Paano ko ba maeencourage na pumasok ang little girl ko sa school. She's 3 years old and it seem like she's really not interested na mag-school. Nagulat ako nung sinabi nya sakin na: "Nanay, ayaw ko magschool gusto ko nalang mag-play." Pero gustong gusto nya bumibili ng school stuffs. Pero pag nagaaral kami sa bahay ayaw nyang magfocus kasi di sya interested. Pero pag interesado sya sa isang bagay, ang bilis nyang matuto.

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Baby steps mommy. Once ma-start niyang ma-appreciate ang school, hindi na niya gugustuhing umabsent. Son ko dati is puro play lang din ang gusto. Kaya nga pinaenrol ko siya dati kasi di ko talaga maturuan sa bahay, iba din kasi pag ibang tao nagtuturo sa kanya. So ang ginawa ko was nung start medyo may time kami tumambay sa school after class hours para may bonding session sila ng classmates and teacher. Eventually naging close sila nung classmates niya which translated into active participation nila sa classroom kasi parang play na lang sa kanila. Ngayon ayaw na ayaw niyang umabsent kahit na maysakit siya.

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sa personal experience ko mommy, nung 3 yrs old na baby ko, lagi kami nag rrole play kunyari ako ang teacher at sya ang student. Tinuturuan ko sya ng mga basic lang muna about colors, number, shapes. Then kunyari magtatanungan kami na parang ako talaga yung teacher nya at kinekwento ko din sa kanya na sa school madami sya magiging friends. unti unti lang mommy, yung ganyang age kasi gusto nyan puro playtime muna. hope makatulong :)

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Try to introduce her to activities done at school one step at a time. Take note of those things she loves and enjoys doing then do it repeatedly. Then introduce to her the idea of schooling. She'll get to do more of these things when she goes to school and help her to get the feeling of excitement. You can show her some videos or pictures of children her age who go to school and what they do.

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Siguro you can start enrolling her sa mga short classes lang like 1 month or mga trial classes lang para hindi sayang ang tuition in case umayaw sya bigla. At least you have exposed her sa mga classes and ma experience nya magkaroon ng teachers and classmates, malay mo magustuhan din nya eventually.

I was advised by many parents not to rush my kids going to school. We have to gauge if they into it already. Otherwise, they might not enjoy it and just feel pressured. Learning should be fun and easy. So I would suggest that you start teaching the child at home and see what areas interests him.

Ok lang po yan momsh, bata pa naman ang 3yrs old. For now hayaan mo lang sya mag enjoy then unti unti mong introduce ang mga activities like coloring, counting numbers, singing alphabet song, writing etc., pag na enjoy nya na yun sya mismo ang gugustuhin na pumasok na sa school.

Start at home, mommy. Pwede kayo parang roleplaying na nasa school, ikaw ang teacher and she's your student, until makita mo na nageenjoy na sya sa ganung set up. At least she'll have a feel kung ano ginagawa sa school. Pero haluan mo pa din ng play para hindi naman mabigla.

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Hi miiii .. There are kids na talaga namang ndi pa handang mag school at that age. So, let her be, guide her as much as you can but, that doesn't mean ndi mo na sya tuturuan sa bahay. So, keep encouraging lang hehe kasi for sure it's also not easy for them too.

You can try taking baby steps with her. Madami ang mga trial schools for kids na nakakatulong sa anxiety nila bout leaving home.