To share or not to?

I just recently found out that I am pregnant and have been keeping it a secret from our family members and many of our friends. I have a dear friend who have been TTC for over a year and I wouldn’t want her to be sad if I share the news with her but I’m sure she will be happy for me but you know.. sometimes this kind of friend is just too fragile you don’t wanna hurt her feelings but at the same time you don’t wanna keep it from her either, cause you don’t want her to think that you think she might feel hurt. I don’t know, we are not that close but of all the times, she was there on my solemnization day and allowed me to squeeze her hands. She’s those kind of friend who will be there if you need her though you don’t communicate as frequently. Would you tell her or just keep it a secret until you give birth?

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I would tell her honestly, and yes the truth may hurt her. But do encourage to not give up and do your best to be there for her, when she needs a listening ear :)

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It's better to share with her the news and if she's truly a friend she'll be happy for you(:

Better tell her now than when you give birth and she feels you didn't include her etc...

I will tell her. It's better than her having to find out from someone else

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Better to tell her than she found out herself

I would still tell her :)

tell her but be tactful

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I would tell her..

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I would tell her.

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better to share..