi mummies! Anyone did blood tests to see how far along is the pregnancy during the early first trimester before the dating scans? I previously did at a GP but don’t wish to go back to the same clinic as the doctor was not good at drawing blood. Does anyone have any clinic to recommend?
2021-02-10#1stimemom
2021-02-10Hi, im currently pregnant week 5 day 6. I went to polyclinic to confirm my pregnancy, but the dr didnt do any ultrasound though, just gave me a referral letter to hospital. My first appointment is on the 15th Mar and currently im experiencing some mild cramping on my left to the centre of my abdomen area, feeling very very fatigue, nauseous, perpires quite alot. Is these normal? Should i be worried if the cramping got worst?
2021-02-10Hi, my period is 1+ week late. But pregnancy test is negative. Im feeling so anxious. My period has never been this late! Anyone experienced this before?
2021-02-10Doctor say im at “ low risk “ of having down syndrome baby so they ask me to do harmony test ? Its ok right .
2021-02-10Comment below using this sentence 👇🏻 I love it when my child ...
2021-02-10Does anyone has a good comparison of insurance plan coverage for pregnancy?
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2021-02-10Hi mummies, I've been losing a lot of hair lately. I'm only on my first trimester, is this normal? Is there any shampoo that could help? #firstbaby #advicepls
2021-02-10Let us get the ball rolling: Remembering to bring oranges 🍊🍊 Now is your turn! Continue on with your answers below 👇🏻
2021-02-10Any reliable ones that anyone of you can recommend me? One that allows us to keep track of usage and instantly block child’s device?
2021-02-10Im currently 7+2 and craving for potato chips😭 is it safe to consume?
2021-02-10Any reliable ones that anyone of you can recommend me? One that allows us to keep track of usage and instantly block child’s device?
2021-02-10Hi mummies! I got a question to ask. Will it affect my baby's lungs if i were to shower with him cold water? Hope someone could reach out. Thank you!
2021-02-10Hi mummies! I am fully breastfeeding my baby of 9 months. I had my first menses after 7 months PP on late december. However, till now my period have yet to come. I have tested the kit but it turns out negative. Anyone who experienced thr same thing?
2021-02-10Hi, my LO is currently on 3 full meals and 3 milk feeds. Here’s his typical schedule: 730am - 180ml milk 9am - breakfast (buns and/or cereal) 12pm - lunch (porridge about 1/4 cup rice w meat and veg) 3pm - 150ml milk 6pm - dinner (porridge similar to lunch) 7pm - fruits 9pm - 100ml milk Is he drinking too little milk? He has been sleeping through the night and does not wake up for milk feeds though. Am concerned because he doesn’t seem to have gained much weight since he’s 12mo. Has been hovering between 10-10.2kg. Appreciate any advice. Thanks!
2021-02-10Any experience with cloth reusable swim diaper or disposable swim diaper? What is your lo experience and recommendation?
2021-02-10How to count the movement?
2021-02-10Hi Mummies! I desperately need advice. My breastmilk dries up , tried different kind of bottles to baby but he still cries as he want to latch . What else i should do?! 😭
2021-02-10My boy is nearing 3 months and he is very active with his baby coos and smiles. Is this a sign of early stages of the ability to converse or communicate?#firstbaby
2021-02-10What factor do you consider when buying kitchen equipment?
2021-02-10Which method did you use to confirm your pregnancy?
2021-02-10Is it safe to eat pickled food during pregnancy?
2021-02-10When is it safe for babies to sleep on the tummy?
2021-02-10Will this Chinese new year be different for you?
2021-02-10Do babies get cold easily?
2021-02-10Did you know that lantern festival marks the end of chinese new year?
2021-02-10What was/is your mode of transport to the hospital when you were/are in labour?
2021-02-10How often do you clean your home?
2021-02-10How many hours of sleep should a pregnant woman have?
