My first pregnancy

Married for 10+ years, first positive preg kit test. No symptoms for first 7 wks, thought I was damn lucky. Who knows, 1st day 7 week, i started to have brown spotting. Next day, became heavier dark red bleeding. Went to gynae, she did a scan n said sac is too small n asked me do a HCG blood test n put me on duphaston. Going back to do another blood test in 2 days time. Bleeding continues even after 2 tabs. Feeling sad, moody, asking heaven, after so many years, why give n take away? Sigh..... For those who brought their babies safely into this world, do treasure. Not say want, will have. The one thing I am still thankful, a husband who is always by my side, taking care of me, my diet n my chores. Update: Bb is gone with my hcg levels dropped tremendously ?

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Super Mum

Hi dear... big hug for you ❤️ You’re going through something very difficult, and I cannot imagine how you must be feeling. Please try to get some rest and remember to eat and take care of your body. Thank you for the reminder to treasure our children that were able to be born, and thank you for reminding us that even babies in the tummy deserve to be loved and treasured.

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Take good care yourself, don't be negative, since you can pregnant, that mean you will have another chance to get pregnant again. I'm married 6 years, then pregnant, but I'm lost my little girl 3 days before her EDD, her heart beat stopped without any reason. 8 months later god give me a little boy,now pregnant 31 weeks. Don't give up💪💪

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5y ago

Thanks for the kind words. It must have been devastated for you. Thank god for the sweet child you have now. Hugs.

Stay strong we also married for 8 years and tried for 2 years - in the end we conceived only through IVF after numerous injections, bad news on egg quality, scare during 5mth detailed scan etc. Thankful for my little girl who is 1 year old now. Don’t give up! Keep trying.

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Hi dear, I got pregnant after 7 yrs of trying. I know how it feels to patiently wait for it everyday. That's why I give all my heart to my son. I hope you can have another gift soon. Hugs for you 💕

Super Mum

Just to share if you have gastro related problems, do get it fixed as it can affect conceiving. This is what happen to my friend after she fixed her gastro issues and she finally conceived.

So sorry to hear about this. Stay strong, please remember to reach out to your close friends and family or even here if you need any form of support. God will make a way. 🙏🏽

Hey Dear, Big and hugs and support you way. I know it is difficult but please stay string and have lots of rest. Talk to your husband and your loved ones.

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Hi. Please do ur confinement well. Build ur body up and try again. Dont give up! Jy!!

So sorry to hear this. Stay strong!

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Stay strong 🌹 Come here *hugs* .