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My wife is 13 weeks pregnant and the feeling of being a father has still not sunk in. How can I help her in this period and how can I make her feel more comfortable

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Is it selfish to my child to only want one child? Will my child feel lonely? I know from personal experience that it was quite comforting to have three siblings running around and constantly filling up the house with noise. But it has become so expensive to have children in Singapore! I feel I can handle the finances for one child. But to have more than that would be a burden... am I being selfish?

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Don't think you are being selfish. Instead I think you are being responsible and selfless. You want the best for your child :)

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What did you see as a child that affected your life?

Constant bickering and fighting between my parents which led to their divorce. I try to be as conscious of arguing with my husband in front of the kids.

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Do fathers really need to be in the delivery room during the birth of their children?

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Hi mommy! I gave birth via CS too and my hubby was with me all through out my operation. 😊 It's funny though because he's obviously nervous but doesn't want to admit, and I remember him asking everyone in the OR for the toilet, he needed to pee but he has to wait til the baby's out 😂

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papa and daddy wich one your little call

When did your little one call you Papa or daddy for the first time? How did you feel?

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my husband was like oh. good lor. totally ruin the mood!

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What is it like to have your parent as your teacher in school?

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Is there any course that can get a father to play with a baby?

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Blue house and Tanderra have 'Daddy and me' play classes over the weekends

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My wife always compares my parenting with her sister's husband's parenting and thinks he is a much better father than me. I find this comparison annoying and heartbreaking. How do I make her understand this?

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I am wondering why my wife keeps saying that being a stay at home mum is such hard work. I am not trolling here - but i frankly dont understand. Seems simple enough to me. I have taken care of my kids and home all weekend before and it's definitely no where as stressful as having a job. Our kid is 11 months and is formula fed. We live in a 4 rm flat.

I do house chores and take care of my LO . She’s 14 months old . It’s tiring if I were to compare it with my job . I need to multi task at work , which will cause me to be drain out mentally but taking care of kids and house chores drain me both mentally and physically . The patience you need to have is unimaginable when it comes to getting things done at home with your LO around . They won’t allow you to do things smoothly and you can’t manage them . But I am allowed to work at my own comfort level when I am working and manage things well . I would strongly suggest you to take up the role of doing house work and taking care of your LO and you’ll understand what I meant and you’ll learn from it . If you were to ask me a honest answer , I would rather be at work than be a SAHM/D .

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What was your feeling when you held your baby for the first time?

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Overjoyed! In love at first sight.

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