I feel being a bit unattached to my husband..sometimes i wish we were younger back when times was still fun,chasing, and laughing and making love to each other every week. It's pretty hard to keep that spark right now that we have a kid and married and so many obligations to face..have anyone felt the same way once?

I was in that state once, wondering why does it have to be like that. Why we lost interest in each other? Is it because we took each other for granted, we think we understand each other too well, no incentive to please or make it work better? or all other lame excuses. Then one day, I decided to change thing for the better, and I decided to fall in love with my wife again. Yes, I try to remember the person she was and still s, that the same person that make my heart skip a beat or two whenever I am with her. I would think of the time when we would not say goodbye over the phone, the time I long to see her, the scribbling of her name on my note book. Yes, all those special and precious moments I shared with her. Then, I start to look at her imagining that we are both teenagers again, when I steal glances at her, I could see the beautiful person that she used to be and still in my eyes. my heart would pounds faster, I will get excited and when I hug her, it was as though I am hugging her for the 1st time, her kiss is so sweet and potent, that I began to get light headed. Now after more than 20 years of marriage, I still believed that I have married the most beautiful woman in the world and I long for the warm remembrance I get when I go home from work, and can't wait for the hot passionate nights when we are alone in our bedroom. Thinking back when I felt bored and distant in my marriage, I must have been dumb and blind, and not to see and treasure my beautiful significant other. May all you feel lack of excitement and feeling, don't just complaint about it, renew the fire in your heart and fall in love with your spouse all over again, you will find new excitement and fulfilling love, more than ever before. Trust me.