theAsianparent Site Map - Articles for June 2017
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- 2017-06-12Anyone know any marriage Counselling? I would like to see if my Husband will change his attitude toward our relationship. I think he take it for granted I have to obey him all the time plus extended family issues. No room for negotiation as he is very difficult to communicate. I need 3rd party to convinced him. I have approach family service centre. They are my listening ears but no marriage consellor. I don't think my Husband will go there to listen to the social worker for my view. Service from government will be good..
- 2017-06-12Help!!
My 17mth baby gal has very red n spotty nappy rash for the first time since birth.
I've switch from Mustela to Desitin after some advice from friends. But been using Desitin for 5days, rash has dried up, but still red and swollen. Should I go to the GP or her usual PD?
Any advices dear mummies.
- 2017-06-12Hi,
Im.new about hiring a helper.
Do they come im contract like 6mth a year etc?
Thank you
- 2017-06-12Can mmr, 5 in 1 and flu jab be taken together
- 2017-06-12Moms. I have divorce with ex hub already. We have 2 kids and monthly he have to pay me $200. But my salary is only 2k. Ppl keep asking me to go family court to review the monthly payment. Ask me get more. By right, I should ask for more right? I don't like too much trouble but on the other hand, I don't have alot to support my kids. Should I just go family court and review to ask for more? Thank.
- 2017-06-12I think I have some issues with myself. My husband , my son and me are staying with my family waiting for our bto to be ready. My husband family we seldom see each other maybe one month once or even not meeting them until occasion. But I really dislike my husband second sister who she is more close with. I have to idea why I dislike her. My husband mother had pass away since he was young and his sec sister he Wil treat her as his mother. But I really dislike her when she msg or call my husband all that. The problem is me, I want my husband to love me only and only care for me. I know i am selfish but I can't help to be like this. I don't know how to deal with my thinking and I feel I am being very not mature enough to think. But I really don't know what is wrong with me. I always quarrel with him whenever his sister called up or msg him. I had family too and I had a sister too. But I really don't know why I am acting like this. I even want to divorce with him because of his sister. I think I am crazy for making a big fuzz over stupid stuff. I hate myself. How can I help myself? I know i had jealousy issue too.. I feel terrible for being myself.
- 2017-06-12How many 5s do you spot?
- 2017-06-12How can I make porridge more tasty to eat for my 1yo
- 2017-06-12Does breast feeding support weight loss?
- 2017-06-12Is there any medications or remedies for chicken pox? Or time will heal?
- 2017-06-13Working mummies! May I know if you will feel sleepy at work and tired after work? I do feel very sleepy despite sleeping at 1030 to 6am. After work got so tired that I can't think properly or almost fell down from stairs or trip over
- 2017-06-13How much should me and my husband be earning per month to raise two kids without stress?
- 2017-06-13How can i set a good sleep pattern of 3 months old baby? Is it even possible?
- 2017-06-13Baby turns 3 months. How do you sleep training? She still wakes up every 2 hrs at night.
- 2017-06-13hi mummies with toddlers who has yet to go school, how is your day to day timetable like? for mine its like practically feeding, napping, doing housework and catching up on me time. how do you find the time to prepare and carry out hands on activities? salute to mummies who are able to
- 2017-06-13Their agents won't confirm or deny reports
- 2017-06-13What is the average blood sugar level for a pregnant woman?
What is best result after glucose test ?
After glucose test the result 8.1 , it is too high?
- 2017-06-13My 1yo always poop very hard like stone... How can I make his poop softy??? Drinking water, as still got sth else I can do?
- 2017-06-13What's the best way to childproof a hotel room?
- 2017-06-13Any home remedies to cure eczema?
- 2017-06-13Any idea where there is rental of hsir wig. Intend to ask the salon staff to do for me. Appreciate if it is at north area
Planning to attend wedding dinner.
- 2017-06-14Top foods to boost baby's brain!!
- 2017-06-14My 7 months LO going to be 8 months soon. He is so active... When I carry him and sit on my lap he will want to stand and jump, keep jumping up and down. Friends and family will be like why is he so active nv sit still one. He love to be carry around but when u sit down he will make noise like fake cry that kind. And will like to be carry around. When changing of diaper or bathing time, he will turn here and there and try to crawl away or turn on his tummy. I don't know is it normal... People keep telling me other ppl son or daughter won't be like this. Is it true?
- 2017-06-14Do you think 7:30am is too early for preschool classes to start? It's too early! I need my sleep!
- 2017-06-14When can i feed my 1yr old random food without doing the 3 day test?
- 2017-06-15Hi mummies my boy is 15months currently and recently this 1 months his been sick for 3weeks cough n flu and he doesn't seems to have good apettite then before he refuses to eat porridge n noodles n even fruits which usually I will cook n made for him so tiring n sad sometimes afternoon he will just skip his lunch,any suggestion on what dishes or meal I can preparef for him,many thanks =)
- 2017-06-15Toddler (20 months) - Stokke Step
I'm thinking of investing in a stokke step as it can be used till adult hood.. Anyone have the same chair and when did your kid stop using it?
- 2017-06-15Hi Mummies, if LO has a slight cough. Can we go ahead with her 1yr old vaccination?
