Hi, I would like to have some advise on intimate qns. l'm 30 weeks now and husband been low sex drive recently, only do blowing and penetrating only. I'm the kind that hate boring sex. Recently super high drive and causes me to watch porn and even masturbate myself with toys. I even had the thoughts of having one fb, but i can't go behind husband's back. I was trying to talk things out just now and I wanted sex now but he fell asleep on me. It makes me so so so pissed off that i can't stop crying and don't know what to do now. Can't sleep either. Pls tell me what should i do. I can't wait for the baby to be out now as I hope after birth, my sex life will be back but i also don't even know whether will it be back. Thanks.

I think he fell asleep because he’s tired and try not to link your urge with his sleep . See if he’s gonna talk to you when he’s ready . Sex can’t be forced and there might be possibility that he’s afraid to have sex with you because you are pregnant . See his reply and action before you go onto Facebook . Yes you might find some fuckboys or whatsoever for now but that’s gonna f*** your family up in the future . Ask yourself what’s more important ? Your urge is something you need help with , ask your gynae if there’s any way to help you reduce it . If gynae say no , tell your husband . At the very least you done something and see if he’s gonna suggest any other way and both of you work it out together . Nonetheless , all the best and hang in there . It’s gonna be over before you know it .

Hey there, I think it's quite normal for preggers to have high se drive towards the later part of their pregnancies but sometimes the husband might not match up or a variety of reasons like what Yuna shared above. From personal experience, though we were horny, we were also worried about baby so we didn't have sex the entire pregnancy but just me giving him the hand-job. After baby is here, it will be a whole new playing field and I am not sure if sex will be on the forefront of your mind as it would be a tiring time for both of you as you learn and care for your newborn. People generally have to slowly gear up for the sex, ad slowly build things back too. Btw, approximately 6+ weeks no sex to ensure no infection....just sharing so that you can know what to expect of the norm

Hi there, you sound really emotional, hormonal and frustrated -- which all comes with the territory of being pregnant. Firstly, about getting a fb, DON'T. I'm sure you don't mean it and even if you do, I sure hope you don't because it's simply not worth it. Have you spoken to your husband about your needs? Maybe he's worried about hurting you or maybe he's simply too tired to keep up with you after work? Find a time when the both of you are free and relaxed and tell him all your desires and needs. I'm sure you guys can work something out.

Its perfectly normal how you are feeling now, and its absolutely nothing wrong in watching porn or masturbating yourself. Please do not get a fb to solve the current situation, you might regret it all after birth and when life gets back to normal in a couple months time. Sometimes men are turned off by having sex with pregnant woman with the concerns of hurting you or baby, also we tend to lose the sex appeal being ballooned up with a belly. All things will come back with some patience, guide him slowly and get the mood going, go slow.

It's normal for the super high sex drive during pregnancy. I understand how you felt perfectly as im going thru the same thing as you. But im only 18 weeks now. My husband doesn't even want to penetrate. How i satisfy myself is very porn and masturbate. As for FB wise, i DID ever have thoughts of doing that. but it can't be a rash decision. So hang in there. It's possible that you MAY lose your sex drive after birth but give yourself some time, probably around 6 months? Then you will be able to continue your sex life again!

For me, i didn’t really felt much during first & second trimester. My sex drive got pretty intense at week 36 onwards. Everyday also want but hubby on the other hand had so much going on too, work & all. We tried to work something out but same like yours he always tends to fall asleep & i get super pissed at him. I am at week 39 now. Cannot wait to give birth & spare my hubby the pressure for awhile 😂

You are not alone. I was not pregnant but now I hit my 30s, my sex drive went up and yet my husband's sex drive went down instead. Our sex frequency still maintain but I appear to be more desperate than him. No choice but to DIY and can be a little frustrated.

Hey babe, increased Sex drive during pregnancy is Super Duper Normal! All of my friends were complaining about not being satisfied enough by their men in the second / third trimester. Hope that gives you some relief :)

TBH,i was like u when i was pregnant..The urge was pretty intense and i have to DIY and i also watch porn to release myself.But after birth,i hate having sex with my husband !

Oh dear, don't. Be top hard on yourself. It's okay to watch porn and masturbate. I don't know what else to say. Except big hugs dear..