what should I do?

I think it's quite common for in law problem. Mine was quite horrible. When me and my hub plan to get married my mil step in and stir s*** till the extend I told everyone call off the wedding. When my hub is around and when he's not is totally different. It was my hub that made me carry on the wedding after he spoke to my mil. But things didn't last long. Soon after wedding I found I'm pregnant the first thing came out from my pil was hope is a boy. End up is girl. My treatment was like s*** from then. Food they prepare for a pregnant lady was fried luncheon meat, onion egg and a veg. FYI they are quite rich who owes 2 private property one landed and one condo. My hub lost his job while I'm pregnant and only manage to find a new job after I give birth so my pil didn't pay a single cent to my check up and delivery. It was me and my family who paid. I was asked to go home to do confinement. After my baby came out my mil want to take my baby away from me. Everything was so drama, my hub back then believe in every s*** my mil told him. But things got better after my hub spoke to me. Cos I refuse to go back and stay with them. Now me and my hub don't stay tgt cos our house not here yet. But things got so much better. Me and my hub nearly divorce cos my pil. My suggestion to you don't stay with them. Now both you and your hub don't have issue but long term run definitely one day will have some. A word from my experience.

in laws r the worst.. I had so many problems w my mil after I gave birth. up till today although things r SLIGHTLY better. she still tries to boss me arnd and tell me what's good for my baby. she always talks as tho she is the mother of my child. she always will say she brought up her sons this way I shld follow too bc she knows what best. but times have change lor, can u believe she tried to make porridge w SALT AND SEASONING for my 5mth old baby. she nv even blend the solid okk???? srsly I got so mad. can't do much until I move out in 2022/2023. hais so many things I swallow alr for the sake of my husband. my mil drama queen one will complain to her husband and my husband make a big fuss and tell my husband she v disappointed in him bc he side me rather her. then make my husband stress and unhappy say why me as wife cannot get along w his mother. but Pls lor, she dont even let me go home and stay leh what girl marry into guy family means I'm theirs alr. then make big hooha with my mother. my husband dont see that all the problems and arguments I had w him is all caused by HIS MOTHER. sometimes I feel my husband still mommy boy. hais hin ah

Oh no! I understand how you feel! I believe when you get pregnant, these feelings will grow even more.. before I was pregnant, I barely manage to get along with my MIL.. when I was pregnant, I really didn't want to even look at her or have conversation with her... I was on birth control until I knew we were gonna move out soon. And was 8 weeks pregnant when we moved out.. even when heavily pregnant, I'd rather be home alone than to have my in laws come over to "look after" me... now my lo is 3 months old, been caring for her on my own and I've been refusing help from in laws just so that I can avoid their so called advices.. once a week we go back and visit them, then just tahan.. few hours only.. My reason for this is to protect my marriage.. avoid all those arguments that I know surely will happen due to different way of looking after babies.. would advise you to do the same, prevent all the stress and anger and frustrations

I dont have problem with my MIL but my own Mom. I would rather not be in the same house as her as she always has something to complain or unhappy about. From bedroom habits -> cooking habits -> toilet habits -> overall cleaning habits cos she has OCD or very bad menopause. It was very stressful to be nagged daily and have someone complaining non-stop, it really was torturing me and my siblings mentally. I have had moved out 2 years ago as Im married and am free from her nonsense! My house has been so peaceful 🥰 Please do consider to move out and rent a place if you are able to... Sometimes things really dont work even when you put in effort to accommodate, it doesnt get better, it gets worse.. Be neutral with her at the moment and try not to take what she says into heart. Be inactive when shes talking. Good luck!

If After have one ask for another one Isit... When don't have will ask for one after got one ask for second one. Mine was like that, just got one and less than a month ask me for second one. Told me children age nearer better... I'm the one give birth in pain) : but I hack care one... My body I know it well. You mil Isit as long got grandchild either girl or boy also can?

Its your life your decisions.. If anybody's interfering then just ignore and tell them politely it's your body ..and you know your best interests... P.S Sometimes not reacting is the best way of saying no.. Try to keep yourself busy and do what makes you happy..

By now you'd have realised that getting married and having children is not simply a matter between your spouse and yourself. I'd say that most elderly folks are like that. They r caring for you in their own quirky (not to mention frustrating) ways, albeit unasked for more often than not. Best thing u can do is ask your husband to communicate with your parents in law, and move out the min Ur BTO is ready. Living together will always cause friction.

Hug hug.