Husband controls what I eat
My husband eats very healthy & simple, no fried & spicy food, sometimes even tasteless. I prefer food with more taste. I am 17weeks pregnant, at times I crave for junk food like McDonald's , potato chips, spicy food etc. Husband will nag & stop me from eating. I understand the need of being healthy for the sake of baby but its my craving and I don't eat it everyday. How can I make my husband not to control me? I tried talking to him nicely but it didn't work.
Maybe u eat it when he is not around. Clear the evidence before he come back. Haha. But of course everything in moderation. U can compromise say maybe once a week or once a while. Since after pregnancy u have to go confinement, so its okay to crave in to food that is not as healthy as he expect.
Honestly when I have no appetite till not eating, jus puking they will just pray u eat something or rather, anything 😂 Everything is about moderation. Since u are week 17, shld be visiting gynae soon. Let the expert do the talking for u to talk to ur hubby. Good luck
I hope my hub can be more controlling tpwards my diet.. but your hub is abit too extreme , it might take time for you to speak to him and make him accept, why not when he is not around, you can go satisfy your cravings
Did he acc u meeting ur gynae? From the first day my gynae already tell us that we can eat everything but in moderation. Like mcd once or twice a week no prob. My hubby sometimes will buy pizza for me as supper too
Actually thk it another way. He is concern u and baby. Is a good husband 😍
Just eat when he is not around. As per what your gynae shared, eat in moderation is fine! My husband gives in to my cravings but will make sure I only have it once a while and in moderate portion.
Hmmm maybe it could be your first pregnancy that's why he control your diet. I will eat what I craving because I will say ' is your child want to eat not me 😅' eat abit will do. :)
I feel that guys actually listen to their friends more. So if u can, get his bff to tell him instead of u. Better if his bff is married with kids.
Thanks. I am not close with his guy friends as we seldom hang out together. But I get where u r coming from. Husband is naggy also because he was brought up that way. My MIL used to nag at me when she sees me eat soya sauce n those u healthy stuff too. He listens to mum more... Lol
Just tell him u got no appetite for any other food.. it's either these or no food.. den baby will get hungry..
My husbands control my intake as well... so i eat during the period when I’m not ard with him
Will tend to give in to my wife’s cravings. So long as it’s not something weird.
just me