Hi, I would like to have some advise on intimate qns. l'm 30 weeks now and husband been low sex drive recently, only do blowing and penetrating only. I'm the kind that hate boring sex. Recently super high drive and causes me to watch porn and even masturbate myself with toys. I even had the thoughts of having one fb, but i can't go behind husband's back. I was trying to talk things out just now and I wanted sex now but he fell asleep on me. It makes me so so so pissed off that i can't stop crying and don't know what to do now. Can't sleep either. Pls tell me what should i do. I can't wait for the baby to be out now as I hope after birth, my sex life will be back but i also don't even know whether will it be back. Thanks.

I think he fell asleep because he’s tired and try not to link your urge with his sleep . See if he’s gonna talk to you when he’s ready . Sex can’t be forced and there might be possibility that he’s afraid to have sex with you because you are pregnant . See his reply and action before you go onto Facebook . Yes you might find some fuckboys or whatsoever for now but that’s gonna f*** your family up in the future . Ask yourself what’s more important ? Your urge is something you need help with , ask your gynae if there’s any way to help you reduce it . If gynae say no , tell your husband . At the very least you done something and see if he’s gonna suggest any other way and both of you work it out together . Nonetheless , all the best and hang in there . It’s gonna be over before you know it .