Need to let it out... My husband keep saying me not being flexible enough in thinking. He dislike my family.. and I dislike his family.. but I am staying in my parents house. His way of taking care of our lo is different from mine. And he always insist on his way. But I am a stay home mom, so I can have all the time to take care of my lo. I just feel that after having my lo, my relationship with my husband is rocky. Always quarrel about lo or our family members. Sometime I thinking of divorce and live my own life with my lo. But I am a sahm, maybe custody will not be given to me. I really so tired. I starting to be quiet and ignore things that I don't like or don't wish to hear.. and when he is taking care of my lo, I will start to play games so I can totally not care how his way of taking care. His has a big ego and everything I try talking to him end up he will put his thinking into me. Making me think that his way is better. Dam irritating de. No point talking out to such a selfish person. My lo is 2 months plus.

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I think you may need to prove yourself to your hubby first. In a lot of men's eyes, SAHM is very free and just take care of house and kid. Maybe it would be better if you went out to get a job, put th

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It is tough during the first few months. But it will get better. Do not give up on your family. Not everyone has that... Try being more assertive. If you don't agree with something, make it known. I

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i felt that before 😂 but i change my mind. i rather spent time with my husband and baby. have a positive mind always.. dont think negative specially when it comes to ur own family. dont mind ur in l

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Focus on yourself and your well being. Dont depend your happiness on people. Choose the high road.

Its such a cliche things to say but communication is the greatest ally in a relationship. I think it'd be a good idea to sit down with your husband and have a heart to heart talk. Be mature during t

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