Sounds very similar to my case. Fat hubby, straightforward family and competition among in laws.
My husband is also fat. My mum and sister like to "attack" him for that. I always protect him as being fat is not what he want. He need panadol after talking to my family (I must protect him also because he protect me very well in his family). Pity him.. He become fatter after stress with them. More gas accumulated in stomach.
Competition among in laws is very common. My husband feel jealous when I talk good about my sisters husband and sometimes he will compared himself to them. I can see my sis husband comparing themselves to my husband too.. Haih. Men fight. I told my husband let it be healthy competition and don't affect family harmony. So he speak up and fight for himself in a humorous way. I can see the opponents attack him less nowadays. At the same time i'll show some signals to my sis and let her feel my unhappiness
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