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Sometimes it’s good to be over protective...
I swaddled baby but didn't cover the pram.
Do you mean cover the pram with swaddle or swaddle the baby? I agree with swaddle baby. But to cover the pram, if it is short distance (no need to walk very far outside, just from cab and to the clinic directly) I think I will not cover. But if there is a far walking distance then I would cover to prevent dust.
My first child is slow and delayed learning I know but it's not because of me being over protective tts why she is like that .its she play electronic device too much . But my husband do love her la . Just that he say till like tt abit too much . I seriously dunno how to make him listen . Getting to the pd to talk to him isn't it abit too extreme . Oh oh oh and he say when I'm pregnant I took one booster jab is to pass down to baby boost his immune protect him one . Than he say baby is already protected . I dun trust that jab man .
Sorry but i need to say this, if ur husband never respect ur decision or ur opinion, there's no point to argue with him. Tell him that you are not a dumb and there's no harm doing that. Why need to talk so much to someone that we cant even have conversation with! Like my husband, if he doesnt like what i m doin now, he can comment but doesnt mean i will listen. Woman nowadays even only a "housewife" also have right to state out our opinion and dont need to care so much other ppl thinking as long as we did our best to baby! Cheers
N if I dun listen to him he says I no respect him either . I said who give birth to him who go tru the pain . But I got labelled as selfish want everything to myself . Say do I need him if not he can go back . I just dunno how to be firm with him . I dunwan any big problem but it also annoys me tt I as the mother of child I dun get full respect . But he thinks I'm being unfair . The more he like tt the more I dun trust leaving my baby with him alone with me away out of my sight le .
Feli