Stress And Depression

Hello, I'm 21 and 3 months pregnant. This is my first baby. I know the first trimester is very critical for the development of my baby but I've been really stressed and depressed since the very beginning of my pregnancy. It's because I feel like a failure for being pregnant this early. My family was really disappointed with me but eventually accepted the baby and supports me since I still don't have a job but I already graduated last April this year. Sometimes, I can't help to be depressed because my pregnancy was very sudden and I feel like I won't be successful because of what happened to me ? I also don't want to feel this way since it will affect my baby. I need some advices mommies. Thank you.

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Hi i'm a first time mom also but at the age of 23 at wala pa ako sa peak ng career ko nung nasa ibang bansa pako. Suddenly nabuntis din ako at need kong umuwi agad. I feel depressed dahil sa disappointment na naibigay ko sa lahat ng umaasa sakin. At first depressed and i struggled a lot but as days goes by lumalaki tyan ko at papalapit ng due date ko nagpakatatag ako for my baby. Sobrang hirap lalo na't single mom ako and no work na. I know God has a a better plan for me in the future. Kaya stay positive lang, and our baby is a blessing. At yang unexpected baby is a blessing in disguise, soon malalaman din natin why it is a blessing in disguise. For now be strong!

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