Hi, I would like to have some advise on intimate qns. l'm 30 weeks now and husband been low sex drive recently, only do blowing and penetrating only. I'm the kind that hate boring sex. Recently super high drive and causes me to watch porn and even masturbate myself with toys. I even had the thoughts of having one fb, but i can't go behind husband's back. I was trying to talk things out just now and I wanted sex now but he fell asleep on me. It makes me so so so pissed off that i can't stop crying and don't know what to do now. Can't sleep either. Pls tell me what should i do. I can't wait for the baby to be out now as I hope after birth, my sex life will be back but i also don't even know whether will it be back. Thanks.

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Hi there, you sound really emotional, hormonal and frustrated -- which all comes with the territory of being pregnant. Firstly, about getting a fb, DON'T. I'm sure you don't mean it and even if you do, I sure hope you don't because it's simply not worth it. Have you spoken to your husband about your needs? Maybe he's worried about hurting you or maybe he's simply too tired to keep up with you after work? Find a time when the both of you are free and relaxed and tell him all your desires and needs. I'm sure you guys can work something out.

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Home Just Mums like have some advise intimate qns im 30 weeks now husband been low sex drive recently only blowing penetrating only im kind that i hate boring sex recently super high drive causes watch porn masturbate myself with toys i had thoughts having fb but i cant go behind husband back was trying talk things out now i wanted sex now but fell asleep makes pissed off that i cant stop crying dont know what now cant sleep either pls tell what should i