Bella Sam, Singapore

Mom to an OX and a SHEEP ❤️

About Bella Sam

My baby has a tendency to hit/scream at me. I'm worried if she goes into childcare at 18m, she will hit and get hit by her friends. How do I overcome this? And how do I ensure my baby doesn't cry too
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I think that u need to discuss with ur child about her emotions. Although they are still young but they di understand somewhat. They behave tha way because sometimes they are unable to express themsel
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I suggest discussing this with her class teachers and principal and find out what is the teachers and school's policy/approach when a students hit each other and what they would do when a child cries
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How do you put your baby to sleep without having to latch on? My husband is frustrated if I have nights out with my girls as he cannot put her to sleep. She'll wait for me to come home and then she'll
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your baby can sleep on her own without you nursing her to sleep. you just need to let her have the opportunity to learn how to do so.
Not sure if it will work for you and how you will feel about it, one of my friends introduced pacifier to help her little girl self soothe to sleep. My friend deliberated for awhile but finally de
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My baby just started walking. We're looking to buy proper shoes for her. Shoes that will not cause her to have blisters etc. Stride rite or clarks? Why? You're welcome to intro other brands to us
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Stride Rite or Skechers!
Got from kiddy palace, can try on too
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Pediped !!
best thing let it try barefoot so dat he cud experience his own feet touching on the ground n felt wht wht the textures like...no hurry to buy shoe.
Stride rite for younger kids, Clark's when they are older
Mummies who are breastfeeding and have clingy babies, how do YOU handle separation anxiety? My husband wants a staycation with me but I cannot bear to leave my 7 year old and my baby who just turned 1
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You really need to adjust yourself and give your Husband and yourself a break. It's really nice to have parents or mil to help out while you can have some couple time alone. In order to keep a marriag
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Perhaps its about time to teach her that some people can look after her and not only mummy. My youngest is also the same and I am exclusively breastfeeding her and she would not take the bottle. I try
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It's always good to have some quality time with hubby which many pwople don't. It will not only enhance yr marriage life but you can take this opportunity to share yr thoughts and bond with hubby. B
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My husband and I went on a movie date instead. Movies don't last very long. 2-3h max? Or you guys could do a lunch/dinner/dessert date? A date that's short. Even a short 15-20 min stroll around the ne
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I've tried BLW for my baby since she was 6 months old but until now she plays with her food. She's 1 year old now.. How do I ensure she eats properly instead of playing with her food? As I know that a
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there seems to be periods of feasting and fasting - continue to offer balanced meals and include her in mealtimes. watch her intake on a weekly instead of daily basis. as long as she's well, meeting
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We eat together for breakfast, lunch and dinner. Breakfast would be just me and her. Hubs will send my #1 to school so they'll go off together early about 7am. Lunch would be together with me and her
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Do you and the rest of your family eat with baby or does baby have separate eating schedules? I read that it would help if baby is included during meal times. I know it's not ideal because you would h
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Hello parents! My baby is turning 1 and I'm planning to do a cake smash photo shoot for her. But i need ideas for props, can you spam me photos of your baby's cake smash photos?
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I did one with my son at home, engaged a photographer (Kalz Studios) who brought her own props and setup - all I needed to prepare was my son and the cake! The setup was simple, just a plain white ba
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I did 2x for my baby. 1 I did it at home ... with nothing ard. 2) I did with https://www.facebook.com/thealpstudio/ Their cake smash deco is like the same for all haha
u can search for ideas in Pinterest...
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I tried to do cake smash for my baby outdoor.. totally wrong move.. too much stimulation for my baby and end up she didn't had cake smash.. partial also because she more timid.. so I would advice u th
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Thank you so much for sharing your experiences, Carla Perlas! Much appreciated! :)
My baby is 11 months old today. Her top 2 teeth are coming out, I can see them. Problem is, she's running a low grade of fever 38 degrees and has had 5x watery stool since morning. Should we bring her
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Sent her to the PD ytd night. Thank god for my instinct. She has stomach infection and is on antibiotics. Thanks for the replies!
is baby still active? if baby is not active, please bring it to pd . if baby is still active, u may sponge her and montior. if fever gets higher, bring to doctor. i would give some med just in case it
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I think you should definitely bring her to the doctors, just in case, and to make you feel better too. has her fever been fluctuating up and down, or has it been climbing?
Any mummies here who used to be working full time converted to stay at home mom and is feeling a little lonely, sometimes stressful and feeling guilty of not being able to earn on their own? I don't w
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My baby girl is 17months and I want to start working in 2months...SAHM job is the hardest job of all which becomes unnoticed and not salaried but baby smile is worth our efforts, try doing at least 1t
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I can relate. I am still adjusting to being a stay at home mom. I enjoy it a lot but like you, i miss earning and spending money i earned. So, me and my husband had a compromise. I got a home based jo
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I guess all sahm feel the same way . Same goes for me . I've been a sahm for 5 years ! Initially was tough as I'm not good in cooking but I got to do it as I can't expect us to dine out all the time s
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Thanks for the heads up. Reading just one comment, at least, makes me feel so much better.
Yes, I went through the same. It really become crazy if you have been financially independent and also has the nature of not asking one from your husband. I know how much heart it takes to be financia
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Hello Mummies. My baby is 10 months old now and I'm doing BLW with her. Right now I am guiding her to self feed using fork and spoon for Rice with soup and when she's eating noodles. But she prefers
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One of my friends shared that she will help to teach her baby by placing her hands on her daughter's to guide her daughter. This will teach her daughter how to scoop the food and bring it to her mouth
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Hi there, I found this baby feeding video on youtube (link below) and I found it super informative. It's important to establish the link between utensil and the mouth by lots of practice. Initially yo
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