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My hubby & his siblings all have hygiene & neatness peeve issues since young after his mum was a OCD hygiene peeved person. Therefore he grew up in an environment quite clean and tidy. But I must mention he grew up from a poor family and there’s nothing his mum can buy when they were young, so there’s also not much clutters or mess (toys, kids’ clothes) in his maternal’s house. Anyway he did tell his maternal house really doesn’t have much things when we were dating long time ago. Before we got married and moved into our new house, everything was still quite ok because we had no child back then and things were not messy and a lot. However when we finally had a child, things changed drastically, he would on & off just flared up like a madman, threw things on the floor and even ROARED like thunder at baby (even until toddler stage) and me. He said he dislike the house so messy and untidy, with so many toys and clothes hoarding the entire place (rooms & living room). Once in a while, I will try my best only when I am not so tired and have some energy to tidy bit by bit, but whenever I didn’t do it and he flared up, I told him I am very tired after taking care of baby all by myself day and night, I have no more energy to do so, but he wouldn’t understand or sympathise, instead he continued to get frustrated and we ended quarrelling, he either slammed doors to vent his anger or just roared at me because of such issue. There was even a time he got angry with something until he went back to his maternal’s house to stay over and only came home after he simmered down a bit and mainly because most of his working clothes and office notebook were at home. To be honest, I have shared with only a few friends and ALL said what he did was very childish and not loving as a husband and father. Recently, we went to his sibling’s newly renovated house to celebrate the house warming. He was so delighted and commented how nice to have a home so tidy & clean (this happens whenever he visited someone’s house). When we came back, he must have compared our house with his sibling’s house (in his heart discreetly). So yesterday, he flared up slightly again. He said he simply can’t stand why his own house is so messy with all toys and ‘rubbish’? I told him when most people have children, the house will more messy no matter what and even walls can be drawn by the children etc. I said if he’s not convinced, he can ask around his friends. I also explained those friends’ houses which were tidy he has visited before were also not tidied by the couples sometimes because almost all of them either have helpers or their parents or even both to help them out in maintaining their houses. But for us, we really have no one except myself and I am fully drained whenever I took care of our active child. I barely even have enough sleep. Everyday out of 24hours a day, I only slept about 3 to 4 hours max. FYI, there were a few times when we bought from things from a few sellers and have to collect them from their houses, he was very shocked to see how super messy their places were and I must say one of the houses were really even much messy than ours until totally no walking path to enter their living room from the main door. Others were also as messy as ours. On the spot, I whispered to him and said: “you can see for it yourself, I am not lying. All couples have kids, the house sure messy one!” He then commented all of them were lousy & USELESS parents! I disliked how he could have said this of these parents. Parents pls advise me how should I feel whenever he flares up and we (child & I) must face his roaring, slamming of doors, throwing of things and shoutings from him. We felt so fearful but we can’t do anything to make him understand it.

Hi mummies, I’m 28 weeks pregnant and still working. Lately my baby is super super active during the night and im having trouble sleeping. How do you mummies cope with such circumstances when you have to wake up early morning and prepare for work 😣 It’s a good thing that my baby is kicking and being active but I’m really really tired and getting super exhausted from not having enough sleep. I literally look like a zombie while typing this whole thing out 🧟‍♀️ #firstbaby #bantusharing #advicepls #momcommunity

My baby dun usually poop everyday. 3-4 days once. Feeding him Bm and one formula every night. Is it normal baby dun poo everyday? Today baby poop tan green and sweat while pushing. He is 2 mths old. He cried and haven push everything out. Should we go to a pd? Worried why is it tan green.. Why he cant push it out..#firstbaby #momcommunity

what type belly binder/bengkung is the best after giving birth and do i wear it straight after giving birth? 🥺 #1sttimemummy #advicepls

My LO used merries previously but suddenly she got 2 patches of rash on her thigh! Doctor said it's fungal, it's not getting better. MIL sus is merries causing it. anyone experience same thing?

Hi mummies, my 20month old cant say more than 10 words, just Mama, daddy , mummy , his grandma name.. byebye.. should i be worry cos Ive read that must say more than 30 words?

any one know where i can get these kind of pillow. not buck wheat#momcommunity

Are they really essential? What are your thoughts and opinions? Can share? 😊

Is it bad to wake a sleeping baby ?