well, I tot I m the only one with issue like such.. I kinda envy my sil for having such gd life for her life.. always got ppl pamper her, her husband pamper n dote on her, occasionally giving her surprises.. now after giving birth, go back after maternity leave, work a short time, now stay home mum.. still can buy this n that.. she nv have to worry abt financial.. whereas my husband n me r working so hard for our lives n for our daughter.. when she need help, then she look for my husband, otherwise she seems proud.. some of my friends say her eyes is above her head.. n she is gd in cookery & baking.. I feel so inferior, especially I'm older than her 5-6 years... how can I stop myself from envying her?
It's normal to feel jealous and possessive. But i guess I would say just don't be obsessive. See it from your husband's point of view. Maybe try spending time with the sister? Get to know the "enemy" so to speak. And you might discover why your husband loves her dearly and you might even appreciate those same qualities. Family is family - and I think it's a good sign that the sister has a good relationship with your husband, so she'll be a good ally to have around when the going gets tough like if your husband gets sick and you need someone to help you take care of him.
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I won't say you are having problem. Probably you are unable to think in your husband shoes. He didn't had a mother which he could lean on. He only had a sister. So his sister felt like his mother. Don't see it as his sister. See it as His mother instead. Yes its perfectly understandable that you are jealous afterall it's still another woman.
Hey dear it's okay. We often have many irrational and not logical emotions. Don't beat yourself up. Most I.importantly you are not crazy for feeling this way. Give yourself sometime.
Hugs...like the mom above said. I agree with her why not try to tell yourself that he sees her as a mother. After all she is the only one he has to lean on.
I think you're feeling kinda insecure? have a good chat with your husband, might helps (:
You gotta let it go. Let it go.
Talk to him. So he knows.
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