What would u do if u found out your husband cheat on you?

Recently, my married girlfriends talked to me about their marriage life. Some of the husbands cheat on wives when the wives pregnant, just deliver baby or.. Decide to be a house wife / back to chiong for career. At first it is all started with 1 ..and slowly become a handful of them get cheated. To a point i am thinking, what the heck are all these men doing? Cant they respect women?? I told my girlfriends to try to save as much money as possible (especially those who is a housewife), get a parttime or a freelance job, start something small, make use of ecommerce platforms such as shopee, lazada, carousell, and many more, fight for their rights, get more evidence about the cheating and show it to the courts.. Make sure baby and she get what they deserved. ??? so pissed. Well, what do you think? One of my girlfriend said she is ok to close 1eye. And im like..... nooooo how can u!! ????