Update My stage (miscarriages + d&c + tcm)

Halo there sissy Just a update (diary) from me for these pass happens. Naturally miscarriage pass 10-days+. Deep heart I still on grieving but in real-life, I have to be “OK & STRONG”. I miss my baby, where I everyday talk to baby and touch my tummy. Day 1 to Day 5, I found out that I have postpartum depression. I feel so hopeless, emptiness, guilt and most important is depressive moods. With my condition of the period blood not come out as normal as other. I more pressure & stress . With blood related family issues added. PRESSURE STRESS was so mess up. Thanks to my in law, neighbors n friends. They all very supportive & take care of me . Especially mom hand pain, she still make delicious food & drinks for me . While I on “pantang for the 10-days”. No words can describe the love from them. Their love who made me positive n ran out from the depression. BEAR IN MIND . postpartum depression not after delivering baby into this world will get BUT miscarriage will get it too. MENTAL HEALTH is SCARY & IMPORTANT to care ! Support from love is important. I call my doctor to check up (read my post about d&c) after completed. Re-visit after 5-days of d&c operation. Doctor said my uterus, ovarian, cervix and everything is very very great . He did mention not to work have sxx 1st while the organ not strong enough for now. After 14 days. I visit TCM (Tradition Chinese Medicine ) for strengthen my energy (qi) & Rejuvenate post surgery . TCM is a good way to recuperate our body from the inside. It takes care of not only the body parts that pain us, but also the overall health issues that may be the root cause of the pain. My doctor open a 10-days tcm powder for twice a day, for me to monitor and gain back my energy (qi). To be mention . TCM are very heaty . Please take pleanty of boiling water to keep yourself hydration to prevent get fever/pimple/redness and etc. Day-1 of TCM , my body can feel heaty and way more energetic than previously. For the time being, Day-5 (half of the tcm) my body is improving a lot. Private Women & Children Clinic : (Dr. Mr. Roshen) POLIKLINIK & SURGERI DR ROSHEN 016-607 7891 https://maps.app.goo.gl/4rmGe4UehdM8UfDn8?g_st=ic Traditional Chinese Medicine Hospital : (Dr. Ms Hoo Hoon Eng) Tung Shin Hospital Chinese Medical Division 03-2037 2202 https://maps.app.goo.gl/xR4b3mJMGyBjAnbE7?g_st=ic Link 1) https://www.yongkangtcm.com/amp/tcm-best-for-post-surgery-recovery #TCM #traditionalchinesemedicine #Dilationandcurettage #DC #miscarriage #Story #silentmiscarriage #firstmom #support #dandc

Update My stage (miscarriages + d&c + tcm)
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miscarriage memang sedih, after i loss my 15weeks pregnancy, hari hari saya menangis. tidur menangis, tgk tv menangis, dlm kereta menangis. sedih sangat, tak tahu kenapa. sedangkan tu unplanned pregnancy, memang tak plan nk ada baby dulu sbb tgh study. Bila tiba2 pregnant, memang down memikirkan mcm mana nak study, nak exam.. bila tuhan ambil balik my baby, baru saya jatuh terduduk kesedihan. waktu tu, lagu ni je lah yang menenangkan saya https://youtu.be/_wz1rw00IJU

Baca lagi
2y ago

Hi sisssss 🌻 thanks for sharing the nice song . The pain mmg sakit yg tidak Boleh explain langsung. We kena jaga Kesihatan , maintain positive attitude. Afterward Boleh dapat cute baby 💜 we can do it !!! Love u 🫶🏼

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Get well soon.

2y ago

Thank you sis sis 💜💜🌻🫶🏼