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From marriages, relationships, in-laws, to vacations and outings, this is the perfect room to ask what is on your mind and share your experiences!
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BTO HOUSE
Hi every1..., Fr BTO hse..,if the HLE given is not enough to cover the bto house sales amount after deduct cpf.,.must we pay in cash to top up?? Or cn we ask for loan??.
Have to pay by cash. HLE is the hdb loan amount you will be given so you cannot take another loan unless you purchase it as personal loan. But have to seek clarification from the bank and hdb whether
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Advice?
I am a teen mum, 17 this year & currently 25weeks along. my bump is still relatively small & i have not broken the news to my parents yet, any advice on how to break the news? i had a previous pregna
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I got pregnant at 21. I broke the news to my parents immediately after i confirmed the pregnancy because i didn’t wanna lie to them. They were VERY angry & insisted i terminate my pregnancy else they
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You have to tell them sooner or later...So might as well do so before Christmas... Get a very close friend or a close family member to be with you when you talk to your parents..
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you can talk to your bestf about it first, then talk it out nicely with ur parents.
You could talk to a close friend or a relative first.
I have my first daughter at 15 years old and second one at 16 years old . I tell my parent when I'm about to due 😅 But thank God everything happen with a reason. They might be angry but they still h
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Love for your child
How do you express your love for your child?
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Lots of hugs and kisses ❤️
Hugss
Hugs and kisses
Physical touch, acts of kindness and words of affirmation
Super Mum
Hugs, tell her I love her
Christmas decor
Dear mums, where's the best place to get some nice Christmas decor?
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Most shopping centres actually or try Daiso(:
Tangs, Robinson's, even cold storage has some nice stuff
Takashimaya, Robinsons, Tangs
You can try Takashimaya.
Super Mum
Japan home? Accessories can try daiso?
jus to know
Would you let the grandparents decide on a date for your kids birthday?
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Nope
No, they can offer opinion but ultimately parent's decision
VIP Member
no
They may weigh in but ultimately the parents should be able to make the decision.
VIP Member
No I decide.
What are the top 3 things you fight about as a couple?
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Attitude, responsibility and in laws (:
I love shopping things, but my husband prefer shop on food 😂
Money, attitude, responsibility
His drinking habit
money, responsibility and trust issue
How often do you visit your in-laws ? do you like it
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Once a month, not often so it's fine(:
From once a year to once every 2 year I encourage my husband to visit them and get flight ticket for him during festive or during their birthday Luckily he did not force/insist me to visit them cause
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Staying with them and cant wait to get out of this hellhole.
stayinf with them, thus seeing everyday. but I hope to move out soon!
the question is how can I avoid seeing them. my husband is mommy's boy too and he just have to always arrange to have a meal with them together with his siblings and random relative. I hate it. too m
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age gap
What’s the perfect age GAP between kids?
2-3 years :)
5 years.
3yrs
3
It depends. 3 years is just nice.
Spouse Fight
What are some odd issues that you and your spouse fight about?
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Current affairs! But making up is fun ;)
In law
Money usually.
Some history
We normally try to avoid fighting in front of our kids but choose to talk things out. If he doesn't agree to something and gets angry he will tend to keep quiet n let things cool down before voicing o
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military
What would you do if your child wanted to join the military full-time?
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Sure why not?
I would support them in their decisions. But also take the time to understand their motivations and possibly give them other perspectives too (if they haven't thought about it).
He should do what he’s happy with.
Support them
I will support their decision if they have considered and think about it very carefully