Hi, I would like to have some advise on intimate qns. l'm 30 weeks now and husband been low sex drive recently, only do blowing and penetrating only. I'm the kind that hate boring sex. Recently super high drive and causes me to watch porn and even masturbate myself with toys. I even had the thoughts of having one fb, but i can't go behind husband's back. I was trying to talk things out just now and I wanted sex now but he fell asleep on me. It makes me so so so pissed off that i can't stop crying and don't know what to do now. Can't sleep either. Pls tell me what should i do. I can't wait for the baby to be out now as I hope after birth, my sex life will be back but i also don't even know whether will it be back. Thanks.

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You are not alone. I was not pregnant but now I hit my 30s, my sex drive went up and yet my husband's sex drive went down instead. Our sex frequency still maintain but I appear to be more desperate than him. No choice but to DIY and can be a little frustrated.