My wife is very hot tempered and she like to hit me when she lose her temper. She will dig her fingernail into my skin and sometimes she will slam my head against the wall. I don't want to hit her back. I love her. I believe she loves me too. How can I calm her down. And stop her from abusing me like this.

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Talk to her in a calm way.
oh crap. time for a therapist or some kind of intervention... definatley not a good situation for you or her.
If she is very hot tempered you might want to talk to her in the presence of a trusted friend or family member for mediation and show her the need to seek proffessional help. The more she does it with
Talking with her abou your thinking
Strayjacket. And it's good that you dont lash back. But all joking aside this isnt normal and she needs help. Stand your ground let her know shes over stepping herself.