My wife is very hot tempered and she like to hit me when she lose her temper. She will dig her fingernail into my skin and sometimes she will slam my head against the wall. I don't want to hit her back. I love her. I believe she loves me too. How can I calm her down. And stop her from abusing me like this.
It sounds like she has some anger management issue. Have a chat with her when she is calm. She need to first recognize that it is a problem and be willing to take action to remedy it. I'm really sorry to hear that you are going through this and respect you for not retaliating. You can refer her to seek professional help once she is open to that option: http://scc.sg/eng/index.php/angermanagement/ Here's a brochure that you could show her to broach the subject: https://www.imh.com.sg/uploadedFiles/Publications/Educational_Resources/Anger%20Management.pdf Take care of yourself!Read more