Do you hate your spouse?

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In a relationship, there is sure to have love-hate feelings. U love ur spouse, tatz y u have expectations towards them. When spouse dun meet ur expectations, u will tend to hate him/her. Get rid of ur expectations n try to learn to love ur spouse for who he/she is.

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No... But I will say that in the first month after giving birth I had some resentment that he got to sleep through while I had to wake up and pump/feed baby. But after that he also did his part la, and probably the effect of the postpartum hormones tapered off too.

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Any person usually feels hatred for their spouse when they have many issues amongst them. It is always better to sort everything out sooner or later so that both are at peace with themselves as well as each other.

TapFluencer

What’s the point of having a spouse if you hate him? Hate is a very strong term in a relationship. It does not create a healthy relationship at all. Do you really want to be in such a situation?

i love but hate him as well. and i don't know if that's the right term to describe it. at times i feel so much hate that i wanna kill him, the next minute i feel so much pain in my heart.

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No...he’s my spouse, I love him through and through... why would I harbour such feeling? Annoyed, irritated maybe...but only rarely.

Super Mum

Nope, don’t hate him. Just annoyed sometimes. Haha.. But I guess that’s what marriage is right? It’s not all rosy 365 days.. :)

TapFluencer

Hate is a very powerful word. Suggest you talk to your spouse and settle things before this feeling escalated further

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Sometimes will feel irritated when we have some argument, but of course not until hate this extend.