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how to cope with Anger and frustration
After pregnancy, i felt at times very frustrated and easily irritated. I am blessed with a smooth delivery without complication and a cute healthy baby. But ever since i discharge from hospital, i h
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Super Mum
I can understand how you feel, it's not just the stress from day and night struggles with baby but also your hormone levels will take time to adjust after birth. If you can send baby to infant care or
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Hi, I can understand. You have a lot on your plate hence it is completely normal to feel this way. I would suggest talk to you husband and loved ones about this. May be you and your husband can decide
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VIP Member
Do talk to your husband or close family members or friends about it. It's normal to feel angry and frustrated during this period but don't let it drag on for too long...
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I feel the same too. My mum and mil has been taking night duties but I don’t know why am I still so distracted too. I tried talking to the counselor at KKH, but she said it isn’t post natal depressio
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I have similar experience. Talk to your husband, mother or MIL. Ask them to take care of baby full day in the coming weekend so that you can have proper rest and time to settle your works. You will fe
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maid
My maid tells me she is not taking any off days for the whole 2 years. So now she need to wire money home, she wan me to bring her to do the wiring. What should be the best way to do it without my inv
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Western Union should be good
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Send via Western Union
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Western union
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Western Union
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Western union. Else can try Dash, depending on which country u got your maid from
newborn keeps vomitting
My newborn keeps vomitting. Is there any milk formula that ismore suitable?
It's best to visit the doctor to diagnose your baby
yaolan - baby cradle
How many months old baby can start sleep in cradle ? Must be 3months onwards ?
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Hi! If you didn't start using from the beginning, don't see the need to start using after 3 months.. just an advice, since i heard it's really hard to stop using....
Hey, I believe baby can sleep in cradle in daytime when they are of 3 months. Gradually the habit can be developed for making sleep in cradle at night time as well
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I let my LO slpt in yaolan in the daytime. Nap abt 1hrs
Mine slept in it from 3mths old until 7mths then he doesnt want to sleep in it anymore.
Super Mum
I never let them sleep in Yao lan
how to cope with sleepless nights?
How do you cope with sleepless night ? Newborn kept waking up at night, almost every 1 hour... help?
Baby slp, u slp.. it will get better slowly :) mine was a cluster feeder.. latch 1hr, slp 1hr.. so I slp when LO slp.. slowly it goes up to 1.5hr to 2hr.. slowly but surely, u can have alittle more sl
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TapFluencer
You need to train yourself to sleep when lo sleeps. Get help in the day for someone to look after your lo so you can catch up on sleep Too
Super Mum
Mine too but no w he wakes up 3hrly. I let him slp together on my pillow and he slps peacefully only wakes up for milk at 3hrly when before this he will wake up every 1-2 hrs.
It's a phase and will be gone soon..Try to sleep when baby is sleeping
Hey Mum, I would suggest best is to sleep when the baby is sleeping. Also, it would really help if you get a helper. Will give you more time to relax
weight loss on breastfeeding
Been breastfeeding for a month, my weigh still dont seem to go down. I eat jus normal meals without snacking... mm anyone can share their experience?
What kind of food do you eat for your meals?
how to increase milk production?
How to increase milk production?
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Adequate fluid intake, eating more rice and nursing my baby on demand give me enough milk!☺️
Try adding more fenugreek, garlic to your diet
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Drink more liquids, eg milk, soup. Fish, chickpeas, supplements etc
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1. Drink more water 2. Take more fish go to wet market tell auntie for bm they will intro you 1 fish hokkien call "Gor Hee" 70 plus 1 fish. 3. After latching pump. Body work in supply and demand. 4. I
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Make sure that baby is nursing efficiently. Nurse frequently, and for as long as your baby is actively nursing. Take a nursing vacation. Offer both sides at each feeding. Switch nurse. Avoid pacifiers
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when to start tummy time?
When to start tummy time?
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Hi... you might find this article informative https://sg.theasianparent.com/tummy-time-for-baby-basics
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From 3 months ..
Aim for around 20 to 30 minutes a day of baby tummy time by the time he is 3 or 4 months old. Then keep the practice up until baby can roll over on his own, a feat many babies accomplish around 6 or 7
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Super Mum
2-3 months would be a good time
3 months
ucler in newborn
How to treat newborn ucler? My 3weeks old newborn got ucler how to treat?
Go pd. Dont self medicate
second CL
My second CL came and she is always on her ipad watching movie.. 😂😂 Guess having CL is need close both eyes
I think you should talk to her or change a new CL
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Whhuuttt... you should talk to her if she goes overboard!
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Ops, getting CL nowadays is like playing lucky draw. If she is too over, suggest you to talk to her if doesn't work then request to change CL. Getting a CL is not cheap, you shouldn't deserve lousy se
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Previously I didn’t have good experience with my CL too, in the end told the agent that I don’t want any CL from them anymore despite changing... getting from bad to worst.... So the last week of con
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If is too over... U can let her know