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Have anyone dislike mil? I have been trying my best to control my temper towards her... during my confinement, she keep forcing me to go back work after 3 mths of ML. Then keep forcing me to put my lo to infant care. Dun even let me rest during my confinement. Til i break down and keep crying everyday. 2nd mth of my ML she has been going to work everyday even though there is a period of time, i felt very giddy. So now i injured my back as she asked me to climb up to wash the aircon. So when my hub told her i injured my back, she ignore and asked me to pack the house. As if i am moving to my new place tml. What can i do? Going to breakdown soon!

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Does your hub knows all of what you are going through and the treatment received? If he knew, has he spoken to his mother?

5y ago

Yes he did tell her off during my confinement. However, mil still continues...

Super Mum

Please try to rest and don’t do housework that requires you to climb up or reach up for things. It’s not good

5y ago

When i deliver my baby is under csec. So the pain will last quite a while. But 2nd week already ask me bend down to take things. Ask me carry baby through out. Dont even care if i am in pain. Even i say i was in pain, she will ignore

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I guess mostly of can’t get along well with mil. The best way is not to stay in one roof.

The best solution is not to stay under one roof to avoid misunderstandings further.

5y ago

My house is coming soon. And she wanted to stay with us. Very thick skin!

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It’s sad. Your hubby should explain to her. Just ignore her sometimes

VIP Member

Best to get your hubby to talk to your mil

The best way really is to not stay tgt

Best not to stay under one rood

Super Mum

Feel so sad for u 😭

Me I super Super hate