- 2017-06-15Who doesn't love freebies, right??
- 2017-06-15Folic acid should be taken at night or daytime?
- 2017-06-15Any good recommendations for photographer/ photography studios in Singapore ? We are planning to take a family portrait for my Mom-in-law's 60th birthday. Looking more for studio shots .
- 2017-06-15Hi moms , my baby boy is 8mths and if im not wrong he hasnt been passing motion since last 3 days , i breastfeed him quite often and also he love drinking plain water.. any home remedies ?
- 2017-06-16
- 2017-06-16Rant post:
I read a post on fdw, on their views of how employers treat them. I sympathise with some of them, especially those who didnt get enough to eat or only allowed to use phone on their off days.
But I've to say, some abused the freedom their employers gave them.
Ive given my helper the freedom to use her phone whenever as long as her work is done. But strictly no phone while taking care of LO when LO is awake. She likes to "abuse" it when im not watching. I corrected her nicely and let her know if there is any emergency she needs to use while watching LO, jus let me know. I'll let her deal wif wat she has to do, no problem. But she likes to "test system". I would understand y some employers wouldn't allow their help to use phone now.
Ive given my helper all e freedom to eat watever she wans at home. We eat e same when we go out. Ive never made her do any chores on her off days and sometimes gave her pay earlier so that she have money to go out. But she chose to lie to me about laundry days. We do our laundry on alternate days n happened tat day fell on her off day. She tot i would ask her to do it b4 she leaves but it has been said to her since day 1 tat she didnt have to do anyting. I will do it if it falls on her off day.
She likes to watch tv (ive never said no to wat she wans to watch or when she wans to watch as long as she does her chores properly) n do the dishes at e same time. I didnt mind bcoz i dun see it as a problem. But it became a problem when she hastily wash them just so she could catch e korean drama. Most of the time, e dishes r not properly cleaned.
My helper wakes up at 630am, finish most of her chores by 1030am. And from then on it is only very minor chores like washing dishes when baby eats.
Her Job is only to vacuum, mop on alternate days, quick wipe furniture (3 room flat), n cook baby porridge for lunch, laundry with washing machine. Dats all. And occasionally help me watch LO if i go to the loo. There is no cooking or ironing. She gets an hr rest at abt 4pm. In fact by then, she is almost "knock off from work". I really dun see it as very tedious.
And lots more. I've said my piece and told her nicely but never took any "freedom" away from her. There were changes made for awhile and then fell back to square 1.
So isit my fault tat i m too lenient?
So please if there r any helpers reading dis, it isnt all e time wher e employers r overly strict wif u. You may have done something that warrant their reaction too.
Xoxo
- 2017-06-16Need help! My 13 wk baby has not been sleeping at night around 3-4 am. Every night for the past one week she will wake up, big eyes after her feeding. She is sleepy yawning but refuse to sleep for at least an hour. I tried to rock her, and carry her to sleep but she will cry. If I put her back in her cot she will cry too...
- 2017-06-16Need help! My 13 wk baby has not been sleeping at night around 3-4 am. Every night for the past one week she will wake up, big eyes after her feeding. She is sleepy yawning but refuse to sleep for at least an hour. I tried to rock her, and carry her to sleep but she will cry. If I put her back in her cot she will cry too...
- 2017-06-16Does consuming mama milk cause oversupply? I am not taking any supplements (e.g Calcium, Fenugreek) at the moment. And am considering to drink mama's milk for nutrients to my body. My milk supply is just nice at the moment, just wondering if consuming mama's milk increase my supply? As I don't want to increase...
- 2017-06-16Which one is cost saving - Engaging a helper or full time baby sitter paying $800?
- 2017-06-16Do you hover much, mum and dad?
- 2017-06-16Hi Mummies,
Anyone has any good recommendation on halal caterers for baby shower? Thx in adv! :)
- 2017-06-16Hi, any mummies using UV sterilizer on MAM bottles and spectra pump parts? I realised mine turned yellow after a month and got me very worried as my boy is still an infant. Anyone experiencing the same?
- 2017-06-16Kind of out of topic...
A friend of mine is really upset that her 15 year old dog is dying. How do I console her? I'm not a pet lover myself so not sure how to react. Anyone been in the same situation?
- 2017-06-16How to cure a one year old cough ?
- 2017-06-17Hi moms , how many of you are young parents ? Im one of the young parent☺?
- 2017-06-17Is there any ways to induce menses?
- 2017-06-17Can you send your kids to school after taking the chicken pox vaccine booster shot?
- 2017-06-17During your interview for a job, what questions will you ask? Or no questions at all?
- 2017-06-17Do you think my Daughter and the baby version of me looks alike?
- 2017-06-17I think my kid is quite ugly. She's 2 and her nose is very flat and her eyes has no double eyelid. What age can I send her for plastic surgery?
- 2017-06-17My Husband likes my breastfeeding size breast. How to make sure they are still big after stopping breastfeeding?
- 2017-06-17What annoys you the most as a parent?
- 2017-06-17My Daughter keeps calling all her animated/motorised dolls/toys - Mei Mei. Do you think she's lonely and sending me a message that she wants a Mei Mei?