Hi, I would like to have some advise on intimate qns. l'm 30 weeks now and husband been low sex drive recently, only do blowing and penetrating only. I'm the kind that hate boring sex. Recently super high drive and causes me to watch porn and even masturbate myself with toys. I even had the thoughts of having one fb, but i can't go behind husband's back. I was trying to talk things out just now and I wanted sex now but he fell asleep on me. It makes me so so so pissed off that i can't stop crying and don't know what to do now. Can't sleep either. Pls tell me what should i do. I can't wait for the baby to be out now as I hope after birth, my sex life will be back but i also don't even know whether will it be back. Thanks.

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Its perfectly normal how you are feeling now, and its absolutely nothing wrong in watching porn or masturbating yourself. Please do not get a fb to solve the current situation, you might regret it all after birth and when life gets back to normal in a couple months time. Sometimes men are turned off by having sex with pregnant woman with the concerns of hurting you or baby, also we tend to lose the sex appeal being ballooned up with a belly. All things will come back with some patience, guide him slowly and get the mood going, go slow.

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