Need to let it out... My husband keep saying me not being flexible enough in thinking. He dislike my family.. and I dislike his family.. but I am staying in my parents house. His way of taking care of our lo is different from mine. And he always insist on his way. But I am a stay home mom, so I can have all the time to take care of my lo. I just feel that after having my lo, my relationship with my husband is rocky. Always quarrel about lo or our family members. Sometime I thinking of divorce and live my own life with my lo. But I am a sahm, maybe custody will not be given to me. I really so tired. I starting to be quiet and ignore things that I don't like or don't wish to hear.. and when he is taking care of my lo, I will start to play games so I can totally not care how his way of taking care. His has a big ego and everything I try talking to him end up he will put his thinking into me. Making me think that his way is better. Dam irritating de. No point talking out to such a selfish person. My lo is 2 months plus.

I think you may need to prove yourself to your hubby first. In a lot of men's eyes, SAHM is very free and just take care of house and kid. Maybe it would be better if you went out to get a job, put the child in infant care and move back with him. Also good for you to have your own pocket money and a bit of break from the child. Your parents side maybe eyery week visit I think you are not failing on your duty.

Think about ur baby. If your child grows up seeing how you and your Husband act toward each other is it good for him? The best is if the child can grow up seeing both parents in a harmonious loving relationship. Suggest sit down with hubby, each talk for 5 minutes at a time , the other just listen (use a timer). Take turns talking and practice active listening. Try to work things out.

i felt that before 😂 but i change my mind. i rather spent time with my husband and baby. have a positive mind always.. dont think negative specially when it comes to ur own family. dont mind ur in laws. focus on ur relationship and ur child. pray always and always talk to ur husband.. always kiss and hug ur hubby. 😊😊😊

It is tough during the first few months. But it will get better. Do not give up on your family. Not everyone has that... Try being more assertive. If you don't agree with something, make it known. It takes time, but over a few months, things will change.

divcore is not the way out for situation like this. In marriage, its not about happily ever after. Its about accepting the flaws in each other and their family too. Sit down and talk to him.

Focus on yourself and your well being. Dont depend your happiness on people. Choose the high road.

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