Hi, I would like to have some advise on intimate qns. l'm 30 weeks now and husband been low sex drive recently, only do blowing and penetrating only. I'm the kind that hate boring sex. Recently super high drive and causes me to watch porn and even masturbate myself with toys. I even had the thoughts of having one fb, but i can't go behind husband's back. I was trying to talk things out just now and I wanted sex now but he fell asleep on me. It makes me so so so pissed off that i can't stop crying and don't know what to do now. Can't sleep either. Pls tell me what should i do. I can't wait for the baby to be out now as I hope after birth, my sex life will be back but i also don't even know whether will it be back. Thanks.

Hey there, I think it's quite normal for preggers to have high se drive towards the later part of their pregnancies but sometimes the husband might not match up or a variety of reasons like what Yuna shared above. From personal experience, though we were horny, we were also worried about baby so we didn't have sex the entire pregnancy but just me giving him the hand-job. After baby is here, it will be a whole new playing field and I am not sure if sex will be on the forefront of your mind as it would be a tiring time for both of you as you learn and care for your newborn. People generally have to slowly gear up for the sex, ad slowly build things back too. Btw, approximately 6+ weeks no sex to ensure no infection....just sharing so that you can know what to expect of the norm