Hi, I would like to have some advise on intimate qns. l'm 30 weeks now and husband been low sex drive recently, only do blowing and penetrating only. I'm the kind that hate boring sex. Recently super high drive and causes me to watch porn and even masturbate myself with toys. I even had the thoughts of having one fb, but i can't go behind husband's back. I was trying to talk things out just now and I wanted sex now but he fell asleep on me. It makes me so so so pissed off that i can't stop crying and don't know what to do now. Can't sleep either. Pls tell me what should i do. I can't wait for the baby to be out now as I hope after birth, my sex life will be back but i also don't even know whether will it be back. Thanks.

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It's normal for the super high sex drive during pregnancy. I understand how you felt perfectly as im going thru the same thing as you. But im only 18 weeks now. My husband doesn't even want to penetrate. How i satisfy myself is very porn and masturbate. As for FB wise, i DID ever have thoughts of doing that. but it can't be a rash decision. So hang in there. It's possible that you MAY lose your sex drive after birth but give yourself some time, probably around 6 months? Then you will be able to continue your sex life again!

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