2021-02-10Currently 35 weeks pregnant, with a babyboy & it's my first pregnancy so I am very anxious. Yesterday when I had sexual intercourse with my partner, I bled abit ; no more bleeding subsequently. Didn't went to seek medical help up till now because the baby is still very active and I can't afford to keep going to the hospital, also my bill at the hospital has been accumulating so Im afraid they wouldn't allow me to see the doctor ( my msw application still in process ). But I am quite worried about the bleeding eventhough it was a one time thing 🥴
2021-02-10Hi mummies, is it normal to feel slightly uncomfortable crampings on and off at 22 weeks?
2021-02-10Hi babes, it has been 2 days since I missed my 'bf' aka menses. Tested on the day it was supposed to come, negative. Along with that I do have symptoms such as sore amd tender breast, lots of wind n cramping. Im a little worried because my mthly cycle has always been on time n on target. Should I consult a doctor or wait first? Thank u babes
2021-02-10Hi mummies! I have a bad toothache! And usually, nurofen pill helps. But could i take nurofen pill during pregnancy? Help!😭😭😭
2021-02-10Hi ladies I’m currently 5 weeks along and for the past 2-3 weeks, I haven’t had a good appetite. I’m not experiencing any morning sickness, so I’m not sure if this is normal. I’ve no cravings too or any aversion to food, I’m just uninterested in food. But since I’m pregnant, I kind of force myself to eat. And if I’m having just a light meal, I will drink some soy milk to make me feel fuller. Can someone advise how to increase my appetite? I’ve also lost abt 1kg. I was told to eat smaller meals but I really don’t have the appetite.
2021-02-10Im only 14weeks but I have bad backache.Its disturbing my sleep.How to ease?😭 Can I get a massage?
2021-02-10Hi. My baby is 3mths+ now and realize her head is still not very stable yet. Is it normal?
2021-02-11Hi, my baby is coming to 8 months old, he started having cough and sneeze since yesterday.What should I do?
2021-02-11Is it okay to consume natto beans during pregnancy? #pregnancy #firstbaby #nattobeans#advicepls
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2021-02-11Hi my 17 month old Lo is still waking up at night for milk 2 times. How to make her sleep thru the night?
2021-02-11#1stimemom #advicepls
2021-02-11My 3 month baby is taking lesser milk each feed. He used to drink 110-120ml each feed (about 7 feeds a day) but now he only drinks 90-100ml. Is this normal? TIA!
2021-02-11What to understand defiant behaviour in kids
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2021-02-11Whether you're giving ang bao (red packet) for the first time or not, here is guide as to how much you should be giving to family and friends 🧧 Like this post and comment with an emoji if you found this post helpful 👍🏻
2021-02-11If you were to buy a valentine's day gift for yourself, what would it be? 🎁
2021-02-11Share with us your suggestions in the comment section below 😍
2021-02-11Which is/are your favourite Korean skincare brand(s)? 🧴
2021-02-11Any mummies here who used Mosfiata electric breast pump? How is the product? I was thinking of getting Avent electric pump. But since I am a STHM (for now) a friend suggested me to try mosfiata first.
2021-02-11May I know which mosquito repellant are suitable for toddlers?
2021-02-11I'm a first time mum and delivering in June. For the past few months I thought I have made up my mind not to engage a nanny partly due to space and budget constraints. However, my family members start telling me recently that I should really engage one but for some reason I feel that we can manage without one. Here are some facts to share; do let me know your views! We live in a one bedroom apartment. Husband will be taking paternity leave. Husband has no problem with laundry and housework. Our mothers can drop by a few hours a day. We'll be ordering confinement meals. Based on the above, does it seem ok that we can go without a confinement lady?
2021-02-11We finally have some answers: https://sg.theasianparent.com/andy-lau-reveals-reason-for-not-holding-a-wedding-banquet
2021-02-11idk since when but i feel like having mild cramps.. i cant remember when was the last time i had menses but i dont want to put my hopes up. do anyone of you think i should take a test? i am not on any birth control fyi..
2021-02-11Hi mother of twin here, is anyone here also have swollen feet like this. It somehow hot and feel like stretching.
2021-02-11Hi, i am 14weeks pregnant but i am starting to feel pain/cramps around the womb. Should i worry?
2021-02-11Can I eat bird nest during pregnancy?
