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If in good terms can consider staying with in laws but that also depend if the house have any other siblings or so... If not in good terms i will definitely spend extra money to moved out... But it also depend on the family finance situation. But play safe after having a kid or so , stay by own will be better in order to avoid any conflicts.

I will rather spend less on myself than staying with in-laws. You might have a good relationship while meeting occasionally but it does not mean it will be same when staying together. I have learned my lesson the hard way.

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a VERY good question. That $1k is spend on childcare or housing rental? For me, i would rather stay alone. As i been staying w my inlaws for 5 years and i have seen LOTS of conflicts. So i rather stay on my own.

$1000 on rental for jus me and hubby.

Have u applied for a flat already? If waiting phrase for bto I will tolerate n save $1k since I will need money for Reno Soon. If I still have many years more, to Ensure sanity, I will spend that $1k

In this case, i would save the 1k and stay with inlaws till my flat comes

I am spending 5k a month so that I don't have to live with my in laws. Totally worth it. I'm very confident it will further damage our relationship if I stay with them.

Do you have kids? What I did back then before our bto was ready, we stay separately at our own parents house. Then on the weekend I will stayover at his place...

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If you need to save that $1000/mth suck it up stay with your in laws... but make sure that it’s only for temporary. Save up & move out once you can! 😍💕

Depends on your relationship with them. How close you all are and the characters of everyone . For me it is no no to maintain peace n harmony.

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Well Guess it depends on your relationship between you and your in laws . But think eventually we will need our own place and privacy too .

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