My mil can just talk to her and pat her, sometimes don't even need to carry, and she will go back n sleep while if it's me she yell even louder. Very frustrating as I can only quieten her down with milk and my mil will say that she wants to sleep not always drink milk and that I don't know how to read her cues and talk to her to calm her down. 🙄
I feel you! My LO stops crying when my helper and mil carry her. It’s upsetting but at least she finds comfort somewhere else. So I kept telling myself it will pass soon!
I have the exact same problem and I also give ebm! Except it’s not the mil but the nanny. I also keep wondering why.
Perhaps you are just feeling tensed, relax...babies can sense this things...
this phase will be over as soon as you know it