2021-02-11I'm in my 18 weeks pregnancy. I always, almost every day experience flu and blowing nose during midnight. Does anyone know what it cause and how can I avoid it? #firstbaby #pregnancy #advicepls
2021-02-11I just delivered my baby about 20days ago via cesarean. I am doing my confinement now and I don’t feel good with everything. I just feel that I am very ugly (because of my bulgy tummy), dirty (because of confinement, I can’t wash my hair every day and I am still bleeding) and pain everywhere (wound, nipples and breast pain as I am only pumping and not latching). Does anyone else feel that way as well? My baby doesn’t want me when she cries as well. Sigh. #1stimemom #advicepls
2021-02-11Hi everyone, How much do you give your CN for CNY red packet if confinement falls during CNY?
2021-02-11How do you tell if your spouse is bored with you?
2021-02-11When should you start to play music to your unborn baby?
2021-02-11Does being pregnant with a girl cause more nausea?
2021-02-11What causes baby's skin irritation?
2021-02-11Given the current measures, will your reunion dinner be different?
2021-02-11Can a babies suffocate from a stuffy nose?
2021-02-11Which of the following do you do first to prepare for Chinese New Year?
2021-02-11Which week has the highest risk of miscarriage?
2021-02-11Do you check the daily weather forecast?
2021-02-11Does the baby sleep in the womb when the mother sleeps?
2021-02-11Hello all, #25F These days Iam feeling really low and I have nobody to share my feelings, so iam using this platform to express my feelings. Iam married for 2 years now but have been living far from husband for 1 and half years as I was pregnant and had to deliver a baby in another country and then this lockdown happend, So we are living in different countries As it was arranged marriage , we did not spend a lot of time together before marriage, but he used to send gifts on birthdays or valentine's and we used to talk to each other daily. The months we were together we enjoyed our newly married life, nothing to complain about life. But he never expresses his feelings towards me when we are distant no romantic talk or being lovey dovey...Iam not expecting a luxurious gift or something , those things doesn't matter to me but at least on birthdays a romantic wish would do..but no it's just a normal wish..he doesn't ask about my day or how did my birthday go.. I know he loves me but expresses only when iam with him , when some of my friends post about their spouses about those romantic gifts or even a rose I feel why my hubby doesn't do that..I would be happy with a single rose or even with a lovey dovey text.. Iam feeling emotionally distant these days...I haven't shared these things to him and he is a practical person..but I wish if he could be emotionally available with me. when Iam with him nobody can take care of me like he does , he is there for me both physically and emotionally. But why not when we are living far?
2021-02-12Hi mommies, any idea if i can restore the remaining breastmilk back to the fridge and reheat again afterward?
2021-02-12ตอนนี้น้อง2เดือน22วัน ลองจับน้องคว่ำแต่น้องไม่เงยหน้าหรือตั้งคอขึ้น แบบนี้จะเป็นอะไรไหมคะ?
2021-02-12Please help... I gave birth 2 days ago and my baby is a bit premature and kept in NICU for a bit. I tried to massage and express my milk but I only got a bit of colostrum with the help of the nurse. Tried to latch him and he seems to suckle but I'm not sure if he could get any milk. The nurses there was kind enough to top up with formula milk & told me not to stress if I don't have milk yet. The lactation nurses also helped me to massage and squeeze some colostrum but my breasts are still very soft so I don't produce much. Any other tips to stimulate my milk? I do drink alot of water and try to take meals with soups. Made my husband bring me my pump later to see if I can get any milk or not.
2021-02-12is it good? App here says cant take nuts. Dr Oatcare has mixed nuts inside.
2021-02-12I'm originally intending to get confinement meals for lunch and dinner while my breakfast would probably be fruits, yoghurt and brewers yeast etc. Also plan to take fenugreek and fennel tea in the day. Someone told me it's not enough and I should go Chinese TCM to get additional packets of herbs for a month. How much do mummies usually eat during confinement? Is my plan ok or do I really need to get additional supply of herbs from TCM?
2021-02-12Free 50 pieces of Bzu Bzu kids mask to be given away! Simply download the app and register for an account: http://onelink.to/chwwjd Once you register, go into the app, find the campaign, Bzu Bzu and click apply.
