My wife is very hot tempered and she like to hit me when she lose her temper. She will dig her fingernail into my skin and sometimes she will slam my head against the wall. I don't want to hit her back. I love her. I believe she loves me too. How can I calm her down. And stop her from abusing me like this.

in my opinion ung behavior kasi minsan kung pano natin sila pkisamahan. bka kasi nasanay na sya na ganun o may dahilan tlga sya para mka pag react sya ng ganun. in my case kasi, simula palang ng relationship nmin kht nag aaway kami, never kami nag sigawan , murahan o sakitan ng bf ko pa sya.. kaya ngayong naging mag asawa kami, i caught him cheating pero kht isang sampal o mura diko nagawa sa knya. kaya sobra daw syang nagsisisi. and hopefully totoo tlaga ung pagbabago na pinapakita nya