I don like the way my mum makes fun or mock at my husband behind his back or even telling jokes abt husband to her friends and bro's gf. Whenever bro's gf sees hubby, she will laugh and says "oh nth". I feel so rude and no respect for me and hubby. I told mum nt to do it but she seems so offended and saying im too sensitive everything also cannot, jus a joke i also take it so seriously. Asking Why cant they laugh and joke abt it? Nt as if they mock in front of hubby. Feeling angry about it. What can i do?

I think it depends on ur family members temperament and u n ur husband's. It's true that some pple don't care - my family usually talk in a making fun way / sarcastic or sound like going to quarrel but we are really just talking - it's the way we talk. If that is not well w u n ur husband, I would be firm and if need be I would kick up a big fuss abt it. I rather known as petty and make everyone upset abt it once and for all then to always have to swallow it and pretend and have so much pent up unhappiness which will become a volcanic eruption one day

Its so rude. If i was you i will be very firm with them. Its so bad to mock and whats more bro gf also trying to laugh... Put themself at ur hubby shoes.. how will they feel ? I believe somehow your hubby might feel hurt too.. Talk to them

You have to be firm about it. The next time they try to mock your husband. You find something about them to mock back. Some will never know how it feels until it hits them in reality that they are the one being mocked at.

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sometimes, my mum criticised my hubby behind his back! she looks down on him, comparing with so & so! till now she is still having her old-fashioned mindset!

That is very immature of them. As hard as it may seem, the best way in dealing with such a situation is to ignore and not to stoop to their level.

Since they said you little bit also uptight, maybe you should joke about them as well. On a different day, randomly. Surprise them with it.

Be firm as that is disrespect. what if the same was done towards her? you should tell her how you feel.