2021-02-12Hi. Today we got into a car accident with our 6 month 5 days old baby... though my mum held on to my baby really tight, he got into shock and cried out loud. However, after that, he seems well, like back to normal playful type. Just that now even with normal sneezing sounds will scare him to the extent of crying. We are bringing him to kkh ane now.. what else should I monitor? #1stimemom #firstbaby #advicepls #pleasehelp0
2021-02-12Hi ..Any recommendation for immunne system supplement for kids age 3 to 10 year
2021-02-12Hi, anak saya umur 2 bulan skrng die kurang minum susu..selalu minum tak hbs..saya bagi setiap 2-3 jam sekali..btw anak saya minum susu FM..apakah saya perlu tukar susu??
2021-02-12#firstbaby . Keen on knowing how many scans are suggested in the whole 9th months tenure. Do we have to visit gynec every 4-5 weeks after 16th week.
2021-02-12Hi mummies, need some help here. I'm a ftm i'm unsure whether this is contractions or BH? Do assist me thank you! Oh and im 39w3d btw.
2021-02-12First trimester.. And it's like the bloating gets worse as weeks pass by.... Does it become better later on? Feeling very sad because its cny and I can't enjoy anything. Even the steamboat which I usually love I felt sick after eating a few mouthfuls.
2021-02-12Kiwi longan kombucha
2021-02-12What did you think about before starting a family?
2021-02-12How long should pregnant women go on walks daily?
2021-02-12Do you remember the brand of pregnancy test kit you used?
2021-02-12How do you know if your baby is cold at night?
2021-02-12Do you still plan on giving ang bao (red packets) this Chinese New Year?
2021-02-12Does sleep affect the baby's growth?
2021-02-12What is the chinese zodiac sign for 2021?
2021-02-12Can vibrations hurt a fetus?
2021-02-12Do you celebrate Valentine's Day?
2021-02-12How early in pregnancy do you experience tiredness?
2021-02-12Prenatal massage recommendation~
2021-02-12Hi. I’m pregnant 13 weeks and not sure why I started to feel like there’s butterflies in my stomach (nausea but not nausea. Don’t know how to explain) and unusual dizziness (never felt this kind before). Is this normal? First pregnancy tho.
2021-02-12I made the idiotic decision to take the cloth seat and belts off my kid’s Aprica high chair to wash without properly studying how they came together. And now, surprise surprise, I have no idea what goes where. I think I’ve set up the seat and the waist belt strap correctly. But the shoulder straps just don’t look right. The online manual I found does not help either. What I think might help is a picture of the shoulder belts on the chair. So if any parent out there can help, please do? I’d be very grateful. - A very confused Mom.
2021-02-12Hi any divorce parents here, I would like to seek for advise. My child is sticky to the grandmother. And I am currently staying at mil place. I am going through divorce and my soon to be hub contribute nth since the child birth, now he wanted to snatch the child from me and keep telling me that the judge will only give me 2 days of care is there such law? Or will the judge determine on grandparents to judge? My son is currently 2 years old. Hope I can get some advised!
2021-02-12How and what does it really feels like? I felt almost a severe cramps a few times this week but not sure if it’s contractions or something else. I’m at 31 week. #bantusharing #1stimemom #advicepls
2021-02-12Hi mummies. My PD recommended Enfamil AR to my 2 month old due to reflux. As the formula is thicker, she recommends a larger size teat. I’m using Hegen bottle currently. Any mummies can share what teat you’re using. Many thanks!
2021-02-12Hi guys im 23 weeks preg and the outside of my vagina seems to have rash which can b quite uncomfortable when wearing my undergarments... how to treat it at home? Is it normal to experience this
2021-02-13Can eat mac breakfast sausage egg muffin?
2021-02-13I’m currently on my 3rd trimester and somehow I often feel like i’m easily triggered to cry. Like although small stuff can leads me to crying. Anyone else felt like this before? It’s like i’m very very fragile
2021-02-13Isit normal to have cramps during first trimester? In weeks 6
2021-02-13Pain something like sharp, shooting pain. Anyone has similar experience? She is 10 weeks pregnant now.
