Chetna Joshi, India

Mama of 1 playful doll

About Chetna Joshi

How often do you pamper yourself with spa visits? A friend of mine goes almost every other month, I feel so jealous. I wonder how to take time when you have no support system and babies to look after.
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I go for a pamper session once a month. Yes, it’s tough with a baby and as a young mum you feel guilt leaving your child behind. But I feel it’s important to refresh if I am to give my 100%. I ask my
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I totally understand.. relaxation and me-time is really needed! You can talk to your husband that you need some time off every now and then. I'm sure he will understand and take care of the babies ove
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i dont really go to spas, but instead, i do something else that relaxes me each day. walking is something that i have always enjoyed and look forward to each day. but because i have kids at home an
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My husband is so eager to send me to my parents' home for the vacations. So much so that he is travelling for a day, and he wants me to go the same day when I insisted that I would go when he is back.
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my god, this is a very difficult question. may i ask what prompted you to think like this? is it only the fact that he is so eager for you to go, or have you had any reasons to suspect so in the past?
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Please suggest some activity in which I can engage my 6 year old daughter. I work from home and am unable to spend time with her or play with her most of the time because of which she is watching too
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You know children want their mother's attention a lot, they want their mothers to play or just spend time with them. I can understand your situation completely as I am going through the same situation
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Engage her is reading instead, u can also send her for dancing,swimming, karate, yoga, phonics to keep her engaged
I would suggest to provide some musical instruments and have some classes for the activities either at home or outside.
You can buy interactive story books and puzzles. You can start by reading her some parts when you're free and hopefully she will pick up the habit when you're busy. My younger cousin really loves her
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i recently bought a Leap Frog for my 4 year old and it is something she is really interested in. the best part is that it keeps her entertained for long while also helps her learn.
My SIL is visiting us, and she pinpoints mistakes in everything in our home. Like, she would start cleaning the bathroom or the jars in the kitchen and things like these and says in a laughing way th
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you know, some people exist only to try and show themselves superior by showing others down. this type of mentality exists so much in Indian families, where the in-laws are always trying to show the b
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Take it with stride. You can't change others but you can adjust and adapt yourself. I'll take it in a way that she is really helping me. And in return I'll thank her wholeheartedly
My 6 year old's milk teeth are falling but the new ones are not coming in shape. Do you think I need to see a doctor or they will automatically fall in place? As my husband says that I need not worry
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Has your child been to the dentist?
My MIL is a nice woman but she has the habit of instructing me all the time. Like, she all the time tells me to wash hands when I go to the kitchen, when we are done with our meal, she wants me to cle
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there are only two ways to handle this - either tell her directly but nicely that you are a grown up and are set in your ways, just as she is in hers, and that this is how you like to do things and wi
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i think the only way to solve this thing is to tell her clearly. tell her that you are an easygoing person and are aware of your responsibilities. tell her that everyone has their own way of doing
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Be patient. What I have learnt from my experience is that we should not become agitated with small things like these in life. How does it matter if you do something 5 minutes early than what you like
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i think u shud frankly tell her wat u feel...tell her politely...dat u like to do ur work in ur way only...so dnt giv instructions..u are her family member not d maid..start doing ur work in ur own st
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I think you should tell her nicely that you have your way of living and a different nature and lifestyle than hers and you do things your style. If she has come to live with you, then better ignore he
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I am 38 year old, and already going through menopausal symptoms. Isn't 38 too early to have a menopause? Should I see my doctor, though there is nothing physical happening that is troubling me?
Hi, It is called pre-mature menopause. It is little earlier as compared to other women. I think if you are going through menopausal symptoms then it is always a good thing to see your gynaecologist.
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I do not ever ask my husband about savings that he make and do not interfere in any financial decisions that he makes... am I doing it right, or I should start participating in where he is putting mon
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you can ask him as you are both partners and should be aware of the income that comes in to the family. this will help both of you plan well and save too. talk to him nicely, in such a way that he
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it all depends on the kind of relationship you share with your partner. you can ask him about his earnings, but i wouldn't say it should be in an interrogating manner. there are many couples who do
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i think dat u shud participate in all financial matters.. atleast u shud know wat amount of money is being invested n whr...both of u shud b aware of each n everything..
Of course, you should ask. You are one in term of not only physically but also, emotionally and mentally, so why not. You are not the 3rd person in your house to hesitate, you are his first partner in
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What is squay martial arts? Is 4 year old kid early to be put into it?
Hi It is a form of martial arts. Sqay is a South Asian form of sword-fighting originating in Kashmir, currently divided between India, Pakistan and China. Armed sqay makes use of a curved single-ed
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I am having drastic hair fall. I am taking homeopathic treatment. Does anyone know that homeopathic treatment would help or not?
homeopathy helps but depends on how long you can properly take the medicines along with your regular lifestyle. you can also try natural remedies such as castor oil massage, deep hair oil treatment
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Hi Chetna, homeopathic treatment will definitely help you but let me tell you that it will work only if you are extremely punctual about when to take your meds and follow all the rules, such as wha
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coconut oil massage, proper diet nd u can apply mehndi leaves blend it apply on hair it's natural, dosent have any side effects.
U can also apply onion water on ur scalp..it works for me..nd u should take adequate rest nd proper diet..rest i agree with debolina
my mother is a strong supporter of homeopathy, and even though it works, i personally feel it takes a lot of time and also a lot of effort. have you tried other home remedies? you can heat curry pa
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