No. You’ve just given birth to another human and you are entitled to all the rest and peace you need. Set aside our self esteem, our newborns are so fragile.
If they really care about your baby and your well-being, they would understand you. Like you really can’t wait another month or something to see us? I would ask my husband to inform everyone that his wife and baby needs to rest and in the meantime, while we appreciate all your wishes and heart to visit us, we are currently not expecting any visitors. We will see you guys in a month.
Don’t respond, don’t explain (like really why do I even need to explain when you’re asking the obvious right 😂). Push everything to your hub, let your hub face your mum.