I feel being a bit unattached to my husband..sometimes i wish we were younger back when times was still fun,chasing, and laughing and making love to each other every week. It's pretty hard to keep that spark right now that we have a kid and married and so many obligations to face..have anyone felt the same way once?

Sometimes I just want to curl up in bed and not be disturbed by the hubby, kids, work. And luckily for me, my husband respects that I need some personal space. But I always remind myself that I have a family who loves me and wants to spend time with me. So once I've had my me-time, I make sure to spend time with them, too, especially my husband. He's my partner in crime and so I know that I have to constantly provide him affirmation that I love him and care for him. Sometimes I don't want to have sex because I'd rather read book, haha! But I go ahead and make love to my hubby so he's happy. I also enjoy the fact that I can still pleasure him that way. And hubby tries his best as well to make me happy in bed and outside of the bed. Nobody said that marriage is easy - it's hard work, and we have to put our effort into making it successful. But whenever you're feeling low, just take a selfish moment to have some alone time. Tune out everyone and everything and just relax, enjoy the moment of solitude. Being lazy can be a good thing because it helps you recharge and forget for a while all that worries you. Then once you feel recharged, you'll feel game enough to tackle all that's concerning you. I hope this helps!