2021-02-13Hey guys im 24 weeks preg and noticed that my body odor is going on strong 😭 before pregnancy wasnt this bad.. oh god is it normal?
2021-02-13Hello everyone currently i m 35 weeks pregnant and on my tummy my skin is coming out n giving me some skin expanding type of feeling can u guys help me what to do ?
2021-02-13Hi Mummies! Is it normal for my 9 months old baby to have lost his appetite to eat his normal cerelac and depend on my bm alone?
2021-02-13Hi All Mummies! Any one seen Dr Caroline Khi from Mount Alvernia Hospital before? Thank you!
2021-02-13My baby is 14 months old. For breakfast Is usually milk with either cerelac or farleys rusk. Lately I notice that she doesn't want to drink. Mummies any breakfast suggestions ?
2021-02-13Any reviews on Chee Hwan Kog childcare? Sunflower preschool at hougang mall? Sparkletots in hougang?
2021-02-13Is lemongrass save to drink during 7 months pregnant ?? #pregnancy #advicepls
2021-02-13Hello To all mommies here... I just wanna ask if anyone go for induce is it safe and how it is? my ob want to induce me on 17 but i dont know if my cervix is open already... I ask her but she said she dont check if the cervix is open already... Thanks for the advice im 37weeks amd 4days
2021-02-13Hello mummies. Just asking I’m 13week pregnant. But idk why i still felt like my tongue like still got metallic taste . Coz i dont feel any more nausea just the metallic taste doesnt go away ? But my eating now is good already ?
2021-02-13Hi moms! I’m on my 15 weeks now and I realized my left foot is abit swollen. Painful in the morning when I just woke up. I do put on socks when I sleep at night. What else can I do to reduce the swollen?
2021-02-13Hi mummies, Anyone took whooping cough vaccine? Is it compulsory? #1stimemom
2021-02-13Is it normal to have white discharge ? I used to have it before my mens starr but since now im preg us it normal to have it too?
2021-02-13Can I take cream cheese related dessert and cakes?
2021-02-13What do you want for Valentine's Day?
2021-02-13What causes your water to break early?
2021-02-13Do you burn more calories when carrying a boy?
2021-02-13Can babies overheat in sleeping bags?
2021-02-13Are you planning to visit your family and relatives this Chinese new year?
2021-02-13What is the safest room temperature for a newborn?
2021-02-13How long do Chinese New Year celebrations last?
2021-02-13Can drinking more water increase amniotic fluid?
2021-02-13Who was the last person that made you smile?
2021-02-13Do babies open their eyes in the womb?
2021-02-13What age should you start breast self-examinations ?
2021-02-13Any tips to prevent?
2021-02-13hi mummies urgently need some advice! any one daughters will hump their chouchou or blanket before they sleep? my daughter has been doing this n idk if it's a thing I could bring to a doctor??
2021-02-13I just went for a scan as I had light pink and red discharge. Doc said two things: that I have polyp and the baby still too small ~0.4cm for 6.5 weeks. Doc prescribes me with Duphaston. After the scan, I have bleeding. Next check up will be ard 1.5 weeks later, Doc also said if the growing is too slow, it may be ruled out as failed pregnancy.... Wondering if anyone experiences the same as me..
2021-02-13How's everyone new year? With the restrictions I have more time to rest then to carry my baby rushing for time one place to another 😂 can you feel me?
2021-02-13Anyone of you here who underwent c-section for the 3rd time? I heard its more dangerous? Can you share you experience?
2021-02-13I’m feeling overwhelmed with the various do’s and don’ts of pregnancies. Specifically advices from those more senior than me. How do you cope and find balance between living your life/learning about you pregnancy as u go further along VS not offending others/making mistakes unnecessarily? Not sure if I’m making sense here but I’ve been feeling quite annoyed. More annoyed with the way these advices are conveyed , tbh. P/s: I am aware that these advices are only given with the best intentions. Hoping to find ways to cope/respond to future advices in a more positive manner.
2021-02-13Does anyone knows trusted, good malay post natal service that includes post natal massage, gagang, bengkung, supplemented with pilis, jamu and lulur?