I feel being a bit unattached to my husband..sometimes i wish we were younger back when times was still fun,chasing, and laughing and making love to each other every week. It's pretty hard to keep that spark right now that we have a kid and married and so many obligations to face..have anyone felt the same way once?
- I hate to admit it but I feel I'm not attracted to my husband anymore. We have been married for 10 years and we have a 5 year old and a 3 year old. Our kids are our life and everything revolves around them. How do I get that spark back?Anonymous
- Did your husband change when you get married and started to have a baby? In what way? My husband is not the sweet type and since we got married he started to be less affectionate. Being in a long distance relationship, the more he dislikes being checked or asked where he is and what he is doing. He's a man of lies, which would be about many things like he bought a new phone with no plans of telling me. I know there's no third party involve. I just miss us being together. I miss the spark, the laughters especially now that we have a child.
Many times men are like babies themselves. They do feel neglected too. We are often busy with baby, isnt that obvious. Then again, maybe your husband needs you. Why would you say he is a man of lies? You need to talk to him. If you are going to have a negative minset it wint work. Talk to him and find out how he has been feeling with an open mind. Listen and hear him with your heart.Anonymous
- I’m about 12 weeks pregnant. My hubby and myself haven’t have sex for more than 3 months and it’s torturing us. Not sure if it’s the pregnancy that’s making my sex drive higher or it’s too long we haven’t have sex. But my hubby is concerned that he might hurt the baby if we have sex during my pregnancy, so he is a bit reluctant to have sex. Anyone face the same issue as me? I feel bad for not being able to satisfy his needs.Anonymous