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I guess night out and soccer time with friend is more important now than ur wife n ur new born child... if one day ur wife ask u if she get "me time" will u gave her??? Be gentle, ur wife already carrying ur child for 9months inside her tummy,, and now all u cared is ur "me time" 😪
if you want me time then you have to talk with your wife because she also need it the most..you can make arrangements but be sure that there's someone to take care of your wife and the baby..you have to be responsible & considerate of your actions because you now have a family that needs you..
Why dont you ask the same question to your wife too? Dont just thinks about yourself, thinks about your wife too.. If you feel like dont have life anymore..better you dont married at first.. Dont have partner and dont have kids. Just enjoy your single life.
Its normal to have time scarcity but you have to take care of the baby also, give some time to yourself you will be fine with new time slots. You can plan things accordingly in talk with your wife to plans things which are important but make sure you take care of the baby also. Cogratulations on being FATHER now
enjoy your life as a father dude. its time to change. do you think your wife have nothing to change while she is pregnant and now she is even a mother too . once your baby grow bigger . then u can think about guys' night out . now your baby and your wife need u more.
My hubs belly is getting bigger. So i asked him to exercise by going to the gym. He replied " let it be. If i go to the gym. I wont have enough time to u and our daughter' my husband working hour is from 8am to 10pm. Here is my advise to u. : Use ur brain dud.
this time that baby is still one month or so, its so hard to have a legit me time. its always like that for few months. later on, when ur wife regain much strength and time, you can have your me time. actually, your wife also needs a me time so as the baby. so tiis tiis lang muna. hehe
just sacrifice a bit bro. sleepless nightz , less time for yourself is a norm. you might wanna give ur wife a break after all she did carry ur child for 9 months.. be a supportive dad and realign ur goals to be more proactive..trust me its goin to be worthwhile. #justsaying
Think of an activity wherein both of you (with wife) could enjoy. She will be surprised and moved. Believe me. If you could see her happy and relaxed just like you, you would be grateful that you chose her over your friends. Your wife needs you.
I think once a while night out is okay. Cos as a new dad oso need his break. So if u r goin out, plan and inform ur wife sometime ahead n help her to get help from in laws or parents if needed. Ur wife oso need timeout to rest. So be fair ya, let her out with her friends